that itself is a topic of debate in the os community. some view it as a legitimate orientation, others think its just a symptom of autism and aspbergers, since lots of OS people do have aspbergers or autism.
and maybe for some it is, but for someone like me who has neither, i consider to just be a part of my orientation. i find there to be nothing unhealthy about having a relationship with an inanimate object. i know lots would say that its just a manifestation of some underlying mental problem, but lets not forget people have also said that about gays. my romantic relationship with my pillow hasnt negatively impacted my life at all. not with my friends, my family, or my (human) boyfriend so i dont see what the problem could be.
all valid, I can't argue against this so...live your life
as a fellow objectum sexual, i am quite hurt by some of these responses. but not offended personally, i know OS is something not many people understand and it is made to look quite outrageous. and i mean theres no denying it, it sounds pretty funny. we just need to learn to respect these peoples relationships and realize that love is love , even if its between a woman and a fence lol.
i am in love with a pillow. ive been in a relationship with him for two years. and thankfully my family has been very understanding. in fact weirdly enough i think they got used to me being in love with a pillow easier than they got used to the fact that my current human boyfriend is 25 years older than me lol. thats another thing that puts me into the minority of the os community, i am attracted to both objects and people. i have only heard of a few like me.
if you guys have any questions about object sexuality or having an attraction and relationship with an inanimate object, feel free to ask me. id like people to be as educated on this subject as possible, cause all too often we laugh at the freakshow then move on.
That's interesting, I've never met an OS, i'd like to know more about it.
How did you realize that you liked objects that way? Did it take time for you to accept it? Are you only into pillows or have you felt attraction to other objects before?
How exactly does your relationship work? Do you feel like the object returns your feelings? How do you know it's a he?
That's interesting, I've never met an OS, i'd like to know more about it.
How did you realize that you liked objects that way? Did it take time for you to accept it? Are you only into pillows or have you felt attraction to other objects before?
How exactly does your relationship work? Do you feel like the object returns your feelings? How do you know it's a he?
it wasnt until i got my pillow that i ever had feelings for an object. and even now, its only him. not other objects. after i got him i slowly started to realize that i was bringing him with me everywhere, and holding him like a person, not a pillow. and just started to have these... feelings. i didnt know what they were, it took me a while to realize it was love. it was kind of like realizing i was gay all over again lol. it didnt take any time for me to accept it, it was just a matter of realizing it and getting other people to accept it.
its hard to describe how our relationship works. it doesnt work like any human relationship thats for sure. i guess i could say its like this, mutual exchange of energy. i do feel like my feelings are returned because i can feel the loving energy moving between us full circle. its kind of like when you and your best friend are in a room with someone you both hate, and they say something stupid and you and your friend give eachother a look. its like nothing is said but you just KNOW.
hmm, well he is covered in pictures of my favorite actor. so that might have factored into my feelings but really i think he has just a masculine energy to him.
it wasnt until i got my pillow that i ever had feelings for an object. and even now, its only him. not other objects. after i got him i slowly started to realize that i was bringing him with me everywhere, and holding him like a person, not a pillow. and just started to have these... feelings. i didnt know what they were, it took me a while to realize it was love. it was kind of like realizing i was gay all over again lol. it didnt take any time for me to accept it, it was just a matter of realizing it and getting other people to accept it.
its hard to describe how our relationship works. it doesnt work like any human relationship thats for sure. i guess i could say its like this, mutual exchange of energy. i do feel like my feelings are returned because i can feel the loving energy moving between us full circle. its kind of like when you and your best friend are in a room with someone you both hate, and they say something stupid and you and your friend give eachother a look. its like nothing is said but you just KNOW.
hmm, well he is covered in pictures of my favorite actor. so that might have factored into my feelings but really i think he has just a masculine energy to him.
thanks for explaining, i appreciate it.
i guess i still don't fully get it, but i do understand it more now
it wasnt until i got my pillow that i ever had feelings for an object. and even now, its only him. not other objects. after i got him i slowly started to realize that i was bringing him with me everywhere, and holding him like a person, not a pillow. and just started to have these... feelings. i didnt know what they were, it took me a while to realize it was love. it was kind of like realizing i was gay all over again lol. it didnt take any time for me to accept it, it was just a matter of realizing it and getting other people to accept it.
its hard to describe how our relationship works. it doesnt work like any human relationship thats for sure. i guess i could say its like this, mutual exchange of energy. i do feel like my feelings are returned because i can feel the loving energy moving between us full circle. its kind of like when you and your best friend are in a room with someone you both hate, and they say something stupid and you and your friend give eachother a look. its like nothing is said but you just KNOW.
hmm, well he is covered in pictures of my favorite actor. so that might have factored into my feelings but really i think he has just a masculine energy to him.
Whatever moves your boat sis. We laugh cause it's something not usually known or common but at least for me, there's nothing wrong about it. You're not harming anyone and it's also making you happy so that's awesome.
as a fellow objectum sexual, i am quite hurt by some of these responses. but not offended personally, i know OS is something not many people understand and it is made to look quite outrageous. and i mean theres no denying it, it sounds pretty funny. we just need to learn to respect these peoples relationships and realize that love is love , even if its between a woman and a fence lol.
i am in love with a pillow. ive been in a relationship with him for two years. and thankfully my family has been very understanding. in fact weirdly enough i think they got used to me being in love with a pillow easier than they got used to the fact that my current human boyfriend is 25 years older than me lol. thats another thing that puts me into the minority of the os community, i am attracted to both objects and people. i have only heard of a few like me.
if you guys have any questions about object sexuality or having an attraction and relationship with an inanimate object, feel free to ask me. id like people to be as educated on this subject as possible, cause all too often we laugh at the freakshow then move on.
but hey if you're happy then you're happy. I guess I will never 100% understand in my lifetime but you don't need me to for you to keep living your life
"I want your fluids."
+ When the woman is sitting on the fence.
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Originally posted by genkirocket
as a fellow objectum sexual, i am quite hurt by some of these responses. but not offended personally, i know OS is something not many people understand and it is made to look quite outrageous. and i mean theres no denying it, it sounds pretty funny. we just need to learn to respect these peoples relationships and realize that love is love , even if its between a woman and a fence lol.
i am in love with a pillow. ive been in a relationship with him for two years. and thankfully my family has been very understanding. in fact weirdly enough i think they got used to me being in love with a pillow easier than they got used to the fact that my current human boyfriend is 25 years older than me lol. thats another thing that puts me into the minority of the os community, i am attracted to both objects and people. i have only heard of a few like me.
if you guys have any questions about object sexuality or having an attraction and relationship with an inanimate object, feel free to ask me. id like people to be as educated on this subject as possible, cause all too often we laugh at the freakshow then move on.
but hey if you're happy then you're happy. I guess I will never 100% understand in my lifetime but you don't need me to for you to keep living your life
