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Originally posted by HausOfJabril
adsaskindasdas @ you not getting what I said at all. I meant we are all GAY, not the SAME PERSON, i.e. personality and etc. I'm saying if we can't accept all gay people no matter personality, then why should the majority of people in society accept us no matter sexuality?
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Originally posted by BoyOnBoy Wonder
Well how about you hide in a little cave then where you can feel safe from all the masculine girls and feminine boys breaking heteronormative standards!
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Originally posted by BabyCantYouSee
Yes. But really feminine girls annoy me as well lol
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Oh well that's called misogyny lol
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Originally posted by Retro Dance Freak
Nope, exaggeration either way for attention is annoying. It's just that this thread specifically asked about feminine gay men. I dislike when people try to be something they're not because they think it will get them attention or they think it will make them look cool. It's sad that people can't just be themselves without being so afraid of what others think. Again, if someone really is very masculine or feminine then more power to them, but there are times when you really can tell that someone is just acting in an exaggerated manner for attention. I know several gay guys who act overly masculine so people don't assume they're gay, as they're not completely out of the closet, and others who act overly feminine for attention.
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But it's ALWAYS and ONLY brought up immediately in fem gay threads. People always jump to say "no, only the exaggerated/fake ones," but you don't see that happen in threads about other kinds of people! Like, if someone made this thread about whether "masculine gay guys bother you," nobody would qualify their answer of "no" by saying what you said! Except you can't imagine that happening because the question would never be asked. OF COURSE masculine gay guys don't bother you because masculine people are of course superior. Eh? And what is "REALLY" feminine or masculine? Who are we to decide how real someone is or how they should act? Why can't they act a certain way to make friends? I'm pretty sure all these opinions of yours are informed by the society around you, too. Sorry to beat on you, because this isn't aimed at you, but the half-formed, entitled attitude I'm seeing is just too common among gay men and it needs to stop.