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Discussion: Straight crush experience?
Member Since: 1/1/2014
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My story is a mess. My friend Scott who is ALWAYS drunk and a sloppy drunk caught me Getting head from his twin brother. I thought it was Scott.
So I knew he had a brother but he never told me he had a TWIN brother. So me and Scott were both out but planned on meeting up at his place after the club. I got really drunk and got to his place first. He told me he went to get pizza but would be there soon. So when I get there I already see Scott, and he's drunker than I am.
He's all, who are you and I'm like shut up u know who I am. Then he starts coming on to me but I'm like uhhhh wtf but I was drunk I'm like I thought you were straight and he's like I'm gay for you baby.
Anyway next thing i know he's giving me head and in walks Scott.... Apparently it was his gay twin brother that came on to me and I was so confused and it was a mess... There's more but I'm tired of typing and going to bed.
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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Yes I am experiencing this right now, and I'm a punk ass stupid mother****ing bitch for prolonging this for YEARS now.
I don't know if I have the energy to tell here.
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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Do you know what's the real tragedy here? The only real crushes I've had were on girls in Elementary and Middle school 
I just always find reasons not to like guys that I think are attractive, and I always assume that they're straight (unless I can tell that they're a hunty) 
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Only once... Mike. 
Back when I worked retail at the mall, I would always go to Jamba Juice. Mike was the sweetest and nicest guy ever. He literally would compliment on my tie, and bowties so I swore he was gay. Then one day I was getting a drink aka going to see my boo he was like oh do you have any plans this weekend? I was so excited thinking he was going to make a move...  I'm like no... He's oh I have a MMA fight, then going to the dells with my girlfriend... I was so devasted.  I didn't go to Jamba for like two weeks. 
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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Originally posted by OneAndOnly
Yes I am experiencing this right now, and I'm a punk ass stupid mother****ing bitch for prolonging this for YEARS now.
I don't know if I have the energy to tell here.
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 don't beat yourself up so hard sis
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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I had to quit my english course because of him.
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The funny thing is I actually found him on Facebook a couple months ago and he accepted my friend request. He liked a pic that I was tagged in too (and he must have obviously found out I transferred)!
Unfortunately, our schools are nowhere near each other and while we live in the same state, our cities are still so far from each other. It's been so long and while I would love to meet up with him again, I just don't know the right time to make it happen or how to bring it up. 
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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My worst straight crush experience was 2 years ago, we were in the same class and he sat behind me.
He asked me what time it was when his phone died and that was the extent of our relationship.
I've never had so much chemistry with someone in my life and our astrological synastry chart proves it.
When I was in the "I have to get over him" phase, he once had a discussion about me with the girl next to him, while I was RIGHT THERE, and he said he found me "intriguing".
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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Originally posted by KiiPopHunty
don't beat yourself up so hard sis |
I deserve it.
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by ThugginGrande
The funny thing is I actually found him on Facebook a couple months ago and he accepted my friend request. He liked a pic that I was tagged in too (and he must have obviously found out I transferred)!
Unfortunately, our schools are nowhere near each other and while we live in the same state, our cities are still so far from each other. It's been so long and while I would love to meet up with him again, I just don't know the right time to make it happen or how to bring it up. |
Maybe you'll bump into him again the day before his wedding day and he'll realize it was you all along? 
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by KiiPopHunty
Do you know what's the real tragedy here? The only real crushes I've had were on girls in Elementary and Middle school
I just always find reasons not to like guys that I think are attractive, and I always assume that they're straight (unless I can tell that they're a hunty)
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I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE!!! I cannot name you 1 guy I've crushed on seriously like I have girls. I'm pretty sure I was almost in love with this one girl in Middle school  She was in 8th and I was in 7th and she graduated and i was depressed
Also same to the second part, my gaydar or whatever is really, really bad.
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by KiiPopHunty
Why was this actually me last year 
I got my friend to dm the guy I saw all the time in the hallway, and she gaybaited him and he CAME OUT TO HER he talked to her a little bit and said "thanks for the inspiration" on coming out and then he tweeted a screenshot of the convo where she said he was cute and asked if his one male friend was his boyfriend he cropped out the part where he came out to her though I still don't know what his sexuality is, but I'm not going back to that school so  |
This is SO wild Sis you should contact him and go get thaT!
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Member Since: 10/22/2010
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happned to me all the time but for me we always start out to be friends first and then I start catching them feelings and get depressed when I'm not with them or know that I can't have them. It's crazy I'm still getting over one right now. It's so hard. Do you get depressed tho I get so down that I don't feel like doing anything else but looking at pictures and thinking about him
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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Originally posted by Blade
I don't know what it's like to crush on someone that ISN'T straight
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Lowkey same 
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Originally posted by AccioMiley
My only straight crush was online. She was so hot (and even sent me nudes)
But she had a boyfriend. She said he was ok with it but would leave our convos on Twitter abruptly saying her bf was in the room. I liked her a lot but stopped talking to her soon after that lol. Never again. But I heard they got engaged  |
Omg you got nudes? She definitely could have been bisexual. Or maybe she's using her husband as a cover up and she's just waiting for the right moment for you to swoop in. 
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Originally posted by Planet Mars
You're story sis he could have been bi, I got vibes from the story that he liked you tbh, ugh I hate how things are sometimes |
I lowkey feel the same. I just hate how I might never know.
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Originally posted by Reinvention
Omg the OP story is so bittersweet. He sounds so lovely - why does god curse us with nice attractive gay-accepting straight guys! |
Sis, it isn't God's work. It's SATAN'S work!  But for real, he was the nicest guy I've ever met! That's why it was so hard for me to distinguish whether he was flirting or just being nice!
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Omg that's the worst that it just ended so abruptly! Hopefully you can at least see him on campus every once and a while, get a good look at the booty, and imagine what could have been!
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Originally posted by Reinvention
My only story is a good friend in high school, we were just friends for months and all was well but one day we both hung out and stayed over at another friend's place. So the friend who's house it was stayed in his room, and me and the other one shared a bed in another room. Like nothing happened obviously (he was straight!) but we were close and it was a cold night so his body heat under the covers was amazing (though we weren't touching but you know) but anyway he just opened up to me, we talked about our hopes and dreams etc. I wasn't out then but he told me something like "You're a different kinda guy, but that's why you're cool and we're friends." It was the first time anyone had ever even alluded me being gay as anything but a nasty slur, so it really had me shook / emotional.
Then the next day we got up and got dressed and I just remember looking at him a new light, and I developed this ENORMOUS crush on him that in the end just ruined my life for the better part of two years, and he wound up with this chick I was friends with and my friendship with them both basically disintegrated cause it was too miserable to be around either.
Woo lord glad high school finished and I was able to move on from that mess.
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The feels!
This story is so sweet!  It sucks that you had to end your friendship with him and his girlfriend. Glad you moved on though. 
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Member Since: 8/31/2013
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All these short stories are tragic. Why is life so unfair.
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Originally posted by borntodiethisway
Only once... Mike.
Back when I worked retail at the mall, I would always go to Jamba Juice. Mike was the sweetest and nicest guy ever. He literally would compliment on my tie, and bowties so I swore he was gay. Then one day I was getting a drink aka going to see my boo he was like oh do you have any plans this weekend? I was so excited thinking he was going to make a move... I'm like no... He's oh I have a MMA fight, then going to the dells with my girlfriend... I was so devasted. I didn't go to Jamba for like two weeks. |
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Originally posted by DoubleDutchess
I had to quit my english course because of him. |
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Originally posted by Queef Queen
All these short stories are tragic. Why is life so unfair. |
Sis, I have no idea. The universe hates the gays!
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Member Since: 7/21/2012
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He carried you?!?! Girl if he's really straight, life is such a bitch. I feel bad and it wasn't even me. Why you didn't get his number sis???
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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Originally posted by King Maxx
He carried you?!?! Girl if he's really straight, life is such a bitch. I feel bad and it wasn't even me. Why you didn't get his number sis???
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Ddddddd right?!
Anyway, I actually do have his number, but it's been so long and I don't even know what I'd say. 
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Member Since: 8/31/2013
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Nope.
Usually if I find someone attractive, whatever crush that might develop goes away once they are Herero. And thank **** for that because some of y'all's stories are just sad
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We became pretty good friends and he even asked me to go to this music recital (for extra credit) with him since I was his only friend in the class and vice versa. He picked me up and on the car ride there I realized that we had so much in common. I almost fell in love 