I'm 19 almost 20

and still a virgin.. where I'm from there was no gay people and since moving to Uni in September there is a few, and I've had interest but I just don't want to lose it with someone who will mean nothing/someone who just wants to use me to relieve themselves. This is a reason why I'm not a member of a app either because when it happens, it happens its just hard to find a gay person who is looking for a relationship (Don't necessary want one but if it happens, it happens) rather than sleeping buddies (which I don't want to be).
Don't worry about it, it will probably happen when you're not expecting it.