I wish we had more threads like this on ATRL. It really gives you a chance to see everybody's true colors, and not just the whole bitchy stan that you typically see everybody on ATRL as.
It's quite beautiful, I love these threads. I wish I could have a one on one with all of you I will continue reading everyone's post, but I might fall asleep soon, I had to wake up at 5 today
Thankyou, I plan to come out to him again, but not just yet.
Just do it whenever you feel comfortable enough to do it. It's never going to be easy but when you get into a mindset where you're ready, do.
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Hahah they weren't the first time it happened. But around the 10th time we would just crack jokes about it.
I had a justin-bieber-ish hair cut, it was a bit shorter. and I guess they haven't seen a guy with that amount of hair on his head hahaha xD In the middle east they were so ****ing delusional that they actually treated me like a girl!
Once, I was going back to Yemen, where my dad works. Anyway, we are at the aiport security, and in the middle east, the guys go forward, and the females go to this room where they get searched by another women. Because of you know men aren't allowed to touch the women. So I am going to the guys section and this worker was like pushing me and pointing at the girls place... I swear to god I wanted to take my pants off right that second and go like "LOOK! PENIS!" hahah xD
You are a mess, but I would have done the same thing.
Oh, really? It's still sad that he didn't feel the need to come out to his family and show you off to them. You need somebody who will gladly introduce you to their family as their boyfriend. It would be really hard seeing his brother alot. I really hope you find somebody.
My family isn't exactly support of me dating other guys either... they refuse to even speak of it. I actually did meet someone, who I like... they only live back in my hometown.
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Originally posted by J可愛い
You guys shoul open another thread called
"Most joyful, proudful, grateful thing anybody's ever said you in real life?"
The one mine:
When my mom was about to die, and she told me that I was the better son on earth, and she tanked me to follow her all my way, and always been there for her.
and that i the thing that pumps up my life since that day
I HATE that! I had this friend who had long hair like this:
And whenever he and I would go places together, people would say "Hello ladies!" or "How may I help you ladies?" I wanted to slap them so badly because he didn't grow the balls to do it himself.
I use to be the fobby pretty boy phase, but now I'm out of that stage
I just thought of another one back in junior yr when I had been flirting with girls off and on I remember meeting this girl back a year ago who I thought was cute but that was all but a year later my friend at the time said that she was attracted to me and would like to start talking so we could get to know each other and stuff. Well being the dumb immature boy I was at the time had to rush things and ask if she would like to date me and she said yes and all seemed good at that moment but I was always dying to talk to her texting her every chance I got constantly asking her if she wanted to get together and talking her constantly idk looking back if I was too being way too clingly or if she was just lying to make me feel good. Anyways I remember one night she was feeling well and this dude was giving her a hard time so of course I started get pissed and I started fighting with the dude (verbally and online). I finally got to the point where I tried to talk sensibly to him and he seemed to calm down again thinking he almost did too soon. Finally in a move to win her heart I said I'd go to prom with her and she finally showed some interest which was another dumb move cuz I didn't have very much money n I was kinda scared to go cuz I didn't feel ready but was ready to do so to win her over. Well unforunately that all went over cuz a lot ish was going on at school and every day this teacher was on my ass even tho I did nothing wrong and it doesn't take much for me to get overwhelmed at times so with that and with the nerves of going I caved on going. I knew this was coming but a few weeks later after she came to my house in which seeing back we had no connection at all she wanted to break up wit me. I was devasted at the time cuz I was afraid that she was pissed that caved on going to prom with her or if I wasn't being a good bf but I thought I did all I could so I did something I rarely do and that was desperately beg to her to re-consider and she said she would well she hasn't talked to me since. See I do understand I should've gone to prom and maybe told her I was nervous about but I was young and immature and I wanted to anything I could to make her happy even if it meant facing my fears. The thing that turned me from sad to pissed off was that she was wit a new dude not long after which makes me think that dude that was giving her a hard time was really her bf at the time and she was just waiting for the right time to break up wit me. Idk I'll never know I guess but u would think girls would want a dude who would do anything for them and all that ish and yes I should've gone to prom with her (luv to repeat myself) but other dudes have done way worse **** to them n they still stay wit them. It really just hurt cuz I would've done anything for her. I'm only human and I like everyone make mistakes but it really helped me grow up and learn now to act with impluse which a lot kids do now and I try to him them before it's too late.
I guess I'm the only one, but if I could, I'd take back all the bullying I've experience. A lot of you, well a lot of people, say that you've become stronger because of it. But I'm not here for that, I hate bullying, I hate bullies, and they leave lifelong scares that I'm not here for. I firmly believe a world with no school bullies is so much better.
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I don't wanna know how it feels to get into a fight/beaten up/get physical with someone. I've been abused, but never in a fight.
Yo, THIS. I've never gotten into a fight, and I'm hella scared of it. I can just imagine one bad ass mutha****er punching my face hard, me hitting my head on the concrete and busting my head open, brain hemmorage, eventally brain dead, I'm not here for that.
However, I LOVE watching school fights. They're hilarious, cuz they last like 10 seconds, but they're crazy lmao. How ironic is that?
I always say, if someone said they wanted to fight me, I'd run. And if I was at school, and someone was tryna fight me, I'd run right into the arms of the closest teacher. Be like:
I HATE that! I had this friend who had long hair like this:
And whenever he and I would go places together, people would say "Hello ladies!" or "How may I help you ladies?" I wanted to slap them so badly because he didn't grow the balls to do it himself.
That pissed me off SO much before. It's silly that people just assume that you're a specific gender. Even now that I'm practically bald and have facial hair, people still think that I'm a girl sometimes.
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Originally posted by iBeyoncé.
They opened up and let you see what's inside. Tell me sis how pink was it?
You're a mess, sis.
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Not to hark back to my time on ThatGrapeJuice, but we used to have discussions like this ALL the time. It was beautiful until stupid-ass stans took over that site.
Really? I used to have discussions like this on a forum I was previously on. I miss threads like this, honestly. The stanning on here gets to be too much at times, and it's nice to have a civil conversation with everybody that doesn't involve artists.
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I made one before, Coming Out Story, that thread was too much for me
Damn, I wish I would have posted in it when it was open. My coming out story was a MESS.
I'm too "white" for black people, I'm too "black" for white people. I'm too gay to hang out with guys, yet I'm too straight to be at sleepovers with the girls. I'm honestly stuck in the middle and it ****ing sucks.
A series of text messages I got from a friend of an ex-boyfriend.
This hurt me a lot. I was prepared to accept the fact that this guy and I were on different pages as far as our relationship went, but it hurt me a lot that his friend would text me to explain exactly why we were not compatible, yet he never gave me a solid explanation why we wouldn't work, and he certainly never went into this sort of detail as to why he was no longer interested in me. The part that hurt the most was the "been there done that, move on" bit. I had been with this guy for 2 years. It wasn't such a simple issue of "moving on". Several years later and I still have these text messages saved. I don't know why.
Omg. What a jerk.
I HATE when people GETS IN a relationship (and the other guy let her), especially women, they think they have the right to be the spokeswoman. They're so ****ing annoying. "too bad I'm the wrong gender" ****, get the **** OUT.
Sounds extremely corny and dated but i've learned that you shouldn't be sad for somedy that doesn't deserve you.
This... this is the most hurtful thing someone has told me.
Kidding, sis, I KNOW. I read that over and I said to myself "who the **** is going to feel sympathy for someone like this?" I'm a self-proclaimed mess.
My dad has some things against being gay. It goes right past me because he's showing improvement of being okay with it, and he does support me. He has a bad way of showing it, as he does with all problems that have to do with emotion, so I don't care. But at times he's done things really shady, that he doesn't know hurts me. He says things like "I'm counting on you for grandchildren" to my brother, he jokes to my friends that are girls about hooking up with me to turn me straight, it's like... what the ****?
I know these are jokes, dad, but I also see right through your CRUEL INTENTIONS. Backhanded jokes and compliments are the worse. Yeah, I know my skinny jeans are great, but I know you're commenting because they're feminine and you want to make a joke of me. I hate that.
Gurl we have the same dilemma, except your predicament is religious values from your parents, and mine is old fashion style from my parents.
I know my dad would kick me out of the house if I came out, but when I heard him say it out of his mouth -- that there was no "gay" in the family, they would be kicked out, it hurt.
I dont think my mother would kick me out but the relationship would change. And Ive tried so many times when we were alone but the words just will not come out.
Ok, so I had this crush on a girl for months. We became good friends. We remained friends for about a year. Her best friend got super jealous when we hung out for some stupid reason and did a whole bunch of random bs to me. Anyways once we finally started dating, it got even worse, and I don't know what the he'll happened, but they had a sleepover one weekend and she pretty much convinced her of all this bs, and things ended. Its a lot more complex than that but that's the gist.
Sucks cause I still love her and think about her all the time. :/
There was this other thing, once a bitch called me fat, he kept saying that, his friend joined and i was officialy the school clown, i cried in my room what i have done to deserve that, i was mainly peaceful, i was ALWAYS alone, i never make contact with classmates, i'm just an outkast, then it got worse since everybody ran away at my sight, it made me feel worthless.
You know what, then i decided to get into a bitchfight wth the first douche to insult me, it was a popular ****, i beat the crap out of him, but his friends told the teacher that i started, i got expelled for 3 days.
But karma always backfires, this bitch stayed in the same class before getting expelled, his entourage are failing their classes and i have the highest overall grade.
I've gotten that line before.
Girl did it not work right?
I will continue reading everyone's post, but I might fall asleep soon, I had to wake up at 5 today 
It's still sad that he didn't feel the need to come out to his family and show you off to them. You need somebody who will gladly introduce you to their family as their boyfriend. It would be really hard seeing his brother alot. I really hope you find somebody. 
They're hilarious, cuz they last like 10 seconds, but they're crazy lmao. How ironic is that?
