Lets see I'm black and make six figures. I dropped out of HS. I was arrested. I even got my degree. I worked and will continue to work for the best companies on the planet. Big whooping deal. I don't know why people act like dating a white guy is going to bring them money. The white guys I've met are either leaching off of someone else like a sugar daddy who lets them play on the side or they are doing adult films or starving as an artist or chorus boys. No thanks.
Some people are attracted to guys based on samenesses and others are attracted to guys based on differences. That's why some black guys don't generally date other black guys or some white guys don't generally date other white guys. So it's not always fetish when someone dates outside of their race.
Also this whole 'everyone wants white d***' narrative is annoying in the gay community. A few thirsties on Grindr doesn't mean ****.
What's even more dangerous is the narrative thats ALWAYS being pushed --that black men are sooooo undesirable and unwanted in the dating game.
Its not that hard for a decently attractive black guy with a nice body to get a date in 2016. It just isn't.
Unless you specifically want to date white (which is worrying into & of itself)
What's even more dangerous is the narrative thats ALWAYS being pushed --that black men are sooooo undesirable and unwanted in the dating game.
Its not that hard for a decently attractive black guy with a nice body to get a date in 2016. It just isn't.
Unless you specifically want to date white (which is worrying into & of itself)
I agree. It's not hard at all for an ATTRACTIVE black man to find sex and a relationship. It's always the unattractive ones blaming racism, when they don't realize that unattractive white men experience the same thing, and it's down to their lack of muscle tone and ugly faces.
Um, y'all never heard of blasian and blatino kids. Like where do you think they came from?
Anyways, in my experience, I actually think POCs date each other a LOT more than y'all think they do. My personal take on it is I tend to find people with different experiences and outlooks attractive and a lot of people in the same community naturally tend to have similar experiences and outlooks. Like I was born in America, grew up in the Caribbean and returned to America as an adult - so I actually find the background of people (both POCs and white people) who spent their full adolescence in America more interesting than people who came from the Caribbean to America.
So basically, I guess I don't really find a romantic relationship with someone similar to be something stimulating or interesting. I don't know if this is how it is with other POCs, but that's just my POV as an individual American POC on the topic.
i'm Asian and while i say that i'm open to dating PoC, i have a weakness for white demon dick and that is proven in my all white with 1 or 2 token PoC record
one can argue it's internalised self-hate. but i just love white men.. but tbh, if you're buff or muscular and cute, i'm probably already attracted to you
just my preference.
