I don't understand how people are confused. She said the video was "tongue-in-cheek" meaning it was a fun interpretation. Think of it this way, instead of "****ing people's bodies" she "****ed UP people's bodies". Although it's implied she seduces them first anyway. She just wants to keep it PG.
Now, do you really think the video could be on TV for a long time if it was that violent/that sexual as the song implies? That's especially why they couldn't use red blood in the bathroom scene... it would warrant a censorship warning or be pulled from TV. Blood = instant PG-14. The video could get banned pretty quickly or at least held back on plays. Dirrty was banned in several countries, and in Canada (when it was released), it had to be played with a censorship warning beforehand. She made the song and the video TV friendly, I think she did well.
And it's amusing that the people that really complain about her being too sexy complaining that she didn't sex it up more. Really? Just gotta find something negative to say and that's the best you can do
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