Sometimes, I want to put myself out there and meet a cute boy and hopefully eventually find a boyfriend. But every time I get to thinking about it, I immediately get paranoid and worry that I'll lose my weekends/free-time of binge eating while binge watching shows on Netflix and being in comfy clothes all day and it just never seems worth giving up
If anything, you'll just gain more weekends and free time and being in comfy clothes all day. And the person you'll be with will do the same
Sometimes, I want to put myself out there and meet a cute boy and hopefully eventually find a boyfriend. But every time I get to thinking about it, I immediately get paranoid and worry that I'll lose my weekends/free-time of binge eating while binge watching shows on Netflix and being in comfy clothes all day and it just never seems worth giving up
omg I feel the same way. I love my alone time so if I were with someone I'd be like can I have one day out of the week where we don't talk or see each other at all just so I can have some time to myself lounging around doing nothing. Is that terrible
So I have a YouTube Channel where I upload new music, lyric videos, performances, etc and it's sooo annoying because I uploaded this new song first on YouTube and there's this one bitch today (it's been on for 2 days) who took my EXACT video with the picture and audio pitched a little and re-uploaded it themselves.
That video only has 45 views for them, though. So annoying.
So I have a YouTube Channel where I upload new music, lyric videos, performances, etc and it's sooo annoying because I uploaded this new song first on YouTube and there's this one bitch today (it's been on for 2 days) who took my EXACT video with the picture and audio pitched a little and re-uploaded it themselves.
That video only has 45 views for them, though. So annoying.
Let me find and flag your channel for not following the copyright rules.
The “damage” to people like Perkins and others who claim SSM is “harmful” to heterosexual marriage (and kids) is that they cannot stand to see gay couples joyously getting married and living happily as spouses, while their own marriages have been devoid of joy, love, happiness and sex for years; there’s also a good chance that many of them only got married in the first place because they were on business end of a shotgun being held by a knocked-up girlfriend’s daddy. Also I’d wager that for a good number of them are closet cases who only got married to a woman because their jeebus told them they had to, and the sight of gay couples living happily and openly terrifies them because it forces them to realize that their entire lives have been a lie, because they chose to believe in a twisted religion that forces them to deny their orientation.
As far as the kid thing goes, far too many of these bigots equate being gay or lesbian with being a pedophile, which leads me to think that they are either extremely ignorant, or they were themselves unfortunately abused by pedophiles when they were children, and have never received justice or the proper counseling to recover from the abuse. (Or might even have pedophile tendencies themselves….eeewwwww……and they are projecting all over the place….)
If anything, I would wager that gays and lesbians are, on the whole, probably better parents than many heterosexuals, because they tend to be better educated and have higher incomes, and because they have consciously choosen to be parents and go through the very difficult processes of fostering, adopting, artificial insemination, surrogacy, etc. Meanwhile, far too many heterosexuals are only “parents” because the condom broke, or because they had a few too many drinks and got a little too friendly in the back of a pickup truck, or because they lacked the education and self-awareness to use birth control properly. And their parenting skills (or lack thereof; witness the extremely high rates of child abuse among heterosexual parents) reflect that.
One of my chiormates is a lesbian who has helped raise her partner’s daughter (from a prior marriage to a man) since she was five years old; the girl is now a bright, vivacious high school senior with a 4.0 grade point average and lacrosse skills that have her considering scholarship offers from several prestigious universities. One of my co-workers is a gay man who, together with his partner, adopted a biracial brother and sister out of foster care several years ago, and they are two of the most adorable, amazing, happy kids you will ever meet. These kids had some major issues, thanks to a meth-addict biological father and a biological mother with serious mental illness, but five years later, they are positively thriving. They have gone from being behind grade level in school to being ahead of grade level! And yet somehow Perkins and his ilk believe these two are being somehow “harmed” because a gay couple is raising them? Does he honestly believe they would somehow be better off with their dysfunctional, sorry excuses for biological “parents?” And if heterosexual parents are so much better, how come no “good christian” heterosexual couples would adopt these kids? (According to their case worker, no heterosexual parents wanted them because of “baggage” or because they would not “fit in with their other (white) children.”) I am not saying all gay parents are saints, but the ones I met are far better parents than many of the heterosexual parents I have had the (dis)pleasure of knowing.
I was going to the bathroom just minding my own business when all of a sudden I hear this bzzzing noise and lo and behold there's a freaking wasp flying around. So I'm trying to finish up while franticly avoiding getting stung going to the bathroom should not be this difficult jfc
Cause I have too. 
