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Originally posted by Corsola
But what is the point in doing it if you don't intend on hurting them? There is no such thing as doing it lightly or gently, there's just ''not beating the **** out of them'' which doesn't make the case better
Not to mention as I've already stated, BY TEXTBOOK DEFINITION, the only thing that determines wether it's abuse or not is how often you do it.
This isn't even being ''overdramatic''. As much as you wanna write it off as that/''trying to be offended'' which doesn't even make any sense whatsoever, you can't dispute the fact that these are literal facts we're saying. ANY credible source you can find agrees with us and I highly doubt you're gonna go up to credible psychologists and tell them how overdramatic they are without getting your ass laughed at.
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Yes, you're being overdramatic dddkfkd
I mean how do you know there's no such thing as gently spanking a child and that it isn't effective? Are you in every home?
Like I said, You guys are making it out to be WAY worse than what (I assume is being discussed) it is. Most kids don't care that they got their asses hit a few times 20 minutes after the fact. They think twice before doing it again.
I mean have all the credible sources you want, but those same sources would probably tell you that telling your kid to "go take a time out" produces better results. It really depends on the child.
Some need their asses kicked and I don't need psychologists to tell me that!
Also y'all need to stop with this "only black/ghetto ppl & only people that got beat do it" nonsense, too. I never once got beat and I'd do it if necessary.