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Originally posted by ezra
It's this fantasy that I have that I'll find my Mr. Big. It'll work out I just have to be diligent. And, I don't mean me being a mooch/sugarbaby. I just mean like someone who's not tied to their monthly payments on some giant ball of eternal debt
Like, I went on a date with a guy who admitted to me he had 100K in debt with a BSW in Graphical Design. He's unemployed.
Next.
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Are you GAINFULLY (not Starbucks) employed yourself? Do you have zero debt?
If the answer to both questions is 'yes', then fair enough.
If the answer to either is 'no', then my advice is: become what you want to date before judging and discarding people because they don't fit your expectations that you have not fulfilled yourself yet.
Don't be like Rihanna and her writing camps. It's like being a $lave to others.