Some of you acting like a bunch of bozos, forever arguing in circles.
There are different KINDS of privileges. There are white privileges, straight privileges, male privileges. Being either in the majority or in the more authoritative group bares privilege with it. You can be a gay male and be privileged, in some regards. You can be a white woman and be privileged. But there is no gay privilege, for example, because privileges do not exist for those who are in the minority or oppressed group. Why is that difficult to understand?
Also, the reason you see **** like "no femmes" on Grindr profiles popping up is because society has been sexist and chauvinistic for so long. Society is patriarchal and favors masculine traits. This mentality has trickled down from generation to generation, even being present in oppressed minorities. We need to strive for a more equal-minded and fair society with less biases. That's the bottom line.