[av98]

Originally posted by Mezik

But too me sleeping with almost 50 people is too much, and yes in this situation I will judge you based off that.

It's unfortunate because we were friends, but now he's mad that I've denied him and won't give him a chance.

agree sis

[Troye]

Originally posted by Mezik

But too me sleeping with almost 50 people is too much, and yes in this situation I will judge you based off that.

It's unfortunate because we were friends, but now he's mad that I've denied him and won't give him a chance.

Fair enough. I can see why it unsettles you. I'm more than happy to let this go because you're a decent guy and I think what you want counts more than what I believe.

And mess. It's his problem if he's mad. He obviously can't respect you when he can't respect your opinion.

[marajxgrant]

Originally posted by SpinThatShhh

You cant blame him for trying it. He still likes you. Use this "date" or whatever as an explanation/ fnal goodbye.

i was not having ****ing daniel starting to get other irrelevents involved. Mess.

Spin i'm sorry

[Buddy!]

[Mezik]

Originally posted by xDiamondx

Fair enough. I can see why it unsettles you. I'm more than happy to let this go because you're a decent guy and I think what you want counts a bit more than what I believe.

I mean he ruined a perfectly good friendship, and some of the things he's said about me now are just embarrassing. He's told me I think "I'm too good", "Think I'm better than him", etc.. And he even told me I'll be waiting forever for a relationship because I won't overlook his history.

[marajxgrant]

Originally posted by iLays

My man is my crush. I don't know if that counts.

my man is my crush & i've been posting here since page 1. lol you good.
tell us your story though

[Troye]

Originally posted by Mezik

I mean he ruined a perfectly good friendship, and some of the things he's said about me now are just embarrassing. He's told me I think "I'm too good", "Think I'm better than him", etc.. And he even told me I'll be waiting forever for a relationship because I won't overlook his history.

dd he needs a reality check if he thinks a friend (?) like you would hop on him without question.
Not hard to imagine why you want a boyfriend who is totally new to the experiences. I haven't had a boyfriend yet myself but I have a different preconception/qualification of what I want in a boyfriend.

[av98]

none of y'all r gonna give me advice of if i should say anything to the cute freshie? or congratulate me that someone thinks of me in a sexual way?

[marajxgrant]

Originally posted by av98

none of y'all r gonna give me advice of if i should say anything to the cute freshie? or congratulate me that someone thinks of me in a sexual way?

the only advice i can give is for you to follow your heart. If you want to say something to him, go right ahead.
& congrats sis get that underage D

[Troye]

Originally posted by av98

none of y'all r gonna give me advice of if i should say anything to the cute freshie? or congratulate me that someone thinks of me in a sexual way?

Sorry. One crisis at a time. I don't get time and a half.

Really though at this point, do you like him? Go for it. Just a hello or something is a good start if you don't wanna rush into anything. Nothing won't happen if you don't talk to him.

But mess at him being that messy for you. A healthy sign tbh.

[Saint]

Originally posted by av98

none of y'all r gonna give me advice of if i should say anything to the cute freshie? or congratulate me that someone thinks of me in a sexual way?

If he thinks you're cute then go for it. No advice needed tbh

[Mezik]

Originally posted by xDiamondx

dd he needs a reality check if he thinks a friend (?) like you would hop on him without question.
Not hard to imagine why you want a boyfriend who is totally new to the experiences. I haven't had a boyfriend yet myself but I have a different preconception/qualification of what I want in a boyfriend.

Well the story behind it is complicated. We were always friends and last night he suggested that I should look past my views and maybe consider entering my first relationship with him. Firstly, I wasn't attracted at all to him.. not in the slightest. Secondly, he knew that I really want my first relationship to ideally be with someone who's a virgin as well or doesn't have that much experience. I believe one of the most important things in a relationship is to grow sexually with each other and learn from each other. Not one guy teach the other everything and act as if they're some lifeless corpse for them to do what they want with. ANYWAY, back to it, he knew how important I viewed this topic and he still told that I should look past it. Thing is I've already turned down guys who were similar, not because they have had a lot of experience but because they just wanted sex and nothing serious, and figured I'd change my views because he was my friend. He went on this rant how he wants to settle down in a relationship with a virgin because he wants to teach them everything and show them what sex is like.. (exactly what I don't want) and that he really liked me and thought I should give him a try. I said no and he told me my first relationship will suck because I won't be with someone with experience and that more people lose their virgnities to people who aren't virgins and I'm being too picky.. yatti yatti yatta. The ironic thing is when he lost his, he had the similar mindset as me because he lost his virginity to a virgin.

[av98]

Originally posted by xDiamondx

Sorry. One crisis at a time. I don't get time and a half.

Really though at this point, do you like him? Go for it. Just a hello or something is a good start if you don't wanna rush into anything. Nothing won't happen if you don't talk to him.

But mess at him being that messy for you. A healthy sign tbh.

yass. he betta stan 4 me. imma b such a tease

[ks_dollar]

when i'm not with him i want him even more

[Troye]

Originally posted by Mezik

Well the story behind it is complicated. We were always friends and last night he suggested that I should look past my views and maybe consider entering my first relationship with him. Firstly, I wasn't attracted at all to him.. not in the slightest. Secondly, he knew that I really want my first relationship to ideally be with someone who's a virgin as well or doesn't have that much experience. I believe one of the most important things in a relationship is to grow sexually with each other and learn from each other. Not one guy teach the other everything and act as if they're some lifeless corpse for them to do what they want with. ANYWAY, back to it, he knew how important I viewed this topic and he still told that I should look past it. Thing is I've already turned down guys who were similar, not because they have had a lot of experience but because they just wanted sex and nothing serious, and figured I'd change my views because he was my friend. He went on this rant how he wants to settle down in a relationship with a virgin because he wants to teach them everything and show them what sex is like.. (exactly what I don't want) and that he really liked me and thought I should give him a try. I said no and he told me my first relationship will suck because I won't be with someone with experience and that more people lose their virgnities to people who aren't virgins and I'm being too picky.. yatti yatti yatta. The ironic thing is when he lost his, he had the similar mindset as me because he lost his virginity to a virgin.

I totally get it. But him saying that exactly... sort of makes me question his whole reason for a relationship. And that's not even a relationship.

And mess at him trying jinx you. Having expectations isn't a bad thing at all but trying to get you to drop it for HIM?

Mess at the one guy teaching the other everything; precisely my type (I have no clue what it means to commit. Yeah, I'm using that word even in this context. )

[Mezik]

Originally posted by xDiamondx

I totally get it. But him saying that exactly... sort of makes me question his whole reason for a relationship. And that's not even a relationship.

And mess at him trying jinx you. Having expectations isn't a bad thing at all but trying to get you to drop it for HIM?

Mess at the one guy teaching the other everything; precisely my type (I have no clue what it means to commit. Yeah, I'm using that word even in this context. )

I just told him go find someone else who's a virgin and he flipped.

He acted as if I should've immediately fell for him when he asked me.

[Troye]

Originally posted by Mezik

I just told him go find someone else who's a virgin and he flipped.

He acted as if I should've immediately fell for him when he asked me.

Well, at least you found out what kind of guy he is. Especially when he can't be a respectful friend.
I find those kind of people worse than the ones who are more upfront.

[Mezik]

Originally posted by xDiamondx

Well, at least you found out what kind of guy he is. Especially when he can't be a respectful friend.
I find those kind of people worse than the ones who are more upfront.

And honestly, when you have that many partners with one (maybe two?) relationships. It says something and I don't want that to happen to me.

[Saint]

Mess @ this thread right now

[marajxgrant]

in other news, there's this guy in my English class (not the one i have w/Cameron) that is always flirting with me & rubbing my back & stuff.
we both sit in the back & it's just i hate myself for letting it happen. but i've been asking my teacher to move my seat more to the front but he won't because I had no problem last semester when we got those seats.
I mean the boy is cute or whatever, but I have a man & i feel like i'm betraying him