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Originally posted by eli's_rhythm
Yeah I'm not very comfortable around flaming gays either. But that's probably because I'm a little embarrassed by them. I would never, however, make fun of them--quite the opposite.
They do know something about you.  It's possible that they think you're gay/bi. They know you're looking at them, they know you're conscious of them and interested in them (if not sexually, then just because they're interesting to look at). You're probably an observant person.
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I don't think I have those stereotypically gay qualities for them to be checking me out or reading me. So when they stare I automatically assume that they think I'm gay. I guess I should just stop staring back, but then I don't want to make it obvious that I'm trying to avoid the fact that they're looking at me. Ugh, It's like they're playing mind games with me.
I know I'm not 100% straight but I'm just not comfortable around them yet and I don't even want guys checking me out, masculine or feminine, even if I might find one attractive myself. I'm just a mess and don't know what to think right now.