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Discussion: Grindr racism exposed
Member Since: 8/12/2012
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I only talk to hot and ripped guys.
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Originally posted by Wet
Asians are so nasty. Just shut the **** up you are all ****in ugly , what do you want? all of you are short, ugly bottoms, and your main goal in life is to get the white d*** of some old white daddy who can get you out of the Philipines or China (where you work in a sneakers fabric for 30 cents per hour) so shut the **** up.
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perma ban this worse than trash please. a warning is not enough
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Member Since: 7/15/2012
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Originally posted by Venus XCX
I just have to rant for a second....
What is with these ignorant responses in this thread? 
I know I shouldn't expect much intelligence on ATRL but this is getting upsetting to know that I'm surrounded by racists too. 
We all have sexual preferences for certain types or features - I like dark hair, scruffy men with puppy eyes. Are any of those traits inherent to one race only? NO.
When you say "no Asians" or "no Blacks" you are basically precluding the possibility of a single person of a race of hundreds of millions individuals of being attractive. And especially with Asians, you DO know that India, China, Korea, Vietnam, Singapore, Saudi Arabia, Eastern Russia, Turkey, Japan, Indonesia, Armenia, Israel, Thailand, Yemen, etc. ARE ALL ASIANS, RIGHT?  You know that there are tall, short, fat, skinny, light skin, dark skin, hairy, smooth, old and young asians right? You know there are Asians with almond eyes and monolids and Asians with full on Caucasian type eyes, right? You know that Asians are DIVERSE in culture and language, and we aren't just one monolithic group of Chinese-looking people right?
So when people say "NO ASIANS, but I'm not racist it's just a preference" I say "BULL-****ING-****", you are a racist, stereotyping douchebag who can't get his head out of his ass far enough to see that saying No _______ race is a direct discrimination against someone based on a generic socially constructed category (as in there is not ONE type of Asian). It is NOT equivalent to saying "No hairy people" because ANY race can be hairy, or "No fat people" because ANY race can be fat, despite the fact that saying all of these things are disrespectful in the first place. SO YES, IT IS RACIST. STOP SAYING IT. |
thissss  educate them
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Member Since: 3/16/2012
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Originally posted by Venus XCX
I just have to rant for a second....
What is with these ignorant responses in this thread?
I know I shouldn't expect much intelligence on ATRL but this is getting upsetting to know that I'm surrounded by racists too.
We all have sexual preferences for certain types or features - I like dark hair, scruffy men with puppy eyes. Are any of those traits inherent to one race only? NO.
When you say "no Asians" or "no Blacks" you are basically precluding the possibility of a single person of a race of hundreds of millions individuals of being attractive. And especially with Asians, you DO know that India, China, Korea, Vietnam, Singapore, Saudi Arabia, Eastern Russia, Turkey, Japan, Indonesia, Armenia, Israel, Thailand, Yemen, etc. ARE ALL ASIANS, RIGHT? You know that there are tall, short, fat, skinny, light skin, dark skin, hairy, smooth, old and young asians right? You know there are Asians with almond eyes and monolids and Asians with full on Caucasian type eyes, right? You know that Asians are DIVERSE in culture and language, and we aren't just one monolithic group of Chinese-looking people right?
So when people say "NO ASIANS, but I'm not racist it's just a preference" I say "BULL-****ING-****", you are a racist, stereotyping douchebag who can't get his head out of his ass far enough to see that saying No _______ race is a direct discrimination against someone based on a generic socially constructed category (as in there is not ONE type of Asian). It is NOT equivalent to saying "No hairy people" because ANY race can be hairy, or "No fat people" because ANY race can be fat, despite the fact that saying all of these things are disrespectful in the first place. SO YES, IT IS RACIST. STOP SAYING IT. |
Go AWF!
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by Wet
Asians are so nasty. Just shut the **** up you are all ****in ugly , what do you want? all of you are short, ugly bottoms, and your main goal in life is to get the white d*** of some old white daddy who can get you out of the Philipines or China (where you work in a sneakers fabric for 30 cents per hour) so shut the **** up.
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This.. Is just terrible.
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yall can keep quoting me all day, thats not gonna change the thruth.
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Member Since: 8/12/2012
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The self h8 tho...
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Quote:
Originally posted by Wet
Asians are so nasty. Just shut the **** up you are all ****in ugly , what do you want? all of you are short, ugly bottoms, and your main goal in life is to get the white d*** of some old white daddy who can get you out of the Philipines or China (where you work in a sneakers fabric for 30 cents per hour) so shut the **** up.
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Tbh I'd rather hear this than listen to people make excuses and go on about how they aren't racist. It makes it a lot easier to figure out who's trash so you know which ones to avoid.
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Member Since: 11/27/2010
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Originally posted by Wet
yall can keep quoting me all day, thats not gonna change the thruth.
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I notice that when a white guy gets turned down by a minority they start hating everyone in that minority. Its as if they feel entitled to date whatever guy they want if the guy is a racial minority. Many white gay males have a certain superiority complex when it comes to dating or having sexual relations guys outside of their own race.
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Originally posted by inspiration4
I feel like this point is everything. At the end of the day, geography and culture are a massive factor. I'm speaking personally on my experiences in SF, LA, Miami, and NY (to a much lesser extent). If you don't mind, I'm curious to know what area you'r from?
And for what it's worth, I like how you debate. You'r able to make points without resorting to personal attacks, which is the norm on here for anyone who ever counters claims of "rampant racism", sexism, etc etc...
I may not see eye to eye with you, as our experiences have been very different, but I respect your perspective.
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Agree to disagree. All opinions should laid out at the end of the day. It helps us understand, as I learn quite a bit from this discussion. For the record I'm from the Midwest. Although I never actually traveled to a gay venue or traveled with my gay friends in major cities around here. My personal experience had been limited a number of suburban places around here.
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Member Since: 8/12/2012
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I notice most of the people complain about it are minorities who disregard their own race and thirst for another (usually caucasian men) then get mad when the white men they think are perfect think other white men are perfect. Like femme guys saying they don't date femme guys...
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I'm a person of color and I'm on grindr. The only times they insult me is when I don't reply...
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Well judging by what the gheys of atrl say, accurate to life.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by Wet
yall can keep quoting me all day, thats not gonna change the thruth.
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You are so horrible and I cannot believe you have Queen Miley in your avi 
Ugh, why do the Miley stans say the most tragic things on here 
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Originally posted by dairyman2001
Tbh I'd rather hear this than listen to people make excuses and go on about how they aren't racist. It makes it a lot easier to figure out who's trash so you know which ones to avoid.
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Honestly this. Show your true colors though 
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Member Since: 12/1/2010
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Originally posted by JesusORGod
I notice most of the people complain about it are minorities who disregard their own race and thirst for another (usually caucasian men) then get mad when the white men they think are perfect think other white men are perfect. Like femme guys saying they don't date femme guys...
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I notice that most of the people who are racist are racist
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Member Since: 5/8/2012
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Originally posted by Wet
Asians are so nasty. Just shut the **** up you are all ****in ugly , what do you want? all of you are short, ugly bottoms, and your main goal in life is to get the white d*** of some old white daddy who can get you out of the Philipines or China (where you work in a sneakers fabric for 30 cents per hour) so shut the **** up.
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These are the types of people that are being defended on this thread. Have to say i would have never expected racism this blatant on atrl.
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Member Since: 4/3/2014
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Originally posted by Rick
I'm a person of color and I'm on grindr. The only times they insult me is when I don't reply...
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That's still horrible 
This thread is making me so sad 
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by Torturo
Every race has different physical charactsristics so what's wrong with someone prefering characteristics from certain race? I have no racial preference myself but I understand people who do. U can't change what u are attracted to. Although I do agree people on grindr can say it in a disrespectful/racist way
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Except like someone else said, just because a person is a certain race, doesn't mean they're gonna look how they're "supposed" to look. I'm black, but my nose isn't really wide or big. And I don't have huge lips, nor do I have dark skin.
Judging an entire racial group, before even meeting them, by stereotypes is racist. You can't just assume that all asians are short, bottoms, and stink, because that isn't necessarily true. Everyone looks, acts, and smells (lol) differently.
It's not racist to have preferences, but when you prefer certain races to others, that's when you start to draw the line.
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by Adonis
I notice that when a white guy gets turned down by a minority they start hating everyone in that minority. Its as if they feel entitled to date whatever guy they want if the guy is a racial minority. Many white gay males have a certain superiority complex when it comes to dating or having sexual relations guys outside of their own race.
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What kind of dumb generalization  
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