[RatedG²]

Originally posted by Haburo

correlation ≠ causation



Any scientist will tell you this.

Thanks for your input but one of the first lines in the Op says "probably yes" so I don't see a need for your little comment up there

[B'Day]

Originally posted by Bright

This.
Shows that you're actually racist and shallow.

This. If someone says, 'I don't like black girls' (as I'm one) I'm literally like okay bye.
I'm not gonna make it my life mission to try and convert you because there's more to someone than the ****ing colour of their skin and if you can't see that, that's your problem -- not mine

[RatedG²]

Originally posted by Jan

I completely disagree with this.

Race is like a trait we have whether we like it or not. So is being well-built or skinny. So is being tall or short. So is having beady eyes, a long forehead or balding at an early age.

It's completely okay to not find men attractive because of such traits.

👀

[B'Day]

Originally posted by Jan

I completely disagree with this.

Race is like a trait we have whether we like it or not. So is being well-built or skinny. So is being tall or short. So is having beady eyes, a long forehead or balding at an early age.

It's completely okay to not find men attractive because of such traits.

However, writing such information on a Tinder/Grindr profile is rude.

Mess, so you think it's okay to generalise an entire race and insist you'll never date a(n) [insert race] person? Poor you, literally.

[Saeju]

Originally posted by Jan

I completely disagree with this.

Race is like a trait we have whether we like it or not. So is being well-built or skinny. So is being tall or short. So is having beady eyes, a long forehead or balding at an early age.

It's completely okay to not find men attractive because of such traits.

With this logic you are completely outing your racist intent. You're basically telling me that it is ok to prefer one over the other based on their skin color. How is this not racism? Stop sugar-coating it with this preference BS.

[J a y]

Originally posted by Saeju

With this logic you are completely outing your racist intent. You're telling me you prefer one over the other based on their skin color? How is this not racism? Stop sugar-coating it with this preference BS.

It's not a matter of thought, it's emotion. One can be accepting of all races but not find one attractive.

[stronger23]

I'm rare, I'm attracted to personality before anything .

[B'Day]

Originally posted by J a y

It's not a matter of thought, it's emotion. One can be accepting of all races but not find one attractive.

But could you explain how you can find an entire race unattractive?

[Lararen]

Originally posted by Jan

I completely disagree with this.

Race is like a trait we have whether we like it or not. So is being well-built or skinny. So is being tall or short. So is having beady eyes, a long forehead or balding at an early age.

It's completely okay to not find men attractive because of such traits.

However, writing such information on a Tinder/Grindr profile is rude.

As long as you agree that you are racist

[Jan]

Originally posted by B'Day

Mess, so you think it's okay to generalise an entire race and insist you'll never date a(n) [insert race] person? Poor you, literally.

It is okay. Because a large part of dating is about finding the other part attractive.

Do I insist I'll never date a person of a different race? No, I never said that. I just said it's okay to do this. I wouldn't find "no whites" racist, offensive or whatever else you can think of.

[B'Day]

Originally posted by stronger23

I'm rare, I'm attracted to personality before anything .

Then we need more people like you. Never change pls

[♚ PRiNCE HiGH ♚]

It IS RACISM.

[Lippy]

Just because some race doesn't attract me and I'm not searching for people of this race, it doesn't mean I am racist / don't like this race etc.

The same can be said about fat people. I have no problem with them, but I'm not physically attracted to them.

Most of u people here on ATRL call EVERYTHING racist.

+ I'm sure if a black man would put "not whites" you would call it preference.

[B'Day]

Originally posted by Jan

It is okay. Because a large part of dating is about finding the other part attractive.

Do I insist I'll never date a person of a different race? No, I never said that. I just said it's okay to do this. I wouldn't find "no whites" racist, offensive or whatever else you can think of.

Skin colour doesn't make you unattractive or attractive. There's way more to that. Body shape, facial features and most of all -- personality. We're all conditioned to believe white is right.

[Saeju]

Originally posted by J a y

It's not a matter of thought, it's emotion. One can be accepting of all races but not find one attractive.

That person isn't as open as they thought then. Finding a whole race unattractive due to skin colors and possibly the stereotypes attached to them, despite how DIVERSE the community is, is racist. Sorry.

[SebaMonster]

It's obviously racism when it's always minorities.

[stronger23]

But the crazy thing about this , there are black ppl with "only white" and white ppl with "only black" lol

[Satan]

Originally posted by stronger23

I'm attracted to personality .

yay twins

[J a y]

I've never dated a black man. Have I been with a black man, yes. But have I slept with one, no. I have black friends who have never slept with a black person either as they prefer white people. All of this racism talk on issues that are minute to the bigger picture just frankly offends me (not personally, but because I'm so against discrimination). Racism is a serious issue and when people batter on and make it an issue in the gay community when it's a far greater one actually annoys me.

It's not about gay people, it's about people in general. There are actual racists in this world and you have people raging over a few hopeless queens on a dating app. Just block them. In real life, punch them in the face. It's pretty simple. Stop crying.

[Blue Jeans]

Originally posted by stronger23

"Preference" mean you prefer but are open to, saying "no blacks" "no asians" ...you clearly have a race issue .

This
There are sexual preferences, but saying "no blacks, no asians" is just nasty. I wouldn't want to meet that person (I'm white)