Hello my fellow Honeybabies

My friends irl are sick of me complaining about Ariana's music taking too long so i thought i'd vent here

Unlike most, i absolutely loved Focus

I can't understand how it didn't smash, the only thing i can think of is Donut gate.
Whenever i bring up Ariana is my fav whether on Grindr, Tinder (yass get that promo Ari) or to people at a party; their response is "Oh donut girl" or "She licked a donut!"
But i think enough time has passed, i was praying for Be Alright to be a surprise performance at Grammys but that's wishful thinking.
Scooter always revolves his artists era's around award shows. Justin was VMA's/AMA's. So it's looking likely Ari will be BBMA and IHR.
TL;DR i need you guys to help me get through this.