It doesn't matter what the song or its remix is actually about, it is well reported in the media that it is about Katy so in the eyes of everyone who isn't a Taylor Swift fan the song remains about Katy. You can argue for the rest of time that it isn't meant to be about Katy, that doesn't change the fact a large part of its initial publicity came from the media talking about it being about Katy.
Taylor could've easily stopped all that with a simple "The media always tries to put women against each other - ONLY the album track is me attacking a woman, the single is me attacking men again for the 50th time, duh.

" or a "I lied in my original interview for attention, the song has never been about a female" - pretty sure that never happened?
The video is clearly about a female friend turning on Taylor and Taylor going out for revenge though. Unless it was a coming out video and I missed all the discussion on it?