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Discussion: Dirty Talk (NSFW)
Member Since: 8/16/2011
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Originally posted by Gagasm
I see. Tell me more Van.
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Wait what? 
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Member Since: 9/16/2011
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Originally posted by Ømega
Thats all u can do but i dont see why people have to get so tore up about it and get mad like its not that serious bro |
If its not that serious why don't YOU bottom?
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Member Since: 9/16/2011
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Originally posted by VAN de
Finally someone who cares. 
It's not so much hot as it is sad (for me) tho.
 BackgroundSo brief to you up, basically my straight friend had been such a tease for the past few months and particularly over the summer. He'd make comments about my body when we wemt swimming and he'd purposely misconstrue what I said to make it seem like I was flirting. For example, I'd say something like "That movie's cool" and he'd turn around and look at me and say "What? You think I'm cute?" and I'd blush and quickly try to explain myself and he'd say "Oh it's okay man. I know I'm cute" then laugh.
At first I didn't really pay attention to it, but we basically started hypertexting these past few months and I started to develop feelings. To my surprise, I would even text him more than I would my girl friends and he'd be totally invested in the conversation. It was the first time since I got my phone that I had to clear out the messages for more room.
October, I decided to be bold and I came out to him and he was cool with it. I was surprised since he was raised in a church family, but he said he could accept me for who I was. I thought that was a green light so then a week later I told him that I kinda liked him and he was just "cool" with it. No negative or positive reaction. He just told me he was straight, but again he could accept me for who I was...blah...blah...blah. It was just so disappointing. (maybe I should be thankful he didn't flip out). 
I think he expected things to go back to the way they were before, but I couldn't do that since I had to keep my distance in hopes my feelings would die out. I eventually stopped feeding our text conversations and by November, we were virtually not texting anymore. We had become good friends from working out together, but I also stopped going to the gym with him and basically distanced myself.
Come December, he began to actively seek me out whether it was to force me to the gym, study with him, or even go watch a movie...just the two of us. I told my girl friends this and they said just from looking at him, he looked a bit unsure. One pointed out that he had dated some of their friends, but it was never long term. I thought it was unfair to question his sexuality simply cuz he hadn't found a girl he wanted to be with long term, so I decided to try to be as platonic about our friendship as I could though at times it seemed he was flirting.
So last week, before school went out, we teamed up for a group project and we basically spent the whole day at my house. I made him lunch and he liked it and I ended up making us more food. It was like my perfect scenario. I was finally cooking for my man.  I know I'm pretty much pathetic.  Last Week
Long story short, we took a break to watch TV and I was flipping through the program guide when he told me to stop on a show. I was like, "Nah, doesn't look good". He laughed and started reaching for the remote, it was like a mini wrestling match and I felt his crotch against my leg  . It took everything I had not to get a boner, but I think I did go semi hard because after a little struggling, he was leaning over me and we were face to face with our faces almost touching. I could feel his breath on my face and we just sat there for like 5 seconds without saying anything.
It doesn't seem like much while I'm typing it out, but 4/5 seconds felt like an eternity in the moment. So many thoughts were racing through my mind. It was like that 3 sec window where you have to decide to just go for something or you never will. Well I didn't go for it and he just kinda got off and let me pick the channel. We sat there awkwardly for a minute or two until we started talking about our project or some ****...and that was the rest of the night...
At this point, I don't know what to think. I'm sorta over him, but I don't want to miss out on anything. At the same time I can't force him to do anything he doesn't want to do, even if he is gay. It's a sad world in a small city where the gays are afraid to come out. |
OMG THAT WAS THE PERFECT TIME TO KISS HIM!!! He was waiting for you to make the first move!
But I know its risky, you don't want to lose him or anything  But you could have at least kissed lightly, if he gets pissed of and leaves, then there's drama!
I LOVE DRAMA! You could be trying to apologize and everything, saying your sorry, and then he's like I had enough of you, and then a week later you start ignoring him, being mean, and then he starts coming after you saying he wants you etc...
Drama spices things up..
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Member Since: 8/16/2011
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Originally posted by .aR
OMG THAT WAS THE PERFECT TIME TO KISS HIM!!! He was waiting for you to make the first move!
But I know its risky, you don't want to lose him or anything But you could have at least kissed lightly, if he gets pissed of and leaves, then there's drama!
I LOVE DRAMA! You could be trying to apologize and everything, saying your sorry, and then he's like I had enough of you, and then a week later you start ignoring him, being mean, and then he starts coming after you saying he wants you etc...
Drama spices things up.. |
I wish my life was just like the romantic comedies. Lol. The worst part is I'll forget that he's "straight" cuz he makes it so inviting to flirt with him and I'll flirt with him and get all touchy feely, but then feel bad about it and stop. When I do that, he asks me what's wrong and I have to tell him everything's okay and so on.
The way he reacts makes it seem like if I'm not all over him, he thinks I'm mad. He's either egotistical and likes the attention or doesn't want me to lose interest. All I know for sure though is that this game is gonna end in 2012. I'm moving on if nothing happens by that point. 
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Member Since: 6/15/2011
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Originally posted by .aR
OMG THAT WAS THE PERFECT TIME TO KISS HIM!!! He was waiting for you to make the first move!
But I know its risky, you don't want to lose him or anything But you could have at least kissed lightly, if he gets pissed of and leaves, then there's drama!
I LOVE DRAMA! You could be trying to apologize and everything, saying your sorry, and then he's like I had enough of you, and then a week later you start ignoring him, being mean, and then he starts coming after you saying he wants you etc...
Drama spices things up.. |
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Member Since: 9/3/2011
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i'm expecting more straight boy teas tonight gerls....i hope you're prepared 
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Member Since: 6/15/2011
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Originally posted by Katy.Kat.23
i'm expecting more straight boy teas tonight gerls....i hope you're prepared |
i can make up a story... like someone just did.
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Member Since: 9/3/2011
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Originally posted by b3dro
i can make up a story... like someone just did.
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straight boy teas as in i'm about to get some pics
my previous work
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Member Since: 9/3/2011
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one sexy naked boy in my inbox...wanna see?
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Member Since: 1/3/2010
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Originally posted by VAN de
Finally someone who cares.
It's not so much hot as it is sad (for me) tho.
Background
So brief to you up, basically my straight friend had been such a tease for the past few months and particularly over the summer. He'd make comments about my body when we wemt swimming and he'd purposely misconstrue what I said to make it seem like I was flirting. For example, I'd say something like "That movie's cool" and he'd turn around and look at me and say "What? You think I'm cute?" and I'd blush and quickly try to explain myself and he'd say "Oh it's okay man. I know I'm cute" then laugh.
At first I didn't really pay attention to it, but we basically started hypertexting these past few months and I started to develop feelings. To my surprise, I would even text him more than I would my girl friends and he'd be totally invested in the conversation. It was the first time since I got my phone that I had to clear out the messages for more room.
October, I decided to be bold and I came out to him and he was cool with it. I was surprised since he was raised in a church family, but he said he could accept me for who I was. I thought that was a green light so then a week later I told him that I kinda liked him and he was just "cool" with it. No negative or positive reaction. He just told me he was straight, but again he could accept me for who I was...blah...blah...blah. It was just so disappointing. (maybe I should be thankful he didn't flip out).
I think he expected things to go back to the way they were before, but I couldn't do that since I had to keep my distance in hopes my feelings would die out. I eventually stopped feeding our text conversations and by November, we were virtually not texting anymore. We had become good friends from working out together, but I also stopped going to the gym with him and basically distanced myself.
Come December, he began to actively seek me out whether it was to force me to the gym, study with him, or even go watch a movie...just the two of us. I told my girl friends this and they said just from looking at him, he looked a bit unsure. One pointed out that he had dated some of their friends, but it was never long term. I thought it was unfair to question his sexuality simply cuz he hadn't found a girl he wanted to be with long term, so I decided to try to be as platonic about our friendship as I could though at times it seemed he was flirting.
So last week, before school went out, we teamed up for a group project and we basically spent the whole day at my house. I made him lunch and he liked it and I ended up making us more food. It was like my perfect scenario. I was finally cooking for my man. I know I'm pretty much pathetic. Last Week
Long story short, we took a break to watch TV and I was flipping through the program guide when he told me to stop on a show. I was like, "Nah, doesn't look good". He laughed and started reaching for the remote, it was like a mini wrestling match and I felt his crotch against my leg . It took everything I had not to get a boner, but I think I did go semi hard because after a little struggling, he was leaning over me and we were face to face with our faces almost touching. I could feel his breath on my face and we just sat there for like 5 seconds without saying anything.
It doesn't seem like much while I'm typing it out, but 4/5 seconds felt like an eternity in the moment. So many thoughts were racing through my mind. It was like that 3 sec window where you have to decide to just go for something or you never will. Well I didn't go for it and he just kinda got off and let me pick the channel. We sat there awkwardly for a minute or two until we started talking about our project or some ****...and that was the rest of the night...
At this point, I don't know what to think. I'm sorta over him, but I don't want to miss out on anything. At the same time I can't force him to do anything he doesn't want to do, even if he is gay. It's a sad world in a small city where the gays are afraid to come out. |
I'm about to dive into this story, girl.
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Member Since: 11/23/2011
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Originally posted by JonathanLGardner
Sorry
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OMG!
It's Joan!
Where haaaave yoou bee-en?
Really. I need the new season of mad men to get here.
Reading this thread and seeing the gif reminds me of that rape scene on the show. They show it and never talk about it after! Women had it rough back then. 
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Originally posted by Katy.Kat.23
one sexy naked boy in my inbox...wanna see? |
You know you wanna post it!
I wanna see!
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Originally posted by VAN de
Finally someone who cares.
It's not so much hot as it is sad (for me) tho.
Background
So brief to you up, basically my straight friend had been such a tease for the past few months and particularly over the summer. He'd make comments about my body when we wemt swimming and he'd purposely misconstrue what I said to make it seem like I was flirting. For example, I'd say something like "That movie's cool" and he'd turn around and look at me and say "What? You think I'm cute?" and I'd blush and quickly try to explain myself and he'd say "Oh it's okay man. I know I'm cute" then laugh.
At first I didn't really pay attention to it, but we basically started hypertexting these past few months and I started to develop feelings. To my surprise, I would even text him more than I would my girl friends and he'd be totally invested in the conversation. It was the first time since I got my phone that I had to clear out the messages for more room.
October, I decided to be bold and I came out to him and he was cool with it. I was surprised since he was raised in a church family, but he said he could accept me for who I was. I thought that was a green light so then a week later I told him that I kinda liked him and he was just "cool" with it. No negative or positive reaction. He just told me he was straight, but again he could accept me for who I was...blah...blah...blah. It was just so disappointing. (maybe I should be thankful he didn't flip out).
I think he expected things to go back to the way they were before, but I couldn't do that since I had to keep my distance in hopes my feelings would die out. I eventually stopped feeding our text conversations and by November, we were virtually not texting anymore. We had become good friends from working out together, but I also stopped going to the gym with him and basically distanced myself.
Come December, he began to actively seek me out whether it was to force me to the gym, study with him, or even go watch a movie...just the two of us. I told my girl friends this and they said just from looking at him, he looked a bit unsure. One pointed out that he had dated some of their friends, but it was never long term. I thought it was unfair to question his sexuality simply cuz he hadn't found a girl he wanted to be with long term, so I decided to try to be as platonic about our friendship as I could though at times it seemed he was flirting.
So last week, before school went out, we teamed up for a group project and we basically spent the whole day at my house. I made him lunch and he liked it and I ended up making us more food. It was like my perfect scenario. I was finally cooking for my man. I know I'm pretty much pathetic. Last Week
Long story short, we took a break to watch TV and I was flipping through the program guide when he told me to stop on a show. I was like, "Nah, doesn't look good". He laughed and started reaching for the remote, it was like a mini wrestling match and I felt his crotch against my leg . It took everything I had not to get a boner, but I think I did go semi hard because after a little struggling, he was leaning over me and we were face to face with our faces almost touching. I could feel his breath on my face and we just sat there for like 5 seconds without saying anything.
It doesn't seem like much while I'm typing it out, but 4/5 seconds felt like an eternity in the moment. So many thoughts were racing through my mind. It was like that 3 sec window where you have to decide to just go for something or you never will. Well I didn't go for it and he just kinda got off and let me pick the channel. We sat there awkwardly for a minute or two until we started talking about our project or some ****...and that was the rest of the night...
At this point, I don't know what to think. I'm sorta over him, but I don't want to miss out on anything. At the same time I can't force him to do anything he doesn't want to do, even if he is gay. It's a sad world in a small city where the gays are afraid to come out. |
aww. . . that is sad.
it sounds like he likes being around you/the attention from you.
and you like being around him too. until you feel bad for having feelings for a guy that you are trying to get over.
if you really want to know, then you are going to have to express your feelings for him, and not just by coming out to him or cooking for him.
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Member Since: 7/10/2010
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Originally posted by VAN de
Finally someone who cares.
It's not so much hot as it is sad (for me) tho.
Background
So brief to you up, basically my straight friend had been such a tease for the past few months and particularly over the summer. He'd make comments about my body when we wemt swimming and he'd purposely misconstrue what I said to make it seem like I was flirting. For example, I'd say something like "That movie's cool" and he'd turn around and look at me and say "What? You think I'm cute?" and I'd blush and quickly try to explain myself and he'd say "Oh it's okay man. I know I'm cute" then laugh.
At first I didn't really pay attention to it, but we basically started hypertexting these past few months and I started to develop feelings. To my surprise, I would even text him more than I would my girl friends and he'd be totally invested in the conversation. It was the first time since I got my phone that I had to clear out the messages for more room.
October, I decided to be bold and I came out to him and he was cool with it. I was surprised since he was raised in a church family, but he said he could accept me for who I was. I thought that was a green light so then a week later I told him that I kinda liked him and he was just "cool" with it. No negative or positive reaction. He just told me he was straight, but again he could accept me for who I was...blah...blah...blah. It was just so disappointing. (maybe I should be thankful he didn't flip out).
I think he expected things to go back to the way they were before, but I couldn't do that since I had to keep my distance in hopes my feelings would die out. I eventually stopped feeding our text conversations and by November, we were virtually not texting anymore. We had become good friends from working out together, but I also stopped going to the gym with him and basically distanced myself.
Come December, he began to actively seek me out whether it was to force me to the gym, study with him, or even go watch a movie...just the two of us. I told my girl friends this and they said just from looking at him, he looked a bit unsure. One pointed out that he had dated some of their friends, but it was never long term. I thought it was unfair to question his sexuality simply cuz he hadn't found a girl he wanted to be with long term, so I decided to try to be as platonic about our friendship as I could though at times it seemed he was flirting.
So last week, before school went out, we teamed up for a group project and we basically spent the whole day at my house. I made him lunch and he liked it and I ended up making us more food. It was like my perfect scenario. I was finally cooking for my man. I know I'm pretty much pathetic. Last Week
Long story short, we took a break to watch TV and I was flipping through the program guide when he told me to stop on a show. I was like, "Nah, doesn't look good". He laughed and started reaching for the remote, it was like a mini wrestling match and I felt his crotch against my leg . It took everything I had not to get a boner, but I think I did go semi hard because after a little struggling, he was leaning over me and we were face to face with our faces almost touching. I could feel his breath on my face and we just sat there for like 5 seconds without saying anything.
It doesn't seem like much while I'm typing it out, but 4/5 seconds felt like an eternity in the moment. So many thoughts were racing through my mind. It was like that 3 sec window where you have to decide to just go for something or you never will. Well I didn't go for it and he just kinda got off and let me pick the channel. We sat there awkwardly for a minute or two until we started talking about our project or some ****...and that was the rest of the night...
At this point, I don't know what to think. I'm sorta over him, but I don't want to miss out on anything. At the same time I can't force him to do anything he doesn't want to do, even if he is gay. It's a sad world in a small city where the gays are afraid to come out. |
Hummmm, take advantage of this he is curious yall need to start exploring cuz **** if he lend on me like that i would have licked my lips and told him to kiss me
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Originally posted by .aR
If its not that serious why don't YOU bottom?
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I dont nut when i bottom.. Secondly, i only do quickies when i TOP i can get the job done in like 15 mins.. I nut i leave his house im good 
its not all that serious when there are hundreds of guys u can meet if it dosent work out it dosent work out.. move on its not the end of life 
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Member Since: 9/16/2011
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Originally posted by VAN de
I wish my life was just like the romantic comedies. Lol. The worst part is I'll forget that he's "straight" cuz he makes it so inviting to flirt with him and I'll flirt with him and get all touchy feely, but then feel bad about it and stop. When I do that, he asks me what's wrong and I have to tell him everything's okay and so on.
The way he reacts makes it seem like if I'm not all over him, he thinks I'm mad. He's either egotistical and likes the attention or doesn't want me to lose interest. All I know for sure though is that this game is gonna end in 2012. I'm moving on if nothing happens by that point. |
Or you could get another buddy/boyfriend (but dont tell him, make him look like a friend) AND MAKE HIM JEALOUS
Ingredients/Apparatus:
A chosen friend (ONLY ONE) -needs to be close, and it needs to seem like you are replacing him with this friend
Plan 1
Whenever he asks u if he can come over, or asks if you wanna hang out at xxday, you say sorry, can't I'm hanging out with *NameOfYourFriend* every time he asks you that. So he'll get jealous that you replaced him with this guy, and he'll go crazy and all that.
(Every time he asks you, text your friend and make plans)
Plan 2
You could say okay, lets go whenever he asks you to hang out at the cinema and stuff with him, accept but when you go there bring your chosen friend along too. So when you go to the cinema, shops etc, focus all your attention on this friend, ignoring this guy so he'll get jealous/
Plan 3:
Every time he wants to hang out you can just say I have plans (when you don't), and then he'll be like okay, and then go on facebook/ichat/skype soo after he asks that and then he'll come to know that you lied and you actually don't have plans. So he'll think that you don't want to be around him or that e's not important, so he'll try harder to get closer to you etc.
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U is asking fa drama. a guy did that to me that pissed me off
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Member Since: 11/19/2011
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ANYONE HAVE A LINK TO THIS VIDEO
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Member Since: 6/20/2011
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Originally posted by B[2]D
ANYONE HAVE A LINK TO THIS VIDEO
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OMG, SOMEONE PLEASE POST
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Member Since: 12/31/2008
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Originally posted by B[2]D
ANYONE HAVE A LINK TO THIS VIDEO
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It`s on men.com, they just show a trailer for free, if you want the full movie you have to pay. 
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Member Since: 11/6/2011
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he is so hot
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Member Since: 6/20/2011
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Originally posted by alexanderBG
he is so hot
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I thought you worshipped the black rod? 
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Member Since: 11/6/2011
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Originally posted by JonathanLGardner
I thought you worshipped the black rod? |
it doesn't matter
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