[Glamthony]

the reason why i would never date a effeminate gay is that i'm 1000000000000000000000000% bottom XD i might be manly at work but in bed i'm just a

[RedDlicious]

Originally posted by Hi.Def

The gerls going IN.

LOL WERQQQQQQQ

[RedDlicious]

Originally posted by Glamthony

the reason why i would never date a effeminate gay is that i'm 1000000000000000000000000% bottom XD i might be manly at work but in bed i'm just a

Femmes are def not for everyone to date...I can agree to that

[I RUN L.A.]

Well for me a femine gay is fine.. IF they are a good person?

Like really.. In life.. I am always comparead to the cliche idea of a gay person. A lot of them give bad reps to other people simply by how they act.

Its the same with ignorant black people. I'm sure a lot of black people feel the way I do, but in their situation.


Why cant people just not act sloppy

[Orsay]

Originally posted by iBeyoncé.

Should I give my opinion on this subject?

Spill nao

Originally posted by Hi.Def

The gerls going IN.

Damn, the way they shake it you can just tell they'd ride a dick down until they got that nut

[GeezusHaberdash]

Originally posted by Kerihill

Yeah, this is a different guy! I have a tendency to come out to my crushes way too soon.

The sooner you find out they aren't interested in you, the better.
Don't try to seduce a hetero, it doesn't always work like in the erotic novels.

[GeezusHaberdash]

Originally posted by BornThisWay

Damn, the way they shake it you can just tell they'd ride a dick down until they got that nut

NOOOOOOooo

[Glamthony]

Originally posted by RedDlicious

Femmes are def not for everyone to date...I can agree to that

actually i've met lots of fems bitches who date hot-manly-rude tops

[Gui Blackout]

Originally posted by RedDlicious

And WHERE the **** did I say that a normal gay had to? I didn't. You won't find that. MY point was that homosexuals, like ANY group, has a huge spectrum of people, none of which are NORMAL (you are the one that brought that word into this conversation, demeaning femmes as if they don't have a place in their own ****ing community), and that none should be defined by their stereotype, and the ones who fit in that stereotype don't deserve the hate and disrespect from the rest of the community.

You said we make you look bad, and your reasoning for that was because the small minded might think that we all are like that. You are reinforcing their bigotry from inside the community. If you are masc and gay, then all you have to do to set the bigots straight is live your life and show them that not all gays are that way. I have more masc gays friends than feminine...but you better believe I am not going to deal with any that have something against the femmes.

And WHERE did i said that femmes don't have a place in the community? And i never said that there has to be a stereotype. It doesn't. But sadly, the "small minded" today, are a HUGE part of the population. And we (non-femmes) get the the femmes stereotype beacause we are gays, and the gay "incorporation" is a femme.

One more time, I DON'T HATE FEMMES. But i have my toughts about them and how they inadvertently affect the non-femmes.

[Vin]

Originally posted by iBeyoncé.

Should I give my opinion on this subject?

Still waiting on your response.



...Vin

[Drais.]

Originally posted by BornThisWay

Spill nao



Damn, the way they shake it you can just tell they'd ride a dick down until they got that nut

!!!!!!

Fems usually take dick the best too, and a real man takes pain.

I'm here for them.

[GeezusHaberdash]

Originally posted by Hi.Def

The gerls going IN.

I need to learn how to do all that. Yessir!

[Glamthony]

Originally posted by BornThisWay

Spill nao



Damn, the way they shake it you can just tell they'd ride a dick down until they got that nut

[Dancefloor]

I don't want to offend anyone, I agree fem gays have done good things for the gay community. Let's not forget *some* of them hit on everything that has a ***** and even straight people say that's the type of gay guys they hate.

[Glamthony]

Originally posted by Hi.Def

!!!!!!

Fems usually take dick the best too, and a real man takes pain.

I'm here for them.

only a real man can take a huge dick and ask for more! u need to have some guts girl

[The Knowledge]

Originally posted by RedDlicious

I mean if he is gonna be rude to you, get rid of him. Otherwise, just keep acting like you normally do, and hopefully he can slowly learn that gays come in all shapes and sizes, and don't have a mold, just like anyone else

Right, I already shifted focus and am eyeing another boy... Too bad I still see this boy regularly, I can't stand his ass anymore.

Originally posted by GeezusHaberdash

The sooner you find out they aren't interested in you, the better.
Don't try to seduce a hetero, it doesn't always work like in the erotic novels.

That's right, although my new crush (the one where I spilled in Tinychat) it still communicating with me after I came out to him so things are still looking good. Thanks g.

Originally posted by BornThisWay

Spill nao



Damn, the way they shake it you can just tell they'd ride a dick down until they got that nut

Dead.

[RedDlicious]

Originally posted by Gui Blackout

And WHERE did i said that femmes don't have a place in the community? And i never said that there has to be a stereotype. It doesn't. But sadly, the "small minded" today, are a HUGE part of the population. And we (non-femmes) get the the femmes stereotype beacause we are gays, and the gay "incorporation" is a femme.

One more time, I DON'T HATE FEMMES. But i have my toughts about them and how they inadvertently affect the non-femmes.

OK...well you said that y'all were the "normal gays" which implies that being femme is not normal. You said that they gave all you normal types a "bad rep" which implies that being femme is somehow shameful or negative. And to remind you, you have had mostly negative comments in a thread titled "What do you have AGAINST fem gays?"

Maybe you have a problem with femmes, maybe you don't. But based on what you have said, it DOES appear that way, or at least that you have a low enough opinion of them that you don't want to be associated with them

[Orsay]

Originally posted by Dancefloor

I don't want to offend anyone, I agree fem gays have done good things for the gay community. Let's not forget *some* of them hit on everything that has a ***** and even straight people say that's the type of gay guys they hate.

Gerl the same could be said about any gender or sexuality. Those people are annoying, but that's beside the topic at hand so your point is invalid ****er!

[Moonage Daydream]

I really don't understand gays discriminating against other gays for being effeminate. Makes no sense. You know what it's like to be looked down upon because of who you are, why would you perpetuate that against someone else? It's still a form of homophobia, not to mention kind of sexist in a way. Do feminine lesbians lash out against butch lesbians for being too stereotypical? I don't hear of that happening much.

[Glamthony]

Originally posted by Dancefloor

I don't want to offend anyone, I agree fem gays have done good things for the gay community. Let's not forget *some* of them hit on everything that has a ***** and even straight people say that's the type of gay guys they hate.

mmmm i have to disagree with u, that behavior is common in any type of gays, we're all just a bunch of *****s