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Poll: Have you ever been bullied?
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View Poll Results: Have you ever been bullied?
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Yes
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63.70% |
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No
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36.30% |
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I've been a bully.
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23.97% |
Member Since: 11/11/2010
Posts: 11,240
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Yes They use to throw text books at me yet teachers did nothing. I also was threaten to be raped. School was hell. I'm so glad I'm out.
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Member Since: 4/28/2011
Posts: 26,425
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Originally posted by Rock That Beat...
Yes and it was not that I came home and cried for hours and ****. I don't know, I always told myself not to care about it and I did and they stopped. When you stop giving them attention, they will stop because it ain't funny anymore. I've never been a bully, I just can't be one because I know how it feels to be bullied and I just can't do that to anyone. And all them losers that talked **** about me are now dropped off school because they're too dumb, they had to do their year again, are fat, ugly or just so damn losers with no friends. I mean in the end I won.  |
Always happens
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Member Since: 5/26/2010
Posts: 4,712
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Yes. Everyone has in my opinion.
But it's not the same as US School, we keep the same grade for 1-7th grade, 8-10th and 11-13th.
Constantly from like.. 4-8th grade. lol.
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Member Since: 4/28/2011
Posts: 26,425
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Originally posted by easygirls
I got teased for being shy. I changed schools after 4th grade and never felt like I fit in my new school.
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What's 4th Grade? How old are you? 
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Member Since: 4/28/2011
Posts: 26,425
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I was teased by my two friends when i was in Primary School (8/9 yo). Now they are homeless and on drugs. #oop. I was a bully as well though, i regret it 
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Member Since: 11/17/2011
Posts: 52,363
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apparently ppl claim I was a bully
But I just stood my ground and made it clear when I didn't like someone...I'm not gonna pretend that I enjoy your presence if I don't
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Member Since: 4/9/2009
Posts: 3,283
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Originally posted by JM4ever
Oh God. That's too horrible. I might kill someone if they do those things to me. Don't worry, karma will happen.
I was bullied once back in my Junior year. I did nothing because I think that if you will not notice them, they will just stop but no, that thing don't apply to them. I just let them do it but I am getting my ***** for revenge. When I became a Senior, my revenge happened. Some of them got suspended, some of them are now experiencing embarrassment and some of their allies quit and switch to my side when they hear the reasons why I am doing those things to them. I transformed myself into a bully and I don't feel bad about it since they are now having the same feeling I had when they do those things to me and I only bully those people who did something bad to me.
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Don't take it bad but are these individuals really worthy that you get caught up in a cycle of negativity?
The best revenge IMO is to be happy, to not think about these people, because they're not bringing anything good/interesting to your existence, and most of all to not be like them. I don't know you but I'm sure you're better than that...
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Member Since: 5/2/2010
Posts: 6,088
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I was bullied when I was 9, I got bullied in middle school from 9-12 and for 1 yr in high school. I got bullied for 3 more years in high school and then it stopped. I got punched, kicked and called racist names. I'm 1/2 Chinese, 1/4 English, 1/8 Spanish and 1/8 Italian.
I tried to commit suicide when I was 15 because my Dad worked overseas since I was 7 and my Mum didn't understand me and comes from a different culture and I felt I had no one to talk or relate to.
I was diagnosed with Asperger's at 16, which is a mild form of Autism and it's only borderline but it makes you think about life and being different. It's affected my relationships with people and trust and I find it hard to be intimate with people but I'm now more aggressive and confrontational as a result.
Life has gotten better, so it's a good thing I suppose
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Member Since: 9/2/2011
Posts: 14,788
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I've been bullied all my life.
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Member Since: 3/30/2011
Posts: 5,259
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I've been teased (who hasn't) but it's never been physical, persistent, or anything major so it's not bullying.
I'm not a particularly easy target for bullies. I'm no cage fighter but I'm tall and well-built, have a good social circle (it's far easier to bully someone lonely) there's nothing bully-able about my appearance and I dress reasonably well. Plus I just generally don't let that stuff get to me, I can give off an air of boredom and nonchalance in those situations even if I'm feeling pretty crappy inside.
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Member Since: 6/9/2011
Posts: 9,749
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Yes 
Because I.... Oh **** it, y'all will just laugh at it.
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Member Since: 4/5/2012
Posts: 7,953
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Originally posted by Tempest
I was bullied when I was 9, I got bullied in middle school from 9-12 and for 1 yr in high school. I got bullied for 3 more years in high school and then it stopped.
I tried to commit suicide when I was 15 because my Dad worked overseas since I was 7 and my Mum didn't understand me and comes from a different culture and I felt I had no one to talk or relate
Life has gotten better, so it's a good thing I suppose
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I'm so sorry 
I hope things get a lot better and you always have people on here to talk to 
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Member Since: 3/7/2012
Posts: 11,952
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Once in 4th grade but never again. I'd never allow it again. But it wasn't that brutal as it is in American movies. I've never been to an American high school but it seems to me like if noone cares. Thanks got here in Czech Republic it's different. In fact I've never met anybody who was really bullied.
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Member Since: 4/5/2012
Posts: 7,953
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Originally posted by medosuxx
Yes
Because I.... Oh **** it, y'all will just laugh at it. |
Judging by the poll results, most being bullied, I don't think that we would
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Member Since: 11/17/2011
Posts: 52,363
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Originally posted by medosuxx
Yes
Because I.... Oh **** it, y'all will just laugh at it. |
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Member Since: 6/30/2007
Posts: 18,079
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Originally posted by Blur
Don't take it bad but are these individuals really worthy that you get caught up in a cycle of negativity?
The best revenge IMO is to be happy, to not think about these people, because they're not bringing anything good/interesting to your existence, and most of all to not be like them. I don't know you but I'm sure you're better than that...
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I'm not the only one who they bully. I take the first step in proving that they are no kings and queens of my school. Yeah, i tried that. Back in my junior year, I always go with my friends and do things that will make me happy and forget those bastards but yeah, they just appear there in my front and **** things up. I don't even know what I did to them. The time came I am so fed up and it just appeared in my mind that I have to take actions since it will become worse if I'm still idle to the situation.
Oh yeah, thanks for the advice 
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Member Since: 3/30/2011
Posts: 5,259
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Oh I've also been accused of being a bully, which I don't think is entirely fair. I sometimes act to people in real life as I might in NHB or the forum in general - small jabs and not taking them seriously in any context and jsut making them feel stupid, rather than full-on attacks. Which I suppose can still knock someone's self-esteem quite a lot
It's a habit I've pretty much broken (except online where there is no reason to break it cause it's all fun and games)
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Member Since: 6/30/2007
Posts: 18,079
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But yeah, IDGAF to them now. They don't **** me up before l my graduate and so do I. In the end, I send them a message that they can't just take anyone's self-esteem and **** it up like they are the gods of my school. That we can also fight. 
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Member Since: 4/9/2009
Posts: 3,283
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Originally posted by JM4ever
I'm not the only one who they bully. I take the first step in proving that they are no kings and queens of my school. Yeah, i tried that. Back in my junior year, I always go with my friends and do things that will make me happy and forget those bastards but yeah, they just appear there in my front and **** things up. I don't even know what I did to them. The time came I am so fed up and it just appeared in my mind that I have to take actions since it will become worse if I'm still idle to the situation.
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Okay so you're just defending yourself in a way ? I understand... But I still think it will be better when you won't be in contact with them any longer. You might think you've been degraded by their actions but believe me they're the ones degraded because, at the end of the day, they're the ones who stooped the lowest just to make someone suffer!
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Member Since: 6/30/2007
Posts: 18,079
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Originally posted by Blur
Okay so you're just defending yourself in a way ? I understand... But I still think it will be better when you won't be in contact with them any longer. You might think you've been degraded by their actions but believe me they're the ones degraded because, at the end of the day, they're the ones who stooped the lowest just to make someone suffer!
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Wow. My friends also told me the same things. I guess I can't control my temper. Thanks for the words. 
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