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Originally posted by BeyNavi
I need to read through what I missed but before I do let me say some words to Spin.
This is a place of no judgements. Everyone has their preferences and what they just will not accept when it comes to relationships. Obviously you don't understand what or how Mezik feels about it, but I do. He's not being judgmental at all, you just miss read. I'll be damned if I'm with someone who has had sex with a bunch of people. I'm not judging them based off of it....well no I kinda am depending upon the number. I know people who, like her said, are like me approaching 20 or already there and talking about they've had sex with almost 50 people like that's not acceptable. By saying you've ben with that many people, you're telling me that you don't view sex the same way as I do. It's not something you just do, it has great meaning and value for me and someone who has been with everyone in the neighborhood is a complete turn off. Period. I'd rather die a virgin than to **** someone who's been with an entire town's worth of people.
Now, with that being said, Spin you need to be nicer to people and respect their feelings, as should everyone else in this thread 
EDIT: Mess @ you guys telling Mezik he should just pretty much give up on the whole virgin thing and for saying he's wrong for calling his friend a ****. Last time I checked, those are ****ty actions and ****ty actions mean ****ty person tbh. I'm actually kinda afforded by everything that was said to him considering he and I are virtually the same in what we want. Bye. I'm done. |
I agree with the beginning , but bare in mind the whole point of this thread is to give a wide range of opinions, something which I done. Also, Mezik didnt mention the 50 people thing until the right end, the way it was worded made it sound like "not a virgin? NEXT!"
Lastly, half of it was a joke. But, it really isnt funny when im in shambles and y'all clocking like a tik tok.
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Originally posted by xDiamondx
I don't really get all this hoopla over ****s. I can absolutely understand and respect Mezik's POV on that. No one has a set preference that are the same. But literally judging their personal life is too much. Yeah, I can see that it can bring into question the guy's character when it comes to actual LTR but don't judge him for doing exactly what makes him happy. As long as he is being safe and proactive about being tested for STDs, lay off the guy.
BeyNavi and Mezik, don't let the rest get on you for what you want. If you want a real LTR based on qualifications YOU deem necessary for a healthy relationship, that's OKAY. I'm not going to judge you for that. Every guy has a different desire for their LTR.
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But, I think youre missing the point of this thread. Its for opinions on peoples relationships. Im not telling someone what the should do, im giving a different perspective. Im pretty sure people dont enter this thread just to brag.
