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Discussion: Bisexual Guys?
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Originally posted by feuxtography
Yes. Honestly I'd say dont mention it until you're at a full level of trust with the other person.
But I mean, I say skip out on women though. They're a pain to date.
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I've always found men easier to date. Women are very complicated and tend to get emotionally invested VERY quickly. Some men do too though.
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Member Since: 2/16/2012
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Originally posted by Jack.
Basically your whole life is doubled. I'd hate that. Even the mere fact that you might (unwillingly and not necessarily act on it) fall in love with someone, but there's twice as many people that could happen with.
You Bisexuals are more down-to-earth than the Gays and Straights combined.
But it's great to see a group of people so serious about relationships! Most gays and straights are just out for a laugh and nothing serious.
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Ditto. It is doubled but....it's double the fun. I can assort if I want. I'm an analyser so I'll scout before I even try I am serious about them, and I think people should be. A relationship is nawt a fling. It's serious, and I hate the ****ty side of stuff, I really think it devalues what love can be. And so people grow up not knowing what it is, and look for it in the wrong places. I'm a rarity in life lmao, my girlfriends are like...he gives such good advice. I just think about how I'd feel, which a lot of straight guys don't. I suppose it's about power.
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Member Since: 3/17/2012
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Originally posted by ClashAndBurn
Funny. I say I'm bisexual because it's simpler than having to explain the full extent of my attractions.and it gives people a basic idea, but... You know. It's like an abridged version, I guess you could say.
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Eh, opposite for me. Like this thread has proven by itself, people discredit bisexuality more than homosexuality. Even the "straight-allies" dont get it. And hell, neither do a big chunk of the gays.
I think it's easier for people to understand "oh, they're male and they're attracted to males."
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Member Since: 9/16/2011
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Gays usually like bisexual better, because they tend to be 'manlier'.
Thats the only time where being bi is somewhat an advantage.
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Member Since: 5/14/2012
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Originally posted by Butterfly.
Cause one of my friends told me that's what he did and it makes perfect sense if u think about it... They're just in denial!
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Now see...
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Member Since: 10/30/2011
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Originally posted by Butterfly.
Cause one of my friends told me that's what he did and it makes perfect sense if u think bout it... They are just in denial!
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That doesn't apply for everybody though
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Member Since: 11/11/2011
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It took me a year to tell my girlfriend. You think it's gonna scare them away tbh. But we're closer now
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Member Since: 2/16/2012
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PREEEACH! They a mess. I get satisfaction from watching, looking up and down and looking decent.
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Member Since: 5/14/2012
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Originally posted by feuxtography
Eh, opposite for me. Like this thread has proven by itself, people discredit bisexuality more than homosexuality. Even the "straight-allies" dont get it. And hell, neither do a big chunk of the gays.
I think it's easier for people to understand "oh, they're male and they're attracted to males."
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And in the end, some people still can't understand and grasp that simple fact.
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Member Since: 4/5/2012
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Originally posted by lasersss
fixed
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Member Since: 4/11/2012
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Originally posted by Sláy
Ditto. It is doubled but....it's double the fun. I can assort if I want. I'm an analyser so I'll scout before I even try I am serious about them, and I think people should be. A relationship is nawt a fling. It's serious, and I hate the ****ty side of stuff, I really think it devalues what love can be. And so people grow up not knowing what it is, and look for it in the wrong places. I'm a rarity in life lmao, my girlfriends are like...he gives such good advice. I just think about how I'd feel, which a lot of straight guys don't. I suppose it's about power.
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You're like a gay guy that would have sex with them, of course they'll love you!
I don't know... There's so many pros and cons to being Bisexual. I don't know what I'd rather be tbh.
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Member Since: 3/17/2012
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Originally posted by psychodj
And in the end, some people still can't understand and grasp that simple fact.
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Truth.
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Member Since: 2/16/2012
Posts: 10,807
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Originally posted by feuxtography
Eh, opposite for me. Like this thread has proven by itself, people discredit bisexuality more than homosexuality. Even the "straight-allies" dont get it. And hell, neither do a big chunk of the gays.
I think it's easier for people to understand "oh, they're male and they're attracted to males."
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True, but I'm at uni, and it's great being around educated, good people, who get all of the LGBT. So i've never had that. But it's gonna be hard to tell my family (they dont know, but parents do) and having a boyfriend might make it clear. I hope
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Member Since: 10/30/2011
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Originally posted by Butterfly.
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I fixed it so everyone could understand. No need to thank me.
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Member Since: 2/16/2012
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Originally posted by Jack.
You're like a gay guy that would have sex with them, of course they'll love you!
I don't know... There's so many pros and cons to being Bisexual. I don't know what I'd rather be tbh.
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Yah There are pros and cons, but I see life the same gay as straight. I got my values, respect and standards and they ain't being lowered. The con for me is it's hard to jump from left to right. Like now, all I'm interested in is guys mostly because of the LGBT. But then I'll see a girl and well It's all about who catches my eye. I'm more attracted to guys but some ladies blow me away totally.
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Member Since: 2/15/2012
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Originally posted by feuxtography
Eh, opposite for me. Like this thread has proven by itself, people discredit bisexuality more than homosexuality. Even the "straight-allies" dont get it. And hell, neither do a big chunk of the gays.
I think it's easier for people to understand "oh, they're male and they're attracted to males."
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Eh... Pansexuality would be more difficult for people to grasp. I think most really only think of sexuality as "gay, straight, or bi"
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Member Since: 4/11/2012
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Originally posted by Sláy
Yah There are pros and cons, but I see life the same gay as straight. I got my values, respect and standards and they ain't being lowered. The con for me is it's hard to jump from left to right. Like now, all I'm interested in is guys mostly because of the LGBT. But then I'll see a girl and well It's all about who catches my eye. I'm more attracted to guys but some ladies blow me away totally.
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The main Pro to being Bisexual is that you could actually lead a 'normal' life. I've no issue with my sexuality but I'd be lying if I said my life wouldn't be easier if I was into Women.
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Originally posted by ClashAndBurn
Eh... Pansexuality would be more difficult for people to grasp. I think most really only think of sexuality as "gay, straight, or bi"
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Sexuality can be pretty confusing when you get into Pansexuaplity etc.
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Member Since: 2/16/2012
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That is true ClashandBurn. It's outside the big 3 where there are issues. I've felt and had them myself, like I almost go what's that?
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Member Since: 10/30/2011
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Originally posted by ClashAndBurn
Eh... Pansexuality would be more difficult for people to grasp. I think most really only think of sexuality as "gay, straight, or bi"
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Yes pansexuals have it far worse someone should dedicate a thread to them
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Member Since: 4/11/2012
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Originally posted by lasersss
Yes pansexuals have it far worse someone should dedicate a thread to them
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But they're also much rarer. I'd be surprised if there was even a couple on ATRL.
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