You don't have to read it I know it's a bit much
She is seriously unbearable. The biggest hypocrite and asshole I've ever met. She's racist, homophobic, transphobic, sexist and ageist. She always blames everything on me and tries to pick a fight. If you disagree with her on something, she'll raise her voice, get mad and nearly shout over you. If you question her stupid opinions, she say "Omg I can have my opinions!!1!!" If you call her out on anything, she'll make a scene.
She said black people are lazy, they smell, they use the government for money and a lot of them cry racism when they don't get what they want. We watched a movie about a girl who was a slave to an English family and she said she probably has it better there than in her country. After I called her out on her racism, she tried to defend herself by saying racist people hate all black people and want to harm them. I got strong Nicki teas when this older woman who pissed her off at work called another worker a 'big black dog' and she was all like "omg that's racist, how can they accept that, she should be kicked out" but never mentioned it before that woman pissed her off.
A few weeks ago we watched Scream 3 and she looked up David Arquette and saw his sister. The first thing she said was 'that's not a woman'. I said she is now and then she went on to say how trans women 'could have a dick down there' and how she finds them disgusting. I asked her why and she got defensive saying "It's my opinion, I don't have to accept everything!!1!!"
Every time there are two guys kissing in a show or movie she says ew but she had no problem watching The L Word. The ****ing hypocrisy She said gays shouldn't adopt because their child will get bullied. So I guess the solution is to not let them adopt, instead of parents teaching their kids not to bully because they have a different family. She thinks it's more acceptable for lesbians to adopt (for no good reason) and that only maybe 1 person in my class would agree with gays adopting. She once said that only a gay man would play a role like Sheldon Cooper (Jim Parsons, The Big Bang Theory) probably just cause he's very weird. She googled him and was all like "oh he doesn't look gay in this picture but you can tell in this one!" Bitch you can't 'tell' who's gay. She "can't look" at guys doing hand flips too.
Her opinions on gender roles are some 1920's ****. She thinks men have to do things around the house, be able to fix things, pay for their family, be masculine and it's embarrassing if they don't. to her, a stay-at-home dad should be embarrassed too. She said woman usually take care of the kids and cook but it's acceptable if they don't.
She hates Christians who are overly religious and Muslims. Once time there was a woman completely covered up in clothes at a hotel we were staying in. She was sitting across from us so my mother purposely unbuttoned 2 buttons in her shirt to piss her off but nothing happened.
She said she's the type of person who admits that she's wrong but everything is always blamed on me, here are a few examples:
Me: Let's go take the metro (I though she would know they way since she planned the trip)
Her: Alright
Me: Where do we go now?
Her: I don't know, you wanted to take the metro!
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She couldn't find the way and had to take the long route
Her: It's your fault cause you wouldn't let me on the laptop!
I let her on it a lot but she couldn't even admit it was her fault we got lost
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Me: Why didn't we take pictures at the beach?
Her: Because you kept taking your iPod with you
Me: What does that have to do with my question?
Her: *ignores question*
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Me: Why didn't you get in the water
Her: Because you kept taking your iPod and it could get stolen
Me: But you could go alone
Her: I don't like swimming alone
I always took my iPod cause the water was freezing and the waves were huge. Everyday she said she wasn't sure if she'd go in so I always took my iPod.
When she comes home from work she always complains about me, the she complains about work, then again about me cause I don't listen to her. We made a deal that I'd do the dishes at the end of the day but when she comes home she yells cause they're not done, how much complaining can I take? She could talk about work or about something that's gonna be happening in a few months for 2 hours and if I don't listen to everything she says she'll get mad. Bitch I'm not your ****ing boyfriend but you'd swear I was with the way you treat me. She doesn't give me any privacy, like one time I was writing an article for Create A Label on ATRL and she just looks at my laptop for a few seconds and reads what I'm writing. I hardly ever get to use my credit card because she either always has it or checks it and complains I spend too much of my money.
At 4 we were at Notre Dame and I wanted to go inside. She said we don't have time because we're going to the Catacombs. I wasn't happy but we moved on. We got lost and she said "oh it's fine even if we make it there at 6" so I asked her why we didn't go into Notre Dame and she backtracked and made up excuses. I said she lives in her own little world (I mean she only thinks 1/28 people are fine with gays adopting when it's actually about 20/28). She made a scene and threatened to go back home. Obviously she didn't and an hour later she went on a full on rant about how I'm an asshole and I treat her terribly because I call her fat, say she smells (all of those are jokes), how I don't wanna drink from the bottle after her (sorry I don't want your STD infested spit in my drink) or wouldn't rub the dead skin off her back when she got sun burned. She went on to talk about all the things she buys me but she doesn't realise that money doesn't make her a good person (we're not that rich anyway). She said she doesn't judge people (and apparently I do) but that's literally all she does. "Look at how fat she is. Look at those toes. Omg her ass looks like this *does impression*"
In the morning we were getting ready to leave and my grandmother told her to cheer up and she had a fit. She said she's not going out with me and she's not gonna pretend to be happy. My grandmother told her that we all came her so we should all go together. She started bringing up stuff from 2 days ago when we were at an amusement park and we didn't want to go on all the rides she wanted to go on. She's compared us going out together to us being scared to go on rides that go upside down and ****. She actually played the victim and nearly started crying saying she doesn't want to go with me and blaming it on herself so my grandmother would pity her. A few minutes after y grandmother begged me to apologise and I didn't want to but I did it (it didn't mean anything to me). I stood still while she wrapped my mother's hands around me. We went out and I asked if I could go back home. they're probably talking about me and how awful I am, and that professional victim is probably turning my grandmother against me.
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