For me, it's the personality. Atrl loves strong personalities to stand out, but there is a spectrum of the definition of strong here. Your personality tends to be on the extreme and can easily turn a lot of people off. That's when it starts off, and then when you don't make something the strong personality gets 5x worse and you result to, in a sense, attacking. It's compared to when a spoiled child's parent finally says no to a cookie and they throw an extreme tantrum. For me it's those stuff that you need to work on.
You want me to stop my fake anger issues?
It brings viewers though