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Member Since: 9/9/2010
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Originally posted by Rihdomination
I love romance....don't you guys lol...........romance is the key to being happy lol it is what makes relationships and love beautiful.......  |
Yes it does! and yes I do! :] Romance and passion!
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Member Since: 8/3/2010
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Originally posted by Bea.
I actually think boys have it better. Easier to orgasm...stuff like that.
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While it may be easier to get an orgasm, it lasts on average. 3 seconds. If we are lucky, we can get 5 seconds in.
Women can truly get around 4x longer than that
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Member Since: 12/24/2010
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Originally posted by ManDown
Girls are SO lucky, in the sense that they can get pregnant if they want to. I don't even have the option.
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I don't know why but is on my mind to be pregnant at the edge of 20 or 21, I wanna be a younger mom, I can't wait to be a mom! 
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Originally posted by Bea.
I think it gets better the more you do it. While I remember the first time well...by no means was it the best.
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well I was akward and all and I think you're right, the third time was better 
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Originally posted by Ruben
That's what WE (my girlfriend and I) think. Right know we're both trying to get scholarships for volleyball, she might go to Arkansas and I might go California, and we're very focus on that first, then, that will happen  |
I know you and your girlfriend gonna get the scholarships
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Originally posted by Rihdomination
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Lol. No. I don't want to go first.... Save the BEST for last!
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Member Since: 6/16/2010
Posts: 19,686
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Originally posted by † ΘЯ₣ЄΘ †
@Bea.: Dear Bethany, do you have boyfriend/"friend" at the moment?
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Yes, I've been with my boyfriend for...5 years altogether (not continuously) 3 years straight.
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Member Since: 11/11/2010
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Originally posted by RatedG
I would actually think it would be more fun for a woman to have sex than a man.
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Oh no, it's the other way around for sure. Most of my best friends tell me they don't enjoy sex that much, they mostly just do it to please their boyfriend/partner. And it also depends on gender roles in relationships. For example, if you're assuming the role of the woman (aka the person that's bottoming), then your main goal/focus is pleasing your partner. But if you're the 'man' (aka the top), it's mostly about pleasing yourself. I don't know, I guess every relationship is different.
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Member Since: 6/16/2010
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Originally posted by RatedG
While it may be easier to get an orgasm, it lasts on average. 3 seconds. If we are lucky, we can get 5 seconds in.
Women can truly get around 4x longer than that
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Your doing it wrong 
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Member Since: 9/9/2010
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Originally posted by MusicLoverDude
Ok, why is it that today I totally feel like I'm left out of all the conversations 
I try to join in but I'm so hell ignored
Goodness.
Anyways, I'm a virgin...actually all I have done is lick nipples. |
You're not being ignored. :\ I know it feels like that at times because the thread moves so quickly, but if you really must, just post your message again. I, for one, won't get mad at you, as long as you aren't spamming the thread. :] 
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Member Since: 8/3/2010
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Originally posted by Ruben
Thanks It'll definately be hard be that far from her but, hey, it's better be in the same country, than only one of us gets the scholarship and we would be on different countries |
It'll be hard to be away from her I bet. But at least you'll be doing something you are happy with
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Member Since: 7/27/2010
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Originally posted by ExtraChapstick
Well, first there's the story of the time I almost lost my virginity.... Lol.
This guy I'd been talking to for a while who lived about a 3 hour drive away from me came up, we went to dinner and a movie, then he got a hotel room because he didn't want to drive all the way back home so late. He told me he wasn't going to try to have sex with me, and I believed him.... I was ready, but at the same time I wanted to wait for someone I really cared about... Well, we went to his hotel and he turned the TV on... It was Seinfeld... (yeah... awkward), but then we started making out...
Next thing I knew, clothes were all off, and he was about to try to put his :dickhead: in me... That's when I stopped to think about what was happening and realized he was about to try to put it in without a condom on.... He didn't even have one, nor did I, and I'd just met him in person for the first time. It was shady and a big NO NO... I asked him to take me home and he begged me to stay, but I told him I wanted to go home... We still had breakfast the next morning and he apologized. He came up one more time a few weeks later but I didn't let him try anything... wasn't feeling it. That was about a year and a half before I ended up losing my virginity.
I ended up eventually losing my virginity in February of 2009 (I was almost 21), to my first boyfriend. He was the sweetest guy ever. He waited until I was ready, and when I lost it there wasn't a regret in the world. To this day, even though he and I aren't together anymore, we keep in touch and really respect each other a lot. :heart:
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That's amazing. 
but you should tell them the story between you and I........................
you remember don't you?
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Member Since: 8/3/2010
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Originally posted by Bea.
Your doing it wrong |
But I'm serious, it's like around 5 seconds 
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Originally posted by ManDown
Yes. I've kind of known my whole life, I was always "different". But right before I turned 13, I really figured it all out. But I really regret losing it at that age. I wish I would have waited for someone I truly loved and cared about. |
I've known my entire life too. My dad actually asked me when I was in elementary school if I was interested in men. I knew I wanted to say yes, but I said no. It's all in my coming out story on YouTube.
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Member Since: 7/27/2010
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Originally posted by ExtraChapstick
Lol. No. I don't want to go first.... Save the BEST for last!
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lol................ohh you got that good good huh
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Member Since: 6/16/2010
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Originally posted by ManDown
Oh no, it's the other way around for sure. Most of my best friends tell me they don't enjoy sex that much, they mostly just do it to please their boyfriend/partner. And it also depends on gender roles in relationships. For example, if you're assuming the role of the woman (aka the person that's bottoming), then your main goal/focus is pleasing your partner. But if you're the 'man' (aka the top), it's mostly about pleasing yourself. I don't know, I guess every relationship is different.
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Either your friends are doing it wrong or their partners are selfish bastards.
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Member Since: 6/16/2010
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Originally posted by RatedG
But I'm serious, it's like around 5 seconds
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Doing it WRONG.
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Member Since: 12/12/2006
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Originally posted by RatedG
But I'm serious, it's like around 5 seconds
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mmm 
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Member Since: 12/24/2010
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Originally posted by ExtraChapstick
Well, first there's the story of the time I almost lost my virginity.... Lol.
This guy I'd been talking to for a while who lived about a 3 hour drive away from me came up, we went to dinner and a movie, then he got a hotel room because he didn't want to drive all the way back home so late. He told me he wasn't going to try to have sex with me, and I believed him.... I was ready, but at the same time I wanted to wait for someone I really cared about... Well, we went to his hotel and he turned the TV on... It was Seinfeld... (yeah... awkward), but then we started making out...
Next thing I knew, clothes were all off, and he was about to try to put his :dickhead: in me... That's when I stopped to think about what was happening and realized he was about to try to put it in without a condom on.... He didn't even have one, nor did I, and I'd just met him in person for the first time. It was shady and a big NO NO... I asked him to take me home and he begged me to stay, but I told him I wanted to go home... We still had breakfast the next morning and he apologized. He came up one more time a few weeks later but I didn't let him try anything... wasn't feeling it. That was about a year and a half before I ended up losing my virginity.
I ended up eventually losing my virginity in February of 2009 (I was almost 21), to my first boyfriend. He was the sweetest guy ever. He waited until I was ready, and when I lost it there wasn't a regret in the world. To this day, even though he and I aren't together anymore, we keep in touch and really respect each other a lot. :heart:
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now that's a great story! 
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Member Since: 12/28/2010
Posts: 1,212
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Where your boyfriend lives Bea?
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Originally posted by ExtraChapstick
I've known my entire life too. My dad actually asked me when I was in elementary school if I was interested in men. I knew I wanted to say yes, but I said no. It's all in my coming out story on YouTube.
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You're so lucky to have parent like that.
If i came out..my dad will shoot me..he's jamaican and very homophobic............
I'm planning on marrying a girl just so i can please my parents
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Member Since: 12/28/2010
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Originally posted by RatedG
It'll be hard to be away from her I bet. But at least you'll be doing something you are happy with
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Exactly, and I know it will definately pay off.
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