I don't think there is much else I can do for NotTonightTho. I'm guessing he is really young and has a lot to learn.
I'm sure every black person (including me) was like him at one point in our lives. Very naive. Thinking that because we can't see the chains on our arms, they don't exist (figuratively speaking). Just because black people don't get lynched anymore and we can now drink from the same fountains in school, that there is no such thing as white privilege.
And that is the problem. We acknowledge things from a very young age, like white superiority. From 5 we look at the big men in suits on the news, "oh there is a white man here", we look at the people in power "all white men", we look at who shaped our country and who brought about civilization, all the important most influential people we are taught about as compulsorary curricular - All white men. We watch a drake and josh movie and the only black person to have a role is a role of an imprisoned felon
And we take it all in. And we grow up accepting that. Because we accept it, it doesn't change, it is the norm. Until we open are eyes, and realize that we are not treated as equal and it is wrong. And luckily, more and more people are starting to open their eyes. Especially in Africa.
But sadly we will always get people like this kelly stan who is in serious denial. They will put everything down to coincidence, from small things like our so called "flesh coloured" plasters (which does not look no where near the complexion of ethnic skin), to bigger things like the Trayvon Martin case down to coincidence. They just push it aside, and eat their nutella sandwich.
This is something NotTonightTho must learn from himself. The hardway, sadly.