Luke and Austin it is one thing for you to not like loud attention seeking sassy people. Okay fine I get that but that has absolutely nothing to do with being effeminate or not. Like what kind of **** logic
i guess not? i mean the only reason i said that is because being effeminate and sassy and loud are just all part of a certain type of gay that exists. that's really the only type of person that i meant. i didn't even mean people outside of that
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Originally posted by posh
Being "loud" is not exclusive to being effeminate. That is the silliest thing I have ever heard. Just say that you don't get along well with people who are extremely out-going and have out there personalities. There are a lot of effeminate gays that are introverts. Like, you're literally just assuming that all effeminate gays are the stereotypical gay you'd see on a reality show or YouTube.
Well I obviously wouldn't like anyone hogging the spotlight for attention.
It would be equally a bit too much for me whether they were male, female, gay, straight etc..
then stop saying "certain gays" or "loud gays" or "over the top gays" and just say people. There's no reason to target only the gay men who act that way.
i guess not? i mean the only reason i said that is because being effeminate and sassy and loud are just all part of a certain type of gay that exists. that's really the only type of person that i meant. i didn't even mean people outside of that
what i love most about atrl is the fact that most gays here are perpetually the victims and demand that people treat them with respect (woo lord if a celebrity hints they don't like gays or if someone uses the f word!), but then they throw around the d word about lesbians like it's nothing, completely unaware that they're basically oppressing themselves by using such derogatory language. the uneducated masses
oh man what now? do you not know what i'm talking about? that personality type that's more noticeably associated with gay men? that's all i meant
and i don't know if more gay or straight people are like that before someone yells at me for that i'm sure they're common too but i just haven't been exposed to nearly as much
That is the silliest thing I have ever heard. Just say that you don't get along well with people who are extremely out-going and have out there personalities. There are a lot of effeminate gays that are introverts. Like, you're literally just assuming that all effeminate gays are the stereotypical gay you'd see on a reality show or YouTube. 
