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					Originally posted by eli's_rhythm  Eh, I still feel like I'm completely missing the boat. At least I'm done accepting myself etc, unlike people who realize they're gay at 25 and have to catch up on the last 10 years   | 
	
 I have decided to come out once I leave for college. I will work hard to get scholarships, loans/grants. I feel like my parents would cut me off completely if they found out. 
The thing that upsets me about some gay men is that they live a whole lie their entire lives. For example getting married with a woman. 
How could you be so selfish and do that to someone? I view Craigslist  now and then, and so many married men go to the gay section, really upsetting. 
I will live my life as a gay male, now is not the time though.