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Discussion: What's your secret?
Member Since: 1/16/2010
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Originally posted by iHypeMusic
Naw, it's cooled down. Only jocks, and girls curious. In Elementary and most of Middle that **** was horrible.
I think I made it obvious now, but I just don't know how I could make it official when I keep denying cuz of pressure.
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I wish I knew how it feels to come out but I hung out with couple casual friends who had to move out when their parents didn't accept them when they came out. I'd say do it when you're ready or that you think your parents don't care either youre gay or straight.
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Member Since: 9/9/2012
Posts: 59,872
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Originally posted by vamp
Don't give in to them. When they ask you if you are gay then that means they are trying to break you down. Don't. Be your own person. You do not need to answer to anyone who are lower than you.
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I hate it so much.
Especially when they ask me infront of a bunch of people or my friends.
It just makes me feel like nothing right on the spot. I tried to do comebacks and everything.
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Member Since: 10/28/2011
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These HORROR stories in here.
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Member Since: 9/9/2012
Posts: 59,872
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Originally posted by vamp
You can't let this stuff get to you. Trust me. A lot of people including myself went through what you are going through. and from experience I can tell u that you should not think about what other people say about you so much. you wont even know these people after you are done with school. Soon you will go to high school and meet people like yourself, then in college you become your own individual and all of this will be a distant memory. Trust me. do not let it get to you. if you focus on the hate you receive then you are basically ruining your whole childhood. when you loose focus of the hate then it will soon disapear. it basic physics and it will work if you follow what I say.. The work you put out is returned back to you
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Girl I have hope.
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Member Since: 12/13/2011
Posts: 12,192
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Originally posted by Hausofmonster
I'm not a Virgin.
I lost it to a man (Friend of a relative) who rented a room at our house. I was about 13. We had ongoing sexual encounters almost everyday until I was 14.
I was also cornered in the bathroom by two relatives (who happened to be twins) one day asking me to suck them.
I'm scared to tell my mom this in the long run because she might take it as the source to why I'm gay. AND because I don't want her to confront them.
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OMG If you tell your mom now, those men could get in a LOT of trouble for fooling around with a minor.
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Member Since: 8/22/2011
Posts: 9,429
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Originally posted by iHypeMusic
Your fellow Aaliyah fan will always be here for you.
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thanks but because of those experiences i sometimes turn to sex, just so I can be confirmed that someone cares about me.
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Member Since: 5/4/2011
Posts: 20,807
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Originally posted by Midnight
These little ****s weren't physically abuse, but they were mentally abusive. Since I had class with them for about 7 periods, I had to endure everything that was being said about me. They made sure I was excluded from everything. I even sat at lunch alone.
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Aw, I'm sorry to hear that.
I can really relate; exclusion really ****s up the mind. Especially when you hear everything they're saying about you, too.
I remember they were all having a party once and the invitation literally included "PS, this is a non-James event and if he asks anyone to come just tell him to piss off".
I literally broke down in tears when I heard/saw that on the invitation. The other people who were invited were all laughing at that being included on the invitation, too.
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Member Since: 9/9/2012
Posts: 59,872
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Originally posted by BLaCKPoWeR
These HORROR stories in here.
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Yes gworl, take straight notes. Don't bully people about being gay. Long-term affects.
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Member Since: 9/12/2012
Posts: 26,389
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I still haven't actually said "I'm gay" to my mom. I think she knows cause one time when she was drunk, she kept saying that she loved gay guys. She also was telling my about how much she stanned for Boy George/Culture Club. (Karma Chameleon is a bop btw. )
She also asked one time if I was arguing with my "boyfriend" and I was like "...no." But she is one of those people that uses boyfriend like a boy that is a friend and girlfriend as a girl that is a friend.
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Member Since: 1/16/2010
Posts: 17,698
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Originally posted by vamp
Don't give in to them. When they ask you if you are gay then that means they are trying to break you down. Don't. Be your own person. You do not need to answer to anyone who are lower than you.
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I agree with this, no matter what, bullied for being anything you should not break down your wall. If you are a senior in hs I'm sure you can try to survive the rest of hs.
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Member Since: 9/9/2012
Posts: 59,872
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Originally posted by Gangsta4alife
thanks but because of those experiences i sometimes turn to sex, just so I can be confirmed that someone cares about me.
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It's ok, you don't need to do things like that. Someone on this Planet cares about you, and if you go someone will forever mourn you.
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Member Since: 11/22/2009
Posts: 11,092
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Originally posted by iHypeMusic
I hate it so much.
Especially when they ask me infront of a bunch of people or my friends.
It just makes me feel like nothing right on the spot. I tried to do comebacks and everything.
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Come backs are for people who are trying to hide something. Dont try to hide anything. Be yourself but dont give in to their petty remarks either. Honestly, anyone who asks if you are gay are trying to bring you down and are not your friends, so stay away from them. Surround yourself with genuine people.
When you stop thinking about what other people think about you, then it will stop.
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Member Since: 10/28/2011
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Originally posted by iHypeMusic
Yes gworl, take straight notes. Don't bully people about being gay. Long-term affects.
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I didn't read any of the ones on gay bullying.
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Member Since: 12/13/2011
Posts: 12,192
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Originally posted by iHypeMusic
I hate it so much.
Especially when they ask me infront of a bunch of people or my friends.
It just makes me feel like nothing right on the spot. I tried to do comebacks and everything.
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I'm not gay but I guess I had feminine qualities that I had been asked that since the 7th grade. It really use to get to me because even one day on the bus, a guy screamed "raise your hand if you think _____ is gay" and the whole front of the bus raised their hand. I was so devastated because all these people would harass me with that question. Now when people ask, I just tell them the truth. NO I'm not gay, I prefer *****
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Member Since: 3/27/2009
Posts: 30,284
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Originally posted by iHypeMusic
Omfg, all these Gay Bulling stories. I need to finally share mine to let it off my chest.
Ever since I was 6 YEARS OLD (Yes, ****ing 6) I've been bullied and called Gay.
It started in Daycare kids in 3rd Grade would call me gay, gayfer, etc and would tease me all the time. I never understood why, because I was always sheltered and so young. My initial reaction was to call them it back. I barely even understood what Gay meant.
By the time, I was around 8-9 in 3rd or 4th grade I was being called Gay on a daily basis. It was so horrible. At school, and at the YMCA Daycare (yet, another daycare) all the boys would play Football, Basketball, etc and I was never into Sports and would hang out with girls. They'd call me a ***, gay, etc.
I always wished I could hang out with the gworls w/o being labeled. From time to time I would hang out with myself just so I couldn't be caught with all the girls and bullied. They were the only people I could get along with, and I as already forced to be away from them. I remember one day when all the boys were in a group together, they took turns making fun of me INFRONT OF THE COUNSELOR. They said stuff like "Look at the way you walk", "look how he talk", etc infront of 20+ other boys each laughing. The counselor only said "Ya'll gonna make him cry" and I stood there taking everything trying not to cry.
That **** was so horrible, I would cry all the time. By the time I was in 5th Grade I would have daily suicidal thoughts.
Once I got to Middle School, I started to hate school altogether. I was being bullied so much and nobody cared I wanted to just die everyday. I was also too scared to tell anyone because snitching is the bad thing in Middle School.
Til this day it still happens daily last week I was asked 3 times alone by 3 girls if I was gay infront of people, and one girl said the week before "Everybody keeps telling me to ask you if you're gay".
Honestly the worst part is I deny it, and it makes it worst for me because if I were to come out then everyone would be like "Wtf, he stayed denying he was gay". The jocks stay calling me it, and one called me a fruitcake when I tried to ask a question in class a bit back.
The only friend that knows til this day is my bestie who's lez.
This some Oprah ****.
What did I do to deserve it? I was basically forced to realize and come out from the time I was 6 years old and up. I've always tried to deny it.
When I was little I used to ask myself why I was so girly and why myvoice was girly, and me bein skinny and never having muscles only added to the equation.
Call Oprah. I need my special.
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So, I'm not a cryer by any means but reading this and ironically enough P!nk's "The Great Escape" started playing on my iPod (IT'S CALLED SHUFFLE) and I kind of welled up. Things like this piss me off, tbh.
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Member Since: 9/9/2012
Posts: 59,872
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Originally posted by KT&T
I agree with this, no matter what, bullied for being anything you should not break down your wall. If you are a senior in hs I'm sure you can try to survive the rest of hs.
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Hell no.
I honestly think I will be out by then. I'm starting not to care about the opinions, and getting real tired of feel locked up.
You can't even be truthful about ho you like
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Member Since: 9/9/2012
Posts: 59,872
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Originally posted by phreshprince
I'm not gay but I guess I had feminine qualities that I had been asked that since the 7th grade. It really use to get to me because even one day on the bus, a guy screamed "raise your hand if you think _____ is gay" and the whole front of the bus raised their hand. I was so devastated because all these people would harass me with that question. Now when people ask, I just tell them the truth. NO I'm not gay, I prefer *****
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Yes gurl. Put those haters in place. If any boy asks say you're not interested in them.
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Member Since: 6/18/2012
Posts: 18,768
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I'm gay
Had a stranger come to my parents' house just to suck his dick
In a secret relationship with someone
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Member Since: 9/9/2012
Posts: 59,872
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Originally posted by Hooligan
So, I'm not a cryer by any means but reading this and ironically enough P!nk's "The Great Escape" started playing on my iPod (IT'S CALLED SHUFFLE) and I kind of welled up. Things like this piss me off, tbh.
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Yes gurl, I haven't ever even told anyone. All that stuff been locked up for so many years. It would be embarrassing as **** to reveal all that.
It got so bad I would hate making friends around a boy I've never met because I thought I would be asked if I was gay or made fun of.
I remember in middle school some kid was like "___ just said you're so gay and you don't even realize it" and I just was so pissed. Especially when it's people you think you were cool with.
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