[OmegaRidley]

Originally posted by fireaero

EDIT - nvm someone gave you a better answer OmegaRidley. You will get through this

He was beginning to scare me. His stories were

Thank you so much I appreciate it !

Don't wanna sound like a cry baby but I was feeling kinda bad month ago.

I spend lots of time to restore myself and I now feel so much better. Thank God and Atrl I didn't do things I wanted to.

There is just this problem and since you guys helped me once maybe you can do it again haha

[Phantom]

Originally posted by Bellerophon

Thank god

Originally posted by fireaero

He was beginning to scare me. His stories were

!!!! He was a MESS. His first threads were scarier lol

Originally posted by biebervelli

he was weird but his threads were funny

Okay some of them were funny I admit, but most were highly disturbing

[fireaero]

Originally posted by OmegaRidley

Well I guess what you said still stands but it's for a friendship

I actually considered him like my big brother at one time, but now even if he tells me the contrary I can feel that he cares less about me.

Like he always seems to hang with his other friends but I can only see him once every 2 months (we don't even live far from each other).

I know the logical answer would be that I should stop talking to him, but when I say that I want to stop everything he tells me that he loves me and want to continue to talk to me...

Oh, it's for a friendship? Tbh his behavior is kind of weird if he never makes the effort to stay in touch but doesn't want you to leave. You shouldn't ever feel uncomfortable in a friendship or feel like you're maintaining it at your own expense, if that makes any sense.

I don't know much about the situation, but he's being seriously unfair to you. He's expecting you to put to much effort in while he doesn't do the same. I wish you the best whatever you decide to do

[OmegaRidley]

Originally posted by Ryan Bálor

It's even harder with friendships. You're willing to tolerate being mistreated in a way because you really care for him and the friendship; I get it, I've been going through it myself. But at some point you have to realize how unfair it is to you.

What he's doing to you is emotionally manipulative. And he'll continue to do it until you finally stop it. It's so hard to walk away from a relationship (friendships are relationships too) that means a lot to you, but you gotta put yourself first. There's no simple answer tho.

I think that you are right, but I don't want to hurt anybody...

I will try to find the strenght to stop it myself, because it's kinda tiring emotionally (and physically too).

I was so scared that his feelings were not genuine, and now that you say that it seems manipulative gave me a slap in the face.

I should've known but I am kinda innocent and I don't really know how to act in social relationships.

But thank you so much for your help. I am convinced that it will help me to make my life better so thanks a loooooot ❤️❤️❤️

It makes me happy to find support from people that don't even know me haha

[OmegaRidley]

Originally posted by fireaero

Oh, it's for a friendship? Tbh his behavior is kind of weird if he never makes the effort to stay in touch but doesn't want you to leave. You shouldn't ever feel uncomfortable in a friendship or feel like you're maintaining it at your own expense, if that makes any sense.

I don't know much about the situation, but he's being seriously unfair to you. He's expecting you to put to much effort in while he doesn't do the same. I wish you the best whatever you decide to do

Yeah that's why I don't understand his behavior at all like it all changed so suddenly ...

Maybe he is being manipulative with me because he thinks I can help him in the future with opportunities idk...

Anyways I'll try to keep my distances and see where it goes from there :/

[6 Apple St]

That thread made me remember I had the most horrid dream last night, my friend came to my house and it was night and he just DESTROYED my house. He broke the curtains, and there was a weird Xbox model. It was kind of like the trebutchet in GoT S6E10

[RideOrDie]

He doesn't like you back if he doesn't care about you.

[OmegaRidley]

Originally posted by RideOrDie

He doesn't like you back if he doesn't care about you.

It's a little more complicated than this...

He tells me that he loves me and that he doesn't want to lose me. And when I asked him if someday i stopped talking to him, he said that it would make him sad

Am I being naive for believing him ?

[Changes]

Smack my bitch up

[Bellerophon]

My avi is so choppy, livestreams are so LQ holy ****

[Paul McCutie]

Originally posted by Bellerophon

My avi is so choppy, livestreams are so LQ holy ****

omg it looks great i didn't believe you could make it look so HQ

[Vigoorian King]

P*rn is overrated tbh

[Paul McCutie]

do you guys sometimes listen to asmr videos to help you fall asleep?

[SHICD]

YALL LOOK CLOSELY this is someone's avi

[IMadeYouReadThis]

Originally posted by OmegaRidley

Can I ask you something guys ? Since I kinda lack real life experiences I'd like to know your opinion etc


How do you get over someone who you like very much, and that likes you back, but kinda doesn't care about you at the same time (I know it's complicated lol)

yeah this is quite similar to the issue that I've been facing...

I did like the guy as something beyond friendship but we were basically friends and I wanted us to stay friends but it feels more and more like the distance is growing... Which was what was making me sad at first... I just want to be friends basically but it seems like the other side doesn't care as much...

He did message me for the first time since like wednesday or thursday, and when he does message it's everything I hope for and more... he takes his time, writes a long message that answers basically all the stuff I asked the last time I texted him but the distance between these are growing which is the weird thing...

He does go on fb but the messages are never delivered... once they are delivered he responds right away but why would my messages take 3 days to deliver?

The point is, I feel what you're going through... I guess do what I've been trying to do and instead of trying to get him out of your life, put your frustration into some sort of a better use than to pout around.... write/draw/sing your feelings? if he's nice to you when you are together even if that's not common, enjoy those while they last, and in between focus on other things?

[Phantom]

I didn't know Paris Syndrome was classified as an actual disease?!

Damn. I'd imagine the closest thing to that is being an otaku in America, moving to Japan after years of waiting and realizing you were misled about what that life is really like.

[Paul McCutie]

Originally posted by SHICD

YALL LOOK CLOSELY this is someone's avi

what is on that one frame? i can't catch it. is it a dick?

[IMadeYouReadThis]

Originally posted by Phantom

I didn't know Paris Syndrome was classified as an actual disease?!

Damn. I'd imagine the closest thing to that is being an otaku in America, moving to Japan after years of waiting and realizing you were misled about what that life is really like.

LOOOOL I went to paris this summer and I was so excited, my friend who went with me was sure that I'd get the disease I loved Paris nevertheless

[Bellerophon]

Originally posted by Paul McCartney

omg it looks great i didn't believe you could make it look so HQ

I turned up the curves/brightness and sharpened it, but it's not as smooth as I'd like it to be

[Bellerophon]

Originally posted by Paul McCartney

what is on that one frame? i can't catch it. is it a dick?

It's a guy sucking dick I'm triggered.