Are there other relevant gays, though? Like truly and actually in the moder sphere? Maybe Lambert qualifies.
Anyway, that's not at all the biggest problem I have with him, though I still think it's awful. My issue with him and his pronouns really came about when he neutered How Will I Know. How could you do something like that?
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