So this was really Kik ? Well how could she be suprised someone sold her nudes there ? Does really someone use it just for regular messenger ?
Because the idea and usage of Kik is not suppose to be sexual it is just an app to message ppl . But you know how over sexualized this world is . lol has now become a dating app
I would've done the same tbh, what would she win with just telling him that she's not interested? Nothing. By telling to his mom I'm sure he'll learn his lesson.
The quick jump to "rape culture" just screams Tumblr feminist It devalues the actual label of "rape" when people compare overt sexuality to rape.
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Rape Culture is an environment in which rape is prevalent and in which sexual violence against women is normalized and excused in the media and popular culture. Rape culture is perpetuated through the use of misogynistic language, the objectification of women’s bodies, and the glamorization of sexual violence, thereby creating a society that disregards women’s rights and safety.
This isn't ****ing true. It happens, but it's not common as you're trying to make it seem.
This is all there is to the situation. Sending nudes to people completely out of context is wrong and creepy. She therefore has the right to get angry about it. The fact that you are scrutinizing her actions rather than the person who sent the nude pics (AKA the person in the wrong) tells me a lot about what you actually think.
All of this !!!! And a guy has sent me nudes before on Twitter and after blocking him he still made several accounts and still bothered me. I reported it to Twitter but they couldn't do anything. Sometimes its not as easy as just "blocking" too. Not to mention, blocking someone doesn't take away from the fact that they violated you in the form of harrassment and making advances that weren't approved of.
Because the idea and usage of Kik is not suppose to be sexual it is just an app to message ppl . But you know how over sexualized this world is . lol has now become a dating app
99% of these sites were not originally supposed to be sexual. But its just the way it is now.
"How did you meet your husband?" "Oh, he sent me a picture of his **** and I was mesmerized!" YEAH RIGHT. I don't get where people get off thinking this **** is ok.
I understand why she wouldn't like to be sent naked pictures, but she's been really nasty to him. He doesn't mean to hurt her, and he's not forcing her to do anything. It's fine to give him a little telling off, but for her to go public about this, send it to his mother, etc. is really nasty. Horrible girl. I hope I never meet someone like her.
He was wrong. He should have at least asked her or warned her before sending the picture. But what the girl did in response was even worse imo.
And you obviously need to read up on it! Because in a way, what he's doing is certainly perpetuating rape culture.
If guys do stuff like that when trying to find someone to date then it's not too far off from the possibility of them taking it further. The entitlement the patriarchy put in men is strong, never doubt it!
I am agreeing with you. That was my response to the people who questioned her use of the term!
It devalues the actual label of "rape" when people compare overt sexuality to rape.
oh god these type of people are so annoying. People who correct grammar on social media 