I personally don't think kids should be encouraged to think that they are the opposite gender. Getting them a barbie doll or letting them dress up is fine but actually getting a kid to think that they are the opposite gender is only going to set them up for failure. Like I don't agree with a 5 year old identifying as transgendered.
Alaia will know that she is capable of any and everything, that she should not let her self be subject to misogyny, that her gender does not limit her and that Gloria Steinem is G0D.