[MardinBeksloy]

My perfect asian boyfriend would be Roy Kim <3
He is so fine.

[Hollywood.]

Originally posted by nnnnnn

I'm glad I'm married to you

Your Chinese now?

[-ToxicGuy-]

This thread is as dead as some members' love lives.

[BudBud]

Did the mods find us?

[-ToxicGuy-]

A mod changed the title once, but I don't think they looked through posts or anything

[Wotamin]

Originally posted by TheLuckyOnes

Have you guys ever had to deal with a friend who went through drug addiction or have a recent downward sprial but is now recovering

if so, how did you manage t o stay friends with them? did you support them by offering a shoulder to lean on? or did you just remove them from your life so it wouldnt affect yours?

I wasn't a friend but a classmate of mine was struggling with this, but one day she just disappeard and we still don't know what happened to her
I just talked with her and tried to help her

and yes at your avi

[Nido]

Originally posted by HUYPHAN

so there is a trend going on on vietnamese gay tumblrs , which is leaking each others nudes/jackd/grindr/facebook profiles. so tumblr is the new grindr

I'm kinda guilty of seeing those stuff on some Vietnamese **** blog .
But then again, if you have the balls to post up your dps and face pics on hookup apps then anything could have happen

& tbh most of those guys aren't even THAT hot

[-ToxicGuy-]

Originally posted by Nido

I'm kinda guilty of seeing those stuff on some Vietnamese **** blog .
But then again, if you have the balls to post up your dps and face pics on hookup apps then anything could have happen

& tbh most of those guys aren't even THAT hot

That's kinda hot but also very unfortunate for those guys. I know many video sites are uploading videos of people from self streaming sebsites which they recorded illegally.

Most guys people here are thirsting after are not hot

[Nido]

Originally posted by -ToxicGuy-

That's kinda hot but also very unfortunate for those guys. I know many video sites are uploading videos of people from self streaming sebsites which they recorded illegally.

Most guys people here are thirsting after are not hot

Well, I can't really empathize cause those people are comfortable enough to share their nudes with someone else in the first place. I would personally never take nudes of myself, even if I have a boyfriend and he told me to, that's not how I roll.

[TheLuckyOnes]

Originally posted by Wotamin

I wasn't a friend but a classmate of mine was struggling with this, but one day she just disappeard and we still don't know what happened to her
I just talked with her and tried to help her

and yes at your avi

Originally posted by IBeMe

I'd stay and offer a shoulder tbh. but i understand why a person could consider cutting the toxic friend off because it can drag you down with them tbh..it becomes draining going through the ups and downs with them...but then again if your friendship to that person means something to you...well you should try your best to be there for them. wishing you luck sis

Originally posted by -ToxicGuy-

I don't have experience but I would offer a shoulder. It depends on in what way your connection to him is affecting your life though

its nice to know you guys would stick around for your friends.
i dont have those kind of friends in my life
ive been struggling with drug addictions off and on for the past 5 years and recently (3 months ago) i had another downward spiral and literally all my friends but 2 collectively decided that instead of talking to me, asking whats up, or even trying to offer me help, they just left and refused to answer any of my calls or texts or anything.

one of my friends thinks that she deserves a ****ing cookie because she apparently "stuck around" longer than she would for anyone else. and whats makes it worse is that they told other people to stay away from me so now everyone in our group of friends sees me as some drug addict who nobody needs to be involved with

its not like i was being irrational or crazy or dragging them down. I would disappear for a couple of days and then come back. everyone just assumed i was working. Every time they saw me, i was sober. literally no one knew i had a drug problem until my roommate said something to them and then all of a sudden i was that one friend who no one wanted to be involved with.

no one even bothered to question what caused the relapse.

but its fine, i was able to bring myself out of it without anyone's help, and get help for myself. it just sucks be dragged down by demons and having to find a way to save yourself while all your friends watch and do nothing. So if any of yor friends are struggling with an issue that's becoming out of their control, please step in and help them and dont just disappear from their life or shun them because those disgusting actions could make their suffering worse

[Wotamin]

Originally posted by TheLuckyOnes

its nice to know you guys would stick around for your friends.
i dont have those kind of friends in my life
ive been struggling with drug addictions off and on for the past 5 years and recently (3 months ago) i had another downward spiral and literally all my friends but 2 collectively decided that instead of talking to me, asking whats up, or even trying to offer me help, they just left and refused to answer any of my calls or texts or anything.

one of my friends thinks that she deserves a ****ing cookie because she apparently "stuck around" longer than she would for anyone else. and whats makes it worse is that they told other people to stay away from me so now everyone in our group of friends sees me as some drug addict who nobody needs to be involved with

its not like i was being irrational or crazy or dragging them down. I would disappear for a couple of days and then come back. everyone just assumed i was working. Every time they saw me, i was sober. literally no one knew i had a drug problem until my roommate said something to them and then all of a sudden i was that one friend who no one wanted to be involved with.

no one even bothered to question what caused the relapse.

but its fine, i was able to bring myself out of it without anyone's help, and get help for myself. it just sucks be dragged down by demons and having to find a way to save yourself while all your friends watch and do nothing. So if any of yor friends are struggling with an issue that's becoming out of their control, please step in and help them and dont just disappear from their life or shun them because those disgusting actions could make their suffering worse

aw i'm so sad to hear you went through all of this
I'm so happy that you were able to pull yourself out of this and even by yourself, its so brave and amazing

i know how you feel because I was struggling with depression for really long time, and at some point it became really bad and I stayed home for a week even and I realized so many things about my "friends", after this I pulled myself together with the help of my bf (who was just a friend at that time) and after that I cut ties with everyone in school except for 3 girls. Yeah its kinda lonely sometimes in school but i just have 2 months until i finish it and i can't wait to not see anyone from there anymore

[OmegaRidley]

Omg at people here having sex and everything

I feel so innocent

[-ToxicGuy-]

How old are you?

[Nido]

Originally posted by OmegaRidley

Omg at people here having sex and everything

I feel so innocent

Girl, you don't need to have sex to know what is what. I know I haven't.

[OmegaRidley]

Originally posted by -ToxicGuy-

How old are you?

18 haha

[OmegaRidley]

Originally posted by Nido

Girl, you don't need to have sex to know what is what. I know I haven't.

Omg

[-ToxicGuy-]

Originally posted by TheLuckyOnes

its nice to know you guys would stick around for your friends.
i dont have those kind of friends in my life
ive been struggling with drug addictions off and on for the past 5 years and recently (3 months ago) i had another downward spiral and literally all my friends but 2 collectively decided that instead of talking to me, asking whats up, or even trying to offer me help, they just left and refused to answer any of my calls or texts or anything.

one of my friends thinks that she deserves a ****ing cookie because she apparently "stuck around" longer than she would for anyone else. and whats makes it worse is that they told other people to stay away from me so now everyone in our group of friends sees me as some drug addict who nobody needs to be involved with

its not like i was being irrational or crazy or dragging them down. I would disappear for a couple of days and then come back. everyone just assumed i was working. Every time they saw me, i was sober. literally no one knew i had a drug problem until my roommate said something to them and then all of a sudden i was that one friend who no one wanted to be involved with.

no one even bothered to question what caused the relapse.

but its fine, i was able to bring myself out of it without anyone's help, and get help for myself. it just sucks be dragged down by demons and having to find a way to save yourself while all your friends watch and do nothing. So if any of yor friends are struggling with an issue that's becoming out of their control, please step in and help them and dont just disappear from their life or shun them because those disgusting actions could make their suffering worse

It is so amazing to hear you could overcome all your problems by yourself. You must have a really strong personality and you should stay strong now. I am sure you will find good friends on your way

[TheLuckyOnes]

Originally posted by OmegaRidley

Omg at people here having sex and everything

I feel so innocent

Originally posted by Wotamin

aw i'm so sad to hear you went through all of this
I'm so happy that you were able to pull yourself out of this and even by yourself, its so brave and amazing

i know how you feel because I was struggling with depression for really long time, and at some point it became really bad and I stayed home for a week even and I realized so many things about my "friends", after this I pulled myself together with the help of my bf (who was just a friend at that time) and after that I cut ties with everyone in school except for 3 girls. Yeah its kinda lonely sometimes in school but i just have 2 months until i finish it and i can't wait to not see anyone from there anymore

im glad both of us were able to pull through it. Depression can be a bitch. Mental illnesses run in my family so ive always made extreme precautions to always have mood lifters around me because i dont want my disorder to combine with my coke addiction and create more problems. Your boyfriend is really wonderful for sticking by you during that time.

i dont associate with those people anymore. I have my roommate (who is also my best friend) and my other best friend. not to mention this is my last year of living in the United States before i move to Osaka where drugs are not as available and the penalty for being caught with them is much more severe. I figure i need to live in a country that makes me happy, is far removed from the drama of the United States and has more severe laws to keep me in check just in case I ever feel low enough to relapse again

Originally posted by -ToxicGuy-

It is so amazing to hear you could overcome all your problems by yourself. You must have a really strong personality and you should stay strong now. I am sure you will find good friends on your way

i have a superiority complex. Once i knew no one was coming to my rescue, i realized being a dansel in distress could be the end of me and i had to be strong for myself

[-ToxicGuy-]

Originally posted by OmegaRidley

18 haha

It's better to wait and avoid any unpleasent experiences in my opinion. Wait for someone good instead of a some sloppy hook up.

[Nido]

I feel like, a lotta gay people here are either super cheesy like they'd be submitting all those essays about their lovelife on those Gay Confessions Facebook accounts or just super ****ty and always looking for people to screw around with and nudes to add to their collections