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Originally posted by ManDown
Very, very true.  Well, if you like, I could always PM you the x-rated version. Yeah, I agree. And it sucks, because I've been "tricked" into hookups a few times. I'll be borderline dating someone (if you know what I mean), and they'll want sex. And eventually, I give in, and then they decide they only want to be a **** buddy or something. It's like, no thanks.  And aww, that's so sweet.  I wish more men were like you. I'm more into kissing and cuddling as well. It's much better than just full-on sex. And it's more meaningful. |
I know exactly what you mean about being tricked into hooking up!!!!!! :[ Sex without true passion is just not where it's at for me. I don't need love necessarily, but trust, respect, some type of true emotion outside of lust... :] And you can PM me if you want. It's up to you :P
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Originally posted by RatedG
It's sad that society is this way. He swears I'm lying to him that I'm not gay, and technically I'm not. I'm bi, and there is a difference. If I told him that, I'd probably be shamed and shunned by the rest of my family, except for my mom. She told me that she thinks I'm gay too, but she still will love me. I'm crying on the keyboard now  |
I know, I agree with you. Most people don't see it, but homophobia is extremely common these days. I've noticed that even some of my friends are homophobes, which blows my mind. But that's terrible, you shouldn't have to go through that. You're a genuinely amazing person and you deserve to be happy. And I agree, there is a big difference between bisexual and gay. I'm glad your mom is atleast there for you, and I hope the rest of your family eventually comes around and accepts you as well.
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When did you leave? 
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Originally posted by Remeese
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So soon!? It seemed like you were going to be gone longer. Lol. Welcome back!
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Originally posted by ManDown
I know, I agree with you. Most people don't see it, but homophobia is extremely common these days. I've noticed that even some of my friends are homophobes, which blows my mind. But that's terrible, you shouldn't have to go through that. You're a genuinely amazing person and you deserve to be happy. And I agree, there is a big difference between bisexual and gay. I'm glad your mom is atleast there for you, and I hope the rest of your family eventually comes around and accepts you as well. |
Thanks
I feel genuinely better right now
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Originally posted by ExtraChapstick
So soon!? It seemed like you were going to be gone longer. Lol. Welcome back!
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I did homework and watched an hour-long show, but was off for a little over an hour.
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Hiya Remeese xD
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Originally posted by ExtraChapstick
I know exactly what you mean about being tricked into hooking up!!!!!! :[ Sex without true passion is just not where it's at for me. I don't need love necessarily, but trust, respect, some type of true emotion outside of lust... :] And you can PM me if you want. It's up to you :P
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Thank GOD! So many people don't understand what the hell I'm trying to say when I say tricked into it haha. But yes, it's terrible. And I agree, sex is meant to be romantic, passionate, meaningful, etc. I mean, you can have sex with anyone, but that doesn't mean it's going to be good. And yes, I'm the same way! I'm afraid I may get a little carried away. 
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Originally posted by RatedG
It's sad that society is this way. He swears I'm lying to him that I'm not gay, and technically I'm not. I'm bi, and there is a difference. If I told him that, I'd probably be shamed and shunned by the rest of my family, except for my mom. She told me that she thinks I'm gay too, but she still will love me. I'm crying on the keyboard now |
I'm sorry G :[ In time things will get better. If I was anywhere near you right now I'd give you a real hug.
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Originally posted by ManDown
Thank GOD! So many people don't understand what the hell I'm trying to say when I say tricked into it haha. But yes, it's terrible. And I agree, sex is meant to be romantic, passionate, meaningful, etc. I mean, you can have sex with anyone, but that doesn't mean it's going to be good. And yes, I'm the same way! I'm afraid I may get a little carried away. |
Getting carried away isn't always a bad thing, haha. But yeah, people really don't understand the concept of being tricked into a hookup, and the person doing it doesn't always realize exactly what they're doing, but they lead you on anyway...
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Originally posted by RatedG
Thanks
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You're welcome! And I'm glad, you deserve to be happy. What I learned to be most important about sexuality, is you have to form a thick skin. I was really bad about letting people get me down, when they'd call me a ****** and such, but now I just don't give two ****s. You have to remind yourself that their opinion doesn't matter and they're wrong for feeling that way. Don't ever feel like you need to change or hide anything to make people happy. You're perfect just the way you are.
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Originally posted by ManDown
Thank GOD! So many people don't understand what the hell I'm trying to say when I say tricked into it haha. But yes, it's terrible. And I agree, sex is meant to be romantic, passionate, meaningful
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Good-bye 
Iré a dormir.
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Originally posted by † ΘЯ₣ЄΘ †
Good-bye
Iré a dormir. |
Buenas noches 
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Me and Deuces are no longer together
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Good-bye
Iré a dormir. |
Sweet Dreams
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Me and Deuces are no longer together |
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Originally posted by ExtraChapstick
Getting carried away isn't always a bad thing, haha. But yeah, people really don't understand the concept of being tricked into a hookup, and the person doing it doesn't always realize exactly what they're doing, but they lead you on anyway...
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True. I'm turning into a horny mess over here, I swear haha. Well, if you really want me to message you... And yes, exactly! That's how I feel about it as well. Like the last time it happened to me, in August, I was really into the guy and we were seriously considering dating, but we finally had sex and he was like "you know, I'd rather just be **** buddies or something, I'm not looking for a relationship right now, just some fun". It's like, what the hell?
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