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Discussion: Archived: Random Thoughts (#5)
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Originally posted by Retro
I'm sorry, I don't mean to overstep my bounds so if I do you can simply shut me up, but this part is particularly concerning to me. Are you really sure you want to do this at all, let alone get him tested? I know you're going to be going off to college soon (though I don't know where - do you know yet?), and if you're expressing concern over sexual contact at all I can't help but think maybe you should wait and figure out what you want.
Just Old Grandpa Retro's two cents.
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this is how i feel too, actually? based on my experience, you should never go into sex unless you're completely 100% sure you're ready for it, because there is a GOOD chance you will regret it later.
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Originally posted by Woo
I use to think gaga's real name was pronounced Stef-on-e, not Steph-a-knee  |
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Originally posted by Ryan Bálor
Savage.
You could have been talking about Bonnie Raitt or Bonnie Tyler. I just wanted to be sure. Omg don't be mean, Retro.  It's not like I asked who was Kylie or Stefani Joanne Angelina Germanotta is. |
Oh boo, I love you and all my new little Modneys, but if y'all DARED to ask who Kylie was! Whew.
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Originally posted by RatedG²
I've never had English breakfast tea. What does it taste like?
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English leaf water
Trying to figure out how I can make this into a Brexit joke btw
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Summer heat >>>> winter cold
At least you can strip and just lounge around
Winter you can't even move
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Found a couple workout apps on my phone. We'll see how they go.
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"Brit Bot"
Loving my new steam name.
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It's going down. I'm yelling timber
[internally screaming] 
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Originally posted by LaNathan
Yeah, he's a bit of a scrub. But there's just this connection I don't quite understand. He's cute (except when he smiles, it looks like a damn creepypasta meme), but there's just this really weird chemistry. Like I'm a damn prude when it comes to everything, but like we ended up making out in the backseat of my car last Friday and it was amazing. It's just weird that he can make me comfortable like that when no guy I've went out with has been able to.
He said he got tested last month, but I have no receipts and it just is sketchy. He was like "Why tf would I lie to you when I can go to jail for lying to you? I have everything to lose here". He's like "We always use a condom as well, so you'll be fine". But it doesn't put me at ease AT ALL. Like anytime I do imagine sex with him, all I think about is all the other guys he's pile drove and it freaks me out. I didn't plan on it lasting much more than the summer anyway because I'm going away for college, but I do really like him and idk what to do. We have a date Thursday and he keeps saying we're having sex and I keep saying no but he thinks I'm going to change my mind. Idk what to do.
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I am sorry but I really think he's playing you.
And yeah you might feel a "connection" or something, but that's because that's probably what he wanted. He doesn't wanna get checked and he's literally trying to force you even when you said no, he's no good for you, and that "I could go to jail for this" is ********. He's trying to make you feel guilty.
Do not fall for his trap, no boy is worth all the risk he's putting you through.
Do not trust him.
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Originally posted by Jezang Looz
Summer heat >>>> winter cold
At least you can strip
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Indeed, I'm sure some of our sistren here particularly enjoy that.
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Member Since: 8/3/2010
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Originally posted by Retro
English leaf water
Trying to figure out how I can make this into a Brexit joke btw
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Originally posted by Vision
It's basically standard tea, classic blend. Everyone drinks it here.
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Standard tea? Like no flavor? Like hot water and leaves? 
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Originally posted by Ryan Bálor
Chamomile
Hibiscus
Earl Grey
Fresh mint
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Queen Hibiscus! So underrated. I wish I liked mint more though lol, mint isn't that great to me.
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Originally posted by Retro
I'm sorry, I don't mean to overstep my bounds so if I do you can simply shut me up, but this part is particularly concerning to me. Are you really sure you want to do this at all, let alone get him tested? I know you're going to be going off to college soon (though I don't know where - do you know yet?), and if you're expressing concern over sexual contact at all I can't help but think maybe you should wait and figure out what you want.
Just Old Grandpa Retro's two cents.
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I do like him and would like having sex with him, even though I'm still incredibly uncomfortable with sex in general. Getting him tested would put my mind at ease and actually make me wonder about sex with him ya know? I'm a really awkward person about sex, always have been and always will. Like when it comes to a relationship, I always viewed it as the displays of affection like kissing and holding hands along with like dates and living together. Sex was never part of that scope, so now that I'm here at the crossroads of a potential relationship, it's just hard for me to figure out that step and how I want to ponder it. I've always wanted to be the top and he's exclusively the top and I don't want to bottom at ALL. I've like
never watched **** or j'd off
as well so it's just a really awkward topic for me. Yes, I know it's ****ing pathetic.
I'm going to University of Michigan (although I do plan on transferring after a year or two) 
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Originally posted by Woo
I use to think gaga's real name was pronounced Stef-on-e, not Steph-a-knee |
Wait. What's the difference? 
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Member Since: 9/1/2013
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Originally posted by Jezang Looz
Summer heat >>>> winter cold
At least you can strip and just lounge around
Winter you can't even move
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where do you live? because where i live it gets hot enough that stripping doesn't really help
and i love curling up under a blanket when it's cold and it always works for me so yeah
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This i hate u, i love u noise is literally the worst song from this year, it's TRAGIC. 
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Originally posted by Dessy Fenix
Wait. What's the difference? |
the first one sounds more foreign in my head, and the other one is a basic white girl name
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Originally posted by Jezang Looz
Summer heat >>>> winter cold
At least you can strip and just lounge around
Winter you can't even move
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I can't go outside in my underwear tho.
(well I could but society's taboo and all)
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Originally posted by accelgors
where do you live? because where i live it gets hot enough that stripping doesn't really help
and i love curling up under a blanket when it's cold and it always works for me so yeah
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We live kinda close. I live near Philly and it does get humid here, but winter is worse
I love winter since it gives me an excuse to stay inside, but hate the cold
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Originally posted by Ryan Bálor
Say it out loud.
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I did. It's the exact same to me
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Originally posted by Woo
the first one sounds more foreign in my head, and the other one is a basic white girl name
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Member Since: 3/22/2012
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Originally posted by LaNathan
I do like him and would like having sex with him, even though I'm still incredibly uncomfortable with sex in general. Getting him tested would put my mind at ease and actually make me wonder about sex with him ya know? I'm a really awkward person about sex, always have been and always will. Like when it comes to a relationship, I always viewed it as the displays of affection like kissing and holding hands along with like dates and living together. Sex was never part of that scope, so now that I'm here at the crossroads of a potential relationship, it's just hard for me to figure out that step and how I want to ponder it. I've always wanted to be the top and he's exclusively the top and I don't want to bottom at ALL. I've like
never watched **** or j'd off
as well so it's just a really awkward topic for me. Yes, I know it's ****ing pathetic.
I'm going to University of Michigan (although I do plan on transferring after a year or two) |
Make sure you're sure about what you want - a hundred percent - before you do anything in a situation like this. Just be safe.
Where do you want to transfer?
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