I'm never the one to ask my friends to meetup cause i'm scared they're gonna say no
So I wait for them to ask me and if they don't then I just don't go out
I get so filled with dread and anxiety leading up to social gatherings that I never really want to go to them unless I'm pressured by someone else. I'm usually fine once I'm there and rarely does anything ever go wrong enough to warrant the worry, but I still can never shake the anxiety.
Me (but not at parties, I don't go to any, basically just in general)
I hate planning meetups with friends because they always bail out on me at the last minute even after I had been trying to find out their schedules weeks in advance. But whenever they plan things when I'm gone they can get together that day and not have any problems.
I hate planning meetups with friends because they always bail out on me at the last minute even after I had been trying to find out their schedules weeks in advance. But whenever they plan things when I'm gone they can get together that day and not have any problems.
not trying to make you paranoid but it kind of sounds like they're trying to ditch you on purpose