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Originally posted by Ryan
My dad tried to turn me against my mother the couple of years I was sent to live with him (in the hopes that our relationship would get better). Our relationship deteriorated into nothing when I felt he chose his new wife and her kids over me. Christmas 2001 he told me was taking her up to her mother's house. He didn't come back for me. He wanted me to move up to where he was and I refused. That summer I packed my things and flew back to NJ with my mom. He didnt even see me off.
When I graduated from HS in 2004, he didn't come to graduation because his wife wasn't invited. I was pretty much done after that.
We talk semi-regularly but I have no desire to put up with his nonsense.
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You are dealing with soooo much ****. TBH I don't think its worth it tbh. But everyone does things differently. For me, I don't consider anyone my family unless they act upon it. Like my aunts and uncles, I won't talk to them or don't like them if they don't care, they are annoying or if they have mentioned gay slurring. I usually always pull apart from that.
I can see it being harder with dad's though. Mine support me and helps me out, but has never been there emotionally and has been rude to me multiple times. I seriously don't know how I would feel if I ever lost contact with him. I think I would live my life but I never know!