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Discussion: Most hurtful thing anybody's ever said to you in real life?
Member Since: 6/7/2011
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Originally posted by Ahmed
I lied about no one hurting my feelings, I remember one thing.
I travel around a lot, Canada to middle east, to Canada back to middle east. And we have multiple stops, like London and all. And every time I step into Germany or London they ****ing mistake me for a girl! WTF!
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I hate when people that are a certain gender get mistaken for another gender. Sometimes it's genuine but other times it's just idiocy. It's like, don't identify someone by their gender until THEY inform you of their gender.
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Member Since: 12/13/2009
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YOu girls are turning me into a mess.
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Member Since: 11/5/2009
Posts: 8,096
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Originally posted by RyanC
Yeah. Only two people know (not even my parents). I don't like talking about it.
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I don't wanna know how it feels to get into a fight/beaten up/get physical with someone. I've been abused, but never in a fight.
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Member Since: 8/22/2009
Posts: 50,646
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Originally posted by ifyouseekLEM
THIS!!!!!!
I'm too "white" for black people, I'm too "black" for white people. I'm too gay to hang out with guys, yet I'm too straight to be at sleepovers with the girls. I'm honestly stuck in the middle and it ****ing sucks.
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It really sucks when you're reminded youre a boy and you cant go to sleepovers where ALL your friends are cause theyre girls.
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Member Since: 6/7/2011
Posts: 22,128
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Originally posted by satellites™
I used to be friends with boys when I was REALLY young, but as we grew, we both had different interests. I started liking boys (them sometimes) and they started liking girls. They wanted to talk about bitches and hoes and I wanted to talk about Beyonce and hairstyles. I just found girls more comforting and familiar, I used to want to be a girl so bad it killed me, it took me a long time to accept that I had to be a boy and live with it. When I was like 12 I used to want the operation to b a girl.
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Do you consider yourself effeminate? And do you think it's wrong to assume someone is gay just because they're that way? I mean, my brother is kind of like that but he's not gay.
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Member Since: 5/28/2010
Posts: 29,225
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Originally posted by HollywoodForever
I don't even really know how bad things got. I haven't spoken to him since... I see his brother weekly, as he comes to my apartment building to party, and a friend told me he quit his job over it too.
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I hope he is doing better now. That is such a sad story.
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Member Since: 6/14/2010
Posts: 1,370
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Originally posted by KoreanDream
I hate when people that are a certain gender get mistaken for another gender. Sometimes it's genuine but other times it's just idiocy. It's like, don't identify someone by their gender until THEY inform you of their gender.
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My cousin is gay, and a friend of my nephew in a familiar party told my nephew:
"Is her your aunt?" (In a hurtful voice)
he anwered "I'm you muther****a mother!!!
then all the family gave him a standing ovation
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Member Since: 10/31/2010
Posts: 1,496
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Originally posted by featheralley
Yes same here I wonder sometimes if I will marry a girl when I'm older. If my dad found out I was gay right now, he would kick me out right now at 2:11 AM.
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.. Who knows what's in store. Be strong. I tell myself everyday, "Im closer to telling the truth and finally being who the **** i am." Though its not the most inspiration, "be strong" words of wisdom, sometimes having an attitude towards things really helps in some situations
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Member Since: 4/17/2011
Posts: 9,162
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Originally posted by satellites™
GIRL!
That and the "If you were a girl I would date you in a second" kill me.
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The thing that really gets me is when they are like, "i'm not gay, but you cute as hell." Like really?
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Member Since: 6/25/2010
Posts: 18,931
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Not one of the most hateful things, but cute lol remembered it just now - Kindergaten I was in an ESL class, and didn't need to be. English is my first and only language. Moved to a normal class everyone hated me. This girl made a full out speech saying that everyone's wrong to treat me badly and flipped my hand and showed it was the same colors as everyone ele's, we're all the same, etc. I didn't even know what had just happened by the end of it.
As a little kid I remember I had a teacher that couldn't pronounce any Spanish names and just butchered them without caring and she one day told me something along the line that my parents were smart for naming me a common American name, like Michael, and not some stupid mumble jumble name or some ****. I don't know why it just made me hate my name so much, made me feel like I'm not me to change for other people. That my name wasn't mine. Idk weird thought.
One day in 7th grade walking home from the mall pretty late (for then lol) maybe like 10 or 11 and passed some drunk white boys (20s?), who kept yelling George Lopez at me and followed me for a bit.
In 8th grade, boy I liked for all of middle school just completely tearing me apart infront of other guys. Saying im really creepy, a freak, to just stop and never look at him again, etc.
My mom saying that she gave up on me and I'm a complete failure, after coming out.
That's what came to mind, probably worse, but really can't be bad, if i don't remember it. I mean my dad criticizing me for everything growing up is the worst. But that's about everything until I was in like 8th. Seriously I remember him telling me I was walking gay and had my had a gay postion since like getting off the preschool bus. He didn't let me talk to my mom because he said that made me too effeminate when I was like in third.
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Member Since: 8/22/2009
Posts: 50,646
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Originally posted by Aussiefan01
Would have been grade7- 8
I dated this girl , we were both 11. She wanted to move very fast land im not talking holding hands!! And here I is more into pokemon cards and sports then girls. So I dumped her and for 6 mmonths her entire crew teased me every day of my life they were in nearly all my classes.. They were all girls , so it wasnt as if i could fight them , I was always a popular student but no one wanted to stand up to these girls because they were preety hood! Not going to lie! To this day i still have scars from what they did. Then it just stopped one day.
But wanna know what makes me smile now? Silly hoes all dropped out of school in grade 9 , pregnant , I see them every thursday waiting for the welfare office to open to stand in line for thier checks, after a hard week of contributing to society by fighting with thier baby daddies and getting caught with weed
I win!
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I cant breathe.
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Member Since: 6/6/2011
Posts: 29,899
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mom compared me to my ex i dated for 2 years who I HATE now. I flipped **** needless to say. NEVER compare an ex to your son/daughter lol
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Member Since: 8/22/2009
Posts: 50,646
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Originally posted by L/\DY G/\G/\
Its alright. They were right, I am a homo with a great boyfriend who has a big dick and might be taking my virginity next Friday
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Get the dick sis.
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Member Since: 11/5/2009
Posts: 8,096
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Originally posted by satellites™
I used to be friends with boys when I was REALLY young, but as we grew, we both had different interests. I started liking boys (them sometimes) and they started liking girls. They wanted to talk about bitches and hoes and I wanted to talk about Beyonce and hairstyles. I just found girls more comforting and familiar, I used to want to be a girl so bad it killed me, it took me a long time to accept that I had to be a boy and live with it. When I was like 12 I used to want the operation to b a girl.
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Yeah I remember going to camp and in our cabin we had like 7 guys in there. This was middle school by the way. 5 of the guys were talking about which girls they would bang, and after a few minutes they were like "wow you guys (me and my friend) are really gay because you didn't mention any girls". My friend isn't gay, he just doesn't like to openly talk about sexual activities, but for me I had no defense I just said I was tired.
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Member Since: 11/11/2010
Posts: 28,420
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Originally posted by satellites™
I applaud you for being so brave, cause I could never tell me mom everything Ive done, its just too hard, and I am not ready for that yet.
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Thank you, sis. I understand. It was one of the hardest things that I have ever had to do. I made alot of mistakes in my early teenage years, got in with the wrong crowd, etc. But my mom always trusted me enough to where she didn't set a bedtime, didn't ask many questions, and didn't ever suspect me of doing anything bad. And I did her wrong by sneaking out at night, having guys over when she was sleeping, doing drugs, and other silly things like that. I felt that I would be better off telling her while I'm still young versus telling her in 20 years.
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Member Since: 8/22/2009
Posts: 50,646
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Originally posted by Hausofmonster
"You better not be gay"
.. SO, I'm still not 'out' the closet with my family. (LIke many of you ) (The only one that 'knows' is my sister but I came out to her, when she was baking french fries , but I came out as bi ) Its very hard to, especially when your family is based on Christian values/beliefs and believes in having 7+ children . But one time my mom picked me up at school and noticed my friend, who's gay, and asked me why I liked hanging out with those specific people (She's seen me hang out more than once) and blah, blah, blah. Basically the whole ride back home was about how i shouldn't let those 'types' of people influence the way i am and what not. And while she wasn't being completely discriminatory, I know she would be heartbroken, if I told her who i really am. But "You better not be gay" will haunt me till the day i come out, and what's more upsetting is, idk what that means she'll do if I told her .
... And I'll go get a therapist..
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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Member Since: 11/7/2010
Posts: 5,164
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Originally posted by TheMusicProphet
You're so amazing and strong and something like that is never your fault. **** whoever said that ****.
I really do you love you and everyone else in here.
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I love when we all unite and share stories with each other. It makes this place extra special.
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Right? Ya'll are making me shed a whole bunch of tears I really don't know how to respond to anyone's posts, it's going so quickly that I won't have enough time to reply. I would like to let you all know I have read just about everyone's posts, & I wish I could give everyone of you guys a hug right now. I love you all, every single one of you are so strong to share your stories, my heart goes out to all of you :heart:
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Member Since: 5/22/2010
Posts: 9,633
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Originally posted by KoreanDream
I hate when people that are a certain gender get mistaken for another gender. Sometimes it's genuine but other times it's just idiocy. It's like, don't identify someone by their gender until THEY inform you of their gender.
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That's exactly what I say! And once in London, I was standing there at the security gate thing they were checking my bags. and it was my turn to get searched. there is a guy and girl standing beside each other. And I'm standing there, and he is talking to the girl right in front of my ****ing face saying "is that a girl or a guy?" and he kept on discussing it with her right in front of me.! He kept on llooking at her and saying "Are you sure?" I'm like "hey! ****ing douche bag, I'm right in front of you, does it look like I have ****ing boobs?" and that's when he shut the **** up and searched me and let me pass on
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Member Since: 6/7/2011
Posts: 22,128
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Originally posted by featheralley
Yeah I remember going to camp and in our cabin we had like 7 guys in there. This was middle school by the way. 5 of the guys were talking about which girls they would bang, and after a few minutes they were like "wow you guys (me and my friend) are really gay because you didn't mention any girls". My friend isn't gay, he just doesn't like to openly talk about sexual activities, but for me I had no defense I just said I was tired.
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I hate guys who talk about which girls they'd bang. If you do that and I find out that you do that, SORRY but I will NEVER date you!
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Member Since: 6/7/2011
Posts: 22,128
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Originally posted by Ahmed
That's exactly what I say! And once in London, I was standing there at the security gate thing they were checking my bags. and it was my turn to get searched. there is a guy and girl standing beside each other. And I'm standing there, and he is talking to the girl right in front of my ****ing face saying "is that a girl or a guy?" and he kept on discussing it with her right in front of me.! He kept on llooking at her and saying "Are you sure?" I'm like "hey! ****ing douche bag, I'm right in front of you, does it look like I have ****ing boobs?" and that's when he shut the **** up and searched me and let me pass on
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Did you ACTUALLY say that?
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