The way you just went along with it
They were gone by Material Girl though

It was probably not long after Ghosttown that they left. The song was such a perverse monstrosity to them in multiple ways - the title itself speaks to the crushing emptiness that defines what an unimaginative person might refer to as their "relationship" - relationship

As if relating to one another was ever a factor in the aborted fetus of A Life Together they represent

- the lyrics themselves, about finding strength and second chances in each other's love... that was the moment of clarity.
He wore that white denim sleeveless shirt even though it's so not his style and he has no tone in his arms, because he wanted to excite Fozzie the Bear. He wanted to make him feel SOMETHING, so that he HIMSELF could feel something. It hit him right then and there - "My happiness is completely wrapped up in the happiness of a man that I don't even know how to make happy."
I'm just transcribing his thoughts, no one ever accused him of being D.H. Lawrence.