Now on topic of dating sites. I had the hardest time finding anyone, cuz in conservative third world countries there are not a lot of guys using those sites and there are only like 2 sites for gay dating. So out of pool of 500 people in your entire country and like 100 in the capital, imagine having to find a normal guy that you like when you throw away those that are too old/young, arent attracted to you, you are not attracted to them, those that look for a quick **** only, and so on. So you are basically left with like 2-3 guys that may or may not like you once you go out with them and then you are ****ed.
It's so ****ing depressing and you cant even confide in anyone and talk about your problems so you are just left to deal with it alone like some leper.
But generally i think it is better to try and meet people face to face and bypass those apps and sites altogether and save yourself from idiots, psychos (i was almost raped once by a guy that i met online
) and dumb guys.
but this other guy who knew both of us told me that he had herpes) so I was the one who broke it to him that he might have it too. The whole thing was a MESS. 
but the gerls can be a mess.