[pablozedd]

People here may see no problem but there's a lot of idiots all there that think being virgin is something to be ashamed of.

[BadBitches]

Originally posted by Tymps.

Of course, like why haven't you been shoving any genitalia inside your orifices? Reconsider your life choices and priorities.

[Ressti]

Originally posted by Giselle

The uppity girls who don't get dick and somehow think it makes them special

They are special.

[Dragonfly]

Virgin at 20

I've had the opportunity to lose my virginity, but with people I had just met. And that just doesn't feel right.
I'm not necessarily waiting for "the love of my life", but just someone who I like and trust enough

Sometimes I feel proud, sometimes I feel ashamed.
Whatever, my time will come when it comes

[Princedele21]

Not some putas thinking they are cool because they get some d1cks everyday.

[Retro]

Eh. Depends on the person - you can't just judge everyone who's a virgin past 20 without knowing whether it's intentional or if there's a reason etc.

[Mezter]

Originally posted by Tymps.

This exactly! I get if you want to wait for a couple years after most people are starting to have sex in middle school but after that it's just pathetic. All of my friends in middle school talked about all the girls from other schools they had sex with all the time, and how good it was. They were having sex three times a day, and they were 13. If you're 20+ and not having sex it's disgusting.

Just because people don't have sex doesn't mean they're disgusting

EDIT: Oh, was this sarcastic?

[TasteOfYourLips]

No. It's not weird at all. Remember girls, people often lie about their losing their virginity because society puts pressure on young people to feel somewhat ashamed if they hadn't lost it, especially men. I'm one of the few girls on my year at uni and men like to confess different things to me because they don't really have anyone sincere and understanding to talk to unless they have some childhood friends. It's common that they brag in public how many girls they had when in fact they are virgins.

[Bey_Rihstan]

Originally posted by Giselle

The uppity girls who don't get dick and somehow think it makes them special

Most girls could get dick if they wanted to and very easily

Do you realize how thirsty most guys are

[KareBear]

Originally posted by beautiful player

If you ain't riding that cawk by the age of 17, it means you booty stank of dique repellant. Y'all girls need to re-evaluaTe your life choices. Abstinence is not in season.

Some people take pride in the fact that they don't have a prolapsed anus sis

[Exotic]

Originally posted by BLaCKPoWeR

No. It is the right thing to be.

Sex is overrated.

Wait til you get married.

Wow, yeah. Case closed.

[Princedele21]

Originally posted by Tymps.

This exactly! I get if you want to wait for a couple years after most people are starting to have sex in middle school but after that it's just pathetic. All of my friends in middle school talked about all the girls from other schools they had sex with all the time, and how good it was. They were having sex three times a day, and they were 13. If you're 20+ and not having sex it's disgusting.

Nice fairy tale, but remember to get them receipts first.

[Bey_Rihstan]

Originally posted by beautiful player

If you ain't riding that cawk by the age of 17, it means you booty stank of dique repellant. Y'all girls need to re-evaluaTe your life choices. Abstinence is not in season.

Poor us for not being loose (In more ways than one)

[Guernica]

Originally posted by Bey_Rihstan

Most girls could get dick if they wanted to and very easily

Do you realize how thirsty most guys are

pretty much any person with a V can get sex if they want. it doesn't mean you're hot ****, you just give it up easier than the other girls

[musicfan09]

No, not at all.

Everyone perched in this thread though

[ks_dollar]

Originally posted by Giselle

The uppity girls who don't get dick and somehow think it makes them special

[BadHabits]

Originally posted by Dragonfly

Virgin at 20

I've had the opportunity to lose my virginity, but with people I had just met. And that just doesn't feel right.
I'm not necessarily waiting for "the love of my life", but just someone who I like and trust enough

Sometimes I feel proud, sometimes I feel ashamed.
Whatever, my time will come when it comes

This is how I feel.

I've struggled with Autism, depression, bullying, anxiety, my sexuality (still not out), self-esteem and trust issues and I have legit reasons for being a virgin and for waiting to have sex with someone I like (not necessarily love), feel comfortable and trust.

Only now at work am I talking openly about my sexuality and what I want from a relationship and what I look for in a guy, that's progress and you can't fault progress.

If you feel ready, comfortable and confident to lose your virginity at 14/15, then more power to you, but I wasn't ready back then and only in the last 2-3 years, have I slowly becoming confident to have sex with a guy.

[vamp]

I had a lot of self confidence before I lost my virginity, now it's the opposite. You could also look up to other people who kept their virginities for a long time such as famous writer Hans Christian Andersen who was a virgin up until his death I think.

[MattyTacos]

Not at all

[Retro]

Originally posted by Tymps.

This exactly! I get if you want to wait for a couple years after most people are starting to have sex in middle school but after that it's just pathetic. All of my friends in middle school talked about all the girls from other schools they had sex with all the time, and how good it was. They were having sex three times a day, and they were 13. If you're 20+ and not having sex it's disgusting.

Um...

Only 16% of teens have had sex by age 15, compared with one-third of those aged 16, nearly half (48%) of those aged 17, 61% of 18-year-olds and 71% of 19-year-olds. There is little difference by gender in the timing of first sex. May 1, 2014

http://www.guttmacher.org/pubs/FB-ATSRH.html

Y'all can just STOP with the "most people are starting in middle school" crap, because this isn't the first time I've seen that outright lie. It's creepy and wildly inaccurate when only half do anything before their last year of high school, and y'all just using it to be judgmental toward people who might not actually even want to **** anyone - and whose not doing anyone is not your business to judge.

Asexuality is a thing. Religion and faith are things. Sometimes, people just don't meet anyone who fits their exact standards and desires. Some people are gays in small towns (hint: a lot of ATRL virgins probably fall into that).

Y'all can do what you want and I'm not even going to pretend I don't want to do **** too, but lying and then judging and generalizing? Ew. No.