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Discussion: Most hurtful thing anybody's ever said to you in real life?
Member Since: 8/22/2009
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Originally posted by ManDown
I'm still not completely sure how my father feels about me being gay. He's currently in prison (  ), |
I would throw some shade at your dad, but this is not the time.
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Member Since: 1/14/2011
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EastCoastTM's Story about a ol' white bitch whom is PRESSED that black don't crack
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So I've been dating my best friend since like the age of 8... He's amazing, he cooks, smart (a liddle), cute and his personality is EVERYTHING. The only problem is he's white and I'm black.. People are a lot more open to the common black MEN white WOMAN but black WOMAN and white MAN they tend to have a problem with..
So We've been dating since 10th grade (Seniors this year WOOT WOOT) and 3 months ago he decided it was time to met his grandmother (now since we've been friends since 3rd grade I know his mother and brothers etc) well Ive never met his grandma.. So we have this amazing dinner and me and him decide to go to his room after everything is over..
I came back downstairs to help them clean up before I enter the room I hear his grandmother say "You didn't tell me she black, she's a pretty girl and everything but I don't like what you are condoning what if they decide to get married or have kids?"
He's mom basically tells her mom that it doesn't matter and she should mind her business  ... So I go back upstairs and act like everything is fine and when the grandmother leaves everyone hugs and kisses and I SHADE her ass DOWN...
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Member Since: 6/7/2011
Posts: 22,128
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Originally posted by satellites™
Her entire album should be your life right now lol.
I Care
I Miss You
Best Thing I Never Had
Damn boy, I dont know if I could make it. When I fall, I fall hard and when it comes to men I am a mess.  |
I was in love with him but he never knew. But I guess I'm slowly letting him go. And I fall hard too but for some reason I'm just not as sad I should be. It's bizarre.
It kind of is! It's almost like 4 is the soundtrack to my life right now.  I played Start Over while I was preparing to talk to him and hoping that we could be friends again, I Miss You after he told me we were completely done as friends, then I Care once I was feeling less sad, and now Best Thing I Never Had to convince myself that I'm moving on.
Maybe I'm lying to myself and I'm not over him. If anything, though, I'm in love with who he WAS. not who he is now.
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Member Since: 8/22/2009
Posts: 50,646
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Originally posted by $CBCOOL$
When I was a kid, my light skin friends told me I couldn't hang out with them anymore because I was darker than them, later that day they told me they were joking but it still hurt.  |
They can all die in house fires, you should have told them that.
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Member Since: 10/9/2008
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Originally posted by Patrick
Right? It struck me as really silly that she took it upon herself to point out everything that wasn't right between us.
I wish I had your confidence. I wish I had the ability to differentiate between someone who doesn't want me and somebody who doesn't deserve me.
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I'm not THAT confident, at all. I haven't been with a guy for a while... i'm tired of being used and going after them and being let down. "Never give a man something he doesn't give you first". 
I've learned that you have to be a little bit mean and bitchy, they love it. If you're nice they got bored. People likes to suffer, trust me. If you're mean they LOVE IT. Sounds stupid but it's true.
If someone worthy comes up things will get good effortlessly and everything will flow.
Somebody that makes you feel insecure is somebody that doesn't deserve you, you have to get rid of that people.
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Member Since: 6/7/2011
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Originally posted by Patrick
I love seeing this very human side of our members. 
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I do, too. For example, I've always thought Satellites was a tough Beyonce stan that was programmed only to care about Beyonce, but this thread as well as others have proven him to be a great individual over the past few weeks.
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Member Since: 8/22/2009
Posts: 50,646
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Originally posted by Attitude
In my freshman year at high school, me and my friend were walking to class. All of a sudden a jock who used to be my old classmate comes up to us. He tells my friend to stop hanging out with me because I was gay. I was embarrassed, but that whole rest of the day my friend didn't speak to me or acknowledge that I was even in his presence. Later that night he texts me saying he no longer wants to be my friend because I was ruining his reputation. I haven't spoken to him ever since and now he hangs out with the jock and look at me with dirty looks.
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Oh see, this type of **** right here genuinely pisses me off. Like to the point of rage, I hate boys like that.
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Member Since: 11/7/2010
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You guys have really touched my heart tonight. It's beautiful that everyone can put aside the stanning **** & have such lovely conversation. You guys truly made me have a different view on everyone now. I would hope to see more threads like this. It's just amazing how much you guys made me cry tonight, & just to think most of us literally have never met each other, but were brave enough to share these stories with everyone. On this final post before I go to bed, so I don't fall asleep on my laptop, I would like to let everyone know you all are beautiful, & I will always be here for you if you need it. Much love, goodnight everyone :heart:
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Member Since: 11/11/2010
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Originally posted by KoreanDream
Seriously? I hate assumptions. It's just a dumb thing to do, to assume.
I do, too. ATRL is hilarious and I love the stanning and all of the threads, but I'd trade it all in for threads like these. It's so nice actually to discuss with people. We even had civil conversations about artists, too! It was amazing. |
I hate assumptions, too. People need to get their facts straight first.
Me too! Honestly, if ATRL had more threads like this, I would be so much more active and not feel bad about it. Very rarely do you see a deep, civil conversation like this on ATRL, and it's sad. But I'm beginning to realize that it is becoming more and more common, which is nice.
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Originally posted by satellites™
I would throw some shade at your dad, but this is not the time.
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Feel free to, sis. I don't mind. I throw shade at him all of the time. 
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Member Since: 6/10/2010
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Originally posted by Patrick
I love seeing this very human side of our members.
All of you are amazing. |
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I love reading threads like this.
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Member Since: 6/3/2011
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Someone told me my goodies were to big for their box to handle.
Needles to say I was offended and flattered at the same time.
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Member Since: 5/28/2010
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Member Since: 8/24/2008
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Originally posted by Skin
Someone told me my goodies were to big for their box to handle.
Needles to say I was offended and flattered at the same time.
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Member Since: 4/24/2011
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Originally posted by EastCoastTM
EastCoastTM's Story about a ol' white bitch whom is PRESSED that black don't crack
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So I've been dating my best friend since like the age of 8... He's amazing, he cooks, smart (a liddle), cute and his personality is EVERYTHING. The only problem is he's white and I'm black.. People are a lot more open to the common black MEN white WOMAN but black WOMAN and white MAN they tend to have a problem with..
So We've been dating since 10th grade (Seniors this year WOOT WOOT) and 3 months ago he decided it was time to met his grandmother (now since we've been friends since 3rd grade I know his mother and brothers etc) well Ive never met his grandma.. So we have this amazing dinner and me and him decide to go to his room after everything is over..
I came back downstairs to help them clean up before I enter the room I hear his grandmother say "You didn't tell me she black, she's a pretty girl and everything but I don't like what you are condoning what if they decide to get married or have kids?"
He's mom basically tells her mom that it doesn't matter and she should mind her business ... So I go back upstairs and act like everything is fine and when the grandmother leaves everyone hugs and kisses and I SHADE her ass DOWN...
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Member Since: 8/22/2009
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Originally posted by Sahn
I dated this guy 2 summers ago. It was basically a "2 weeks relationship" (went dinner together, beach, clubbing, etc etc etc), we got along really well and i was really into it. On his last night in the city (he was here for vacation ) we went to a club, i was with my friends, he was with his but we met up anyway. At one moment my friend said to me "Is that your boy?" and he was kissing this other guy. But when i mean "kissing" i'm talking about FRENCH kissing, they were really horny. It was a shock, i couldn't believe it. I grab my friend and we went home... and cried and cried and cried.
Since then i had problems to relate with guys. I couldn't trust anybody. |
You should beat that bitch down. 
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Member Since: 6/3/2011
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Originally posted by iBeyoncé.
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I was quite puzzled... I didn't know whether I should thank them or take my hand and put it across their mug.
A mess.
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ATRL Contributor
Member Since: 8/8/2006
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Originally posted by Sahn
I've learned that you have to be a little bit mean and bitchy, they love it. If you're nice they got bored. People likes to suffer, trust me. If you're mean they LOVE IT. Sounds stupid but it's true.
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Yes! That's what I've learned from my past experiences, if you want to get a man you need to be a bitch with him
I used to act all cute and lovely but the guys all were a cund and ended up hurting me, Now I'm a bitch and I can get whatever I want 
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Member Since: 6/7/2011
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Originally posted by ManDown
I hate assumptions, too. People need to get their facts straight first.
Me too! Honestly, if ATRL had more threads like this, I would be so much more active and not feel bad about it. Very rarely do you see a deep, civil conversation like this on ATRL, and it's sad. But I'm beginning to realize that it is becoming more and more common, which is nice.
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I love the crazy stanning and all of the hilarious shading and dragging, but it's a little disappointing not to have actual, genuine conversations on this site. But like you said, they've become more and more common lately and it's a truly beautiful thing. I love being able to see this side of people on ATRL.
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Member Since: 6/3/2011
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And iBeyonce, sis, why isn't Beyonce in your avatar?
4 is released this week, we don't have time for whatever that thing is in your current avatar.
Promote bitch...
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