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Celeb News: Rihanna: "Chris Brown needed help"
Member Since: 8/10/2010
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Originally posted by XXXO
I get what she feels, but I think Rihanna is trying again to make the world forgives him as she did with the remix stuff. She's talking in past tense, like what he did to her is something that can be justified, and I do think she will never be happy unless she is back with him again. I don't think this kind of love she feels is easy to find in another person as some of you are saying. It's sad but it's something she can't help..
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It's not easy to her because she's not open and willing to find it.
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Member Since: 3/24/2012
Posts: 4,192
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Originally posted by EnoughSaid
I don't know why you guys are saying people are being judgement, and what? She's a global superstar, an icon to a lot of young girls. You'd be surprised how many girls are actually KILLED by being in an abusive relationship. Rihanna keeps showing how weak she is and is defending the abuser. She is going to convince these young girls out there that they can save their abusive boyfriends, needless to say - they can't. And that will wind up being their lives on the line.
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I mean, it's not really her responsibility tho... they have parents.
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Member Since: 6/9/2012
Posts: 966
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Originally posted by Onen
It's not easy to her because she's not open and willing to find it.
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She literally could have any man she wants, she is always partying and meeting people all around the world. I mean, if she can't feel anything for anyone and is still (3 years later) crying when she talks about him, posting some melancholy things on Instagram and Twitter, and looking serious all the time (can someone remember how Rihanna was before the incident? She was always happy, smiling, and not seeking attention as she does now) is because of SHE CAN'T forget him. And I really think she has tried too much.
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Member Since: 8/10/2010
Posts: 9,489
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Originally posted by XXXO
She literally could have any man she wants, she is always partying and meeting people all around the world. I mean, if she can't feel anything for anyone and is still (3 years later) crying when she talks about him, posting some melancholy things on Instagram and Twitter, and looking serious all the time (can someone remember how Rihanna was before the incident? She was always happy, smiling, and not seeking attention as she does now) is because of SHE CAN'T forget him. And I really think she has tried too much.
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She does not want to forget him, and she's not trying to find someone else to love these are facts because if she was she wouldn't be so unhappy. She may party and meet people all around the world but if she's not gonna put any effort in to try and find love then she will stay unhappy.
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Member Since: 8/1/2012
Posts: 15,668
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Originally posted by SLAYANNA NAVY
First of all...she didn't write the lyrics for WFL or LTWYL so THAT is a load of bull. Secondly if you really are " TeamRHI" you would have read that she actually wanted James Franco to be the male lead role in the video. Hand in your stanning card when your done reading.
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NO ****.
My name, "TeamRHI", is not "TeamRIH", as you seem to think it is. RHI stands for something else.
LTWYL was written by Skylar Grey, who I also stan for more than Rihanna. Rihanna accepted the song, thats what I'm talking about.
And WFL's VIDEO is what I'm talking about, the entire premise which Rihanna accepted. I know that Calvin wrote the lyrics/beat/etc., thats a no-brainer.
Do people actually think RHI means RIH?
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Member Since: 9/10/2011
Posts: 1,510
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Originally posted by Muggwa
He TRIED to kill her. Operative word being "tried." It IS her business, seeing as she's the victim in this situation, and if it isn't mine it certainly isn't your either so you can stop with that.
What excuses did I make for her? What did she even do that has to be excused? Your logic is inconsistent.
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Wont value your opinion bye just twisting my words.....In EVERY interview she talks abt it as if it was the best thing happened to her. NOBODY CAN CHANGE WHAT HAPPENED & they are not together so move on! talk about her music, her success etc damn so boring the same subject over & over.
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Member Since: 6/4/2010
Posts: 38,919
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Originally posted by ItsKingsleyBitch
Shut up with that icon/role model bull****. The raising of a child happens IN THE HOUSEHOLD. If girls are looking to ROBYN RIHANNA FENTY for guidance on relationships and life, they have way bigger problems and need to sort their life out or be placed into foster care because of the failure of their parents.
Rihanna is LIVING HER LIFE - y'all always expecting somebody to behave differently or do things in line with your own standards and beliefs - but we don't KNOW them, we don't KNOW what happened that night, we don't KNOW how much in love Rihanna was, we actually really don't even know what type of person Chris is - all these are factors.
Y'all always yelling at Rihanna to "get over it" and **** but I'm willing to bet if your ass was in a serious relationship and your partner beat your ass, you wouldn't be as strong as you think. It's DEEPER than that. It's not a joke, getting on ATRL being like "girl bye, leave his ass, get over it" - it's not a simple "goodbye" - and while y'all may not respect that, stop acting like you can't comprehend and empathize. Damn.
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Basically. I can tell so many of these girls have never been in love with someone.
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Member Since: 9/17/2011
Posts: 9,051
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Originally posted by BeamMeUp
This makes her 2009 interview look so insincere!
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she said the same exact thing in her 2009 interview...
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Member Since: 2/29/2012
Posts: 17,071
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Originally posted by ItsKingsleyBitch
True.
But where would you say is the line between a celebrity living for themselves and living for everyone else?
And not even celebrities, but regular people too? One of my best friends went back to a boyfriend after he abused her and I was literally so paranoid and so worried for her, and so were our other friends, and I hated her decision. But one day she talked to me and she was like "You guys don't get it" and she explained to me how it feels to be with someone every day, to love them, to hold them, to be completely happy and one day, they just snap. And it's hard for us to understand, obviously, because we're not them.
For us, it's like "LEAVE" but to her, it's complicated. So many hours, days, months, years, time invested into someone, into being together, into a relationship, into love - and some expect her to just be able to forget it and act like it never happened?
I don't support getting back with abusers, and I will never support getting back with abusers; I just think some of you should try putting yourself in Rihanna's shoes and stop worrying about her "being a role model."
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May sound a bit crazy but I always felt a bit bad for Rih because I felt as though she was pretty much forced to leave after the incident really blew up, even though it was the right thing to do, there was so much pressure. She never got to really leave on her own terms, to have her own set decision. It was to leave now and "do the right thing" - make the public happy, and as a result, harbor these unresolved feelings for him that would just end up catching up with her later.
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Member Since: 9/11/2010
Posts: 14,221
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A lot of people who break up with their ex post random domestic violence ala Riri & Chris sometimes suffer from a "lack of closure" if you will. When you have a couple that has been on the verge of breaking up for a while, sometimes its not so heartbreaking. When you have someone like Rihanna who apparently didn't want to break up with the good side of Chris and their relationship, its hard for them to move on. Its like they never got real closure on it. **** happens in life all the time. And while I don't condone Chris or his actions or even think she should get back with him, its not my life and I'm not her. Sometimes people look at the bad and the good of the relationship and the good overshadows the bad. We weren't IN that relationship and we don't know all that much about them as a couple. Maybe in her mind, the good was just SO good, that she can't give that up, despite how bad the bad was. Doesn't make it okay, but I wouldn't say she has "stockholm syndrome". Those saying that clearly don't know what that is.
If she had "Stockholm Syndrome", she wouldn't have broken up with him, and she would think she "deserved it" and that "he loves her" and is "just looking out for me", etc. They don't feel like a victim, they feel like they deserve what they get. Clearly, Rihanna isn't that far gone.
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Member Since: 12/7/2011
Posts: 21,578
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Originally posted by TeamRHI
NO ****.
My name, "TeamRHI", is not "TeamRIH", as you seem to think it is. RHI stands for something else.
LTWYL was written by Skylar Grey, who I also stan for more than Rihanna. Rihanna accepted the song, thats what I'm talking about.
And WFL's VIDEO is what I'm talking about, the entire premise which Rihanna accepted. I know that Calvin wrote the lyrics/beat/etc., thats a no-brainer.
Do people actually think RHI means RIH?
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BUT like I said she wanted James Franco for the lead role, she didn't want Chris Brown comparisons. BYE!
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Member Since: 7/9/2009
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Originally posted by slimmaz
I completely agree.
To those saying that her 2009 interview seems insincere I don't think it seems insincere I think she was just misguided and under a lot of scrutiny and a lot of pressure. She kinda had to be a role model and be an advocate and that was her biggest mistake. There is no doubt in my mind that Rihanna feels the same way today as she did in 2009. She loved and still loves Chris Brown and would be with him in a heartbeat. The only difference is that she was a lot easier influenced by her label and the general public to leave him and speak out against him as she is now. Now she just doesnt give a **** she's gon do what she wants regardless of what errbody gotta say (BC Remix) Anyone with half a brain could tell she didnt want Breezy to suffer. i mean we've seen the footage in court where the judge tells her she shouldn't have contact with him and that he has to stay away from her (she was not happy about it) She ended her Rated R era very quickly and doesn't sing any songs from that album except Hard and RB and not any of the songs that reference her "pain" and "anguish" It's so obvious she was over it really quickly. The girl fell in love and fell really hard and as misguided as it was it's not something any of us are in any position to judge her about.
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I agree. I think her label was in damage control mode when it happened/before Rated R. She had to appear as that strong, confident woman that was leaving a man behind. Or maybe she was trying to be strong and move on for herself! Either way, feelings and emotions change and you're right: she fell in love and none of it is easy.
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Member Since: 7/9/2009
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Originally posted by kitten****
May sound a bit crazy but I always felt a bit bad for Rih because I felt as though she was pretty much forced to leave after the incident really blew up, even though it was the right thing to do, there was so much pressure. She never got to really leave on her own terms, to have her own set decision. It was to leave now and "do the right thing" - make the public happy, and as a result, harbor these unresolved feelings for him that would just end up catching up with her later.
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That's not crazy, that makes perfect sense and is basically true. Compare Rihanna in that situation to a normal individual in that situation; the privacy is gone. Everybody knew what she was doing; everybody was judging.
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Member Since: 8/10/2010
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Originally posted by dperkins
A lot of people who break up with their ex post random domestic violence ala Riri & Chris sometimes suffer from a "lack of closure" if you will. When you have a couple that has been on the verge of breaking up for a while, sometimes its not so heartbreaking. When you have someone like Rihanna who apparently didn't want to break up with the good side of Chris and their relationship, its hard for them to move on. Its like they never got real closure on it. **** happens in life all the time. And while I don't condone Chris or his actions or even think she should get back with him, its not my life and I'm not her. Sometimes people look at the bad and the good of the relationship and the good overshadows the bad. We weren't IN that relationship and we don't know all that much about them as a couple. Maybe in her mind, the good was just SO good, that she can't give that up, despite how bad the bad was. Doesn't make it okay, but I wouldn't say she has "stockholm syndrome". Those saying that clearly don't know what that is.
If she had "Stockholm Syndrome", she wouldn't have broken up with him, and she would think she "deserved it" and that "he loves her" and is "just looking out for me", etc. They don't feel like a victim, they feel like they deserve what they get. Clearly, Rihanna isn't that far gone.
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So the quote she said about not looking at the "source", she wasn't talking about herself?
And didn't she get back with him right after it happened? If it wasn't for the public she'd still be with him.
And Maybe that is the case, but once someone attacks you THAT bad, that BAD should over weigh the "good", because it could happen again.
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Member Since: 3/11/2012
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Gwerl, you never learn, don't you
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Member Since: 8/1/2012
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Originally posted by SLAYANNA NAVY
BUT like I said she wanted James Franco for the lead role, she didn't want Chris Brown comparisons. BYE!
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Fair enough.
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Member Since: 12/22/2009
Posts: 23,538
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Riri what did you sau gurl?
Kinda feel like she was more concerened with helping his image.
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Member Since: 5/7/2012
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Member Since: 3/6/2011
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such a sweetheart though, you can genuinely see she's a good person.
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Member Since: 2/29/2012
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NOT fans on Twitter trying to trend #ThatChriannaReign
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