Asians don't want to be white. Don't paint your insecurities on them
I think it depends. There's definitely been a western influence in modern Asian cosmetics - white celebrities being seen as ideal forms of beauty etc. Surgery to "open up" the eyes are becoming popular in Korea, China and Japan.
You can't deny Asian girls who dye their hair blonde and ginger aren't influence by white appearances.
The Ideal Husband is Father John Misty his best song
I came by at seven in the morning
Seven in the morning, seven in the morning
I came by at seven in the morning
I said, "Baby, I'm finally succumbing"
Said something dumb like "I'm tired of running
Tired of running, tired of running"
Let's put a baby in the oven
Wouldn't I make the ideal husband?
And many of them were forcibly kidnapped and taken by force..? It doesn't justify anything
And what about the Native Americans/Indigenous people?
They brutally conquered, enslaved and slaughtered each other too. The Incan Empire for example only existed for a couple of hundred years as a huge empire before the Spanish arrived, as they had BRUTALLY conquered the other civilizations in the area. Why do we draw the "this is evil colonialism" line at the Spanish? Or if we start treating non-white people as equally responsible for their actions will that subvert the evil whitey narrative?
Which means life will suck no matter where you are 