Ok let me give my two cents on the ballads being discussed.
Start Over is AMAZING! It was instantly one of my faves from 4 so shhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
I Care is also ANOTHER great song and that's just that on that ON THAT.
Sorry but Rather Die Young is blehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
I Wasn't Here....well.......uh.......
Love Drought is a gem
Sandcastles is a GREAT poem. I don't even consider it a song but it gets to me sometimes because I guess you can say it's a personal song for me.
Did I miss anything else?