I'm not going to support one side or the other of the debate, this is simply about HOW you guys did it.
I realize things have cooled down, but I just have a few things to say just for you guys to reflect on.
Like Katy has said before, you guys should learn to "agree to disagree."
No need to take things this seriously. Of course people are going to have different opinions, and it's alright to explain and defend your opinion but there is no reason to take it to this level.
Ramcoro, you brought up the subject fairly and that's alright. I've noticed that you can disagree while still retaining your temper and you are not overly agressive or hurtful at all in your words, which I applaud.
Everyone has their right to an opinion online.
Now Sammi, I'm glad you disagreed and decided to add to the conversation,
but the level you too things simply wasn't acceptable. There wasn't a need to swear or to say derogatory things towards Ramcoro. I believe you took this way past a peaceful normal debate and it was on the edge of cyber-bullying. You need to realize your mistakes and really apologize to Ramcoro.
Now why don't you guys both take a rest of ATRL, and maybe send each other messages to sort our your feelings. At least send each other a sincere apology.
Just my words.
She'll take a break eventually though. I think/hope .... 
I'm going to go listen to Firework, Born This Way, ****ing Perfect, etc to make myself feel better.