Anyone who told anyone and then retracted, I feel bad for you. Like, seriously bad.
I came out to this one guy, thinking that they were too, but when they told me that they weren't, I started to retract and act as if I was just testing them to see if they were gay (they'd already done the same to me)... but then I decided that it wasn't worth it and just admitted that I was bi.
He'll never admit it, but I still think that he's gay, or at the very least bi.