One of my friends said it best as, they don't see a male or female sign when you walk up to a toilet door. They see a Penis and Vagina door, sad but true. And they are quite happy to see it that way.
and im actually 8 years older. yea were in different places in our lives but at the same time thats what makes it interesting we live in 2 different worlds but he talks to me about his life and i talk to him about mine