[cshumate]

Originally posted by King Maxx

But that's exactly what Nicki is doing. Waiting until after her 5 albums.

maybe she is, but this discussion just comes off as sexist to me. Nobody would be like "Justin Timberlake's next album would be such a big hit if he fathered a baby next year."

[cshumate]

Originally posted by MMMinaj

There is nothing wrong with Nicki having kids when she is in her late 30's. There is nothing wrong with any woman, having kids in their late 30's.

absolutely not. Most people have good reasons for waiting as long as they do, doing it as soon as they want to, having the number of kids they want, etc. i think it is perfectly respectable to plan having kids based on careers and age. It is a little riskier biologically starting in the late 30s and 40s, but generally it's not a problem and that is when many people are more financially stable. Nicki would be just fine no matter what she did though, especially if she continued to have a career in the future after having kids.

[King Maxx]

Originally posted by cshumate

maybe she is, but this discussion just comes off as sexist to me. Nobody would be like "Justin Timberlake's next album would be such a big hit if he fathered a baby next year."

This is how the Barbz are. Thinking we're apart of Nicki's personal life when we aren't.

We're like that annoying relative that keeps asking when you're getting married/having kids. Not sexist at all. Just fans who wants the best for Nicki.

[cshumate]

Originally posted by King Maxx

This is how the Barbz are. Thinking we're apart of Nicki's personal life when we aren't.

We're like that annoying relative that keeps asking when you're getting married/having kids. Not sexist at all. Just fans who wants the best for Nicki.

I appreciate that explanation. I can understand that for sure. Just wanted to comment that because some people might sometimes be offensive with their line of thinking. People who have the best intentions might occasionally be racist/sexist/etc and not realize it. As an outsider that's how it came off to me. although I'm a huge fan of Nicki's I don't really follow the stan culture for her the same as I do for others.

[richa70]

Everyone jams too lil Kim hot ***** remix. Ugh nicki should've remixed it

[Willy.]

Originally posted by richa70

Everyone jams too lil Kim hot ***** remix. Ugh nicki should've remixed it

WHO is jamming to that remix?

Everybody is listening to the original. Nicki is busy with her album and making moves in the fashion community. She's aight.

[richa70]

Originally posted by Willy.

WHO is jamming to that remix?

Everybody is listening to the original. Nicki is busy with her album and making moves in the fashion community. She's aight.

Don't discredit. I heard it various of times but OBVIOUSLY the original is more played. Unlike Chi raq .

[Kane]

[Kings.]

Originally posted by Kane

Nicki is looking good

[Diar7]

Originally posted by slw84

Where the bleep are your facts coming from? the 1800s

Nicki will have 3 kids (I think she said that before and probably start in the next few years and stop like at 42.

If Halle can do it at 46...

Originally posted by King Maxx

Halle Berry did it. Lil Kim is 40 and just had a baby.

So what? lol
I never said no one can ever do it, I just said that I don't think it's the best decision. I personally wouldn't want my parents to die when I'm ~30.

Originally posted by Slay4you

Having kids at the age of 40 is extremely difficult

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Originally posted by King Maxx

Yeah there isn't anything wrong with it, but I always tell people I know not to wait too long. You don't want your child to be 30 and you're 70/75. Now your child will be just having kids and you'll have to take care of your elderly parents. Spending only 30-40 years with your parents.... I need more time. And lets not forget that she wants more than one.

But that's not the case for everyone so to each his own.

Why did you respond to me like that (the Halle & Kim comment) when you said the exact same thing after?

[Kane]

The average life expectancy for a woman is like 85 years old in the US. So I don't know where you're getting the whole parents dying when you're 30 if they were 40 when conceiving from. Plus Nicki has the money to pay for the best healthcare that could possibly be offered, a luxury not many 85 year olds in the US can afford.

Why is this even a discussion? Nicki could have a child tomorrow but not be able to give it all of the attention she would like to until retiring. So even if they did get less time with her because she decided to wait, they would probably have a much more fulling time. This is such a silly discussion, but of course I allowed myself to get right into it.

[Jimmy.]

Why are y'all arguing about what age Nicki is going to have a baby at? My Dad was 40 when I was born, who cares? As long as the parent can raise the child then why does age matter?

___


I need a TPP pre-order soon

[Kane]

Originally posted by JimmyMinaj

Why are y'all arguing about what age Nicki is going to have a baby at? My Dad was 40 when I was born, who cares? As long as the parent can raise the child then why does age matter?

Exactly, with Nicki as a parent they kind of have a head start at life regardless.

[Jimmy.]

Originally posted by Kane

Exactly, with Nicki as a parent they kind of have a head start at life regardless.

Exactly


As if it's any of the barbz business what age she has a child anyway!

[OnlyXtina]

The transformation, remember?

[Jimmy.]

I LOVE that look in the SH video!

[Diar7]

Originally posted by Kane

The average life expectancy for a woman is like 85 years old in the US. So I don't know where you're getting the whole parents dying when you're 30 if they were 40 when conceiving from. Plus Nicki has the money to pay for the best healthcare that could possibly be offered, a luxury not many 85 year olds in the US can afford.

Why is this even a discussion? Nicki could have a child tomorrow but not be able to give it all of the attention she would like to until retiring. So even if they did get less time with her because she decided to wait, they would probably have a much more fulling time. This is such a silly discussion, but of course I allowed myself to get right into it.

I was just using it as an example. I still think that parents shouldn't be that old when having a baby (especially with Nicki who wants multiple kids) and nothing will change that.

Originally posted by JimmyMinaj

Why are y'all arguing about what age Nicki is going to have a baby at? My Dad was 40 when I was born, who cares? As long as the parent can raise the child then why does age matter?

Times change, sis. I don't know about where you guys live, but here, most old people are old fashioned and don't understand the modern world, which is frustrating for the children because the people who are supposed to support/understand you the most don't do that. I hope you guys understand what I mean.
Quit judging the way other people think.

Originally posted by JimmyMinaj

Exactly


As if it's any of the barbz business what age she has a child anyway!

Do you always only read what you want or is it special on Sundays? I think it's special 24/7/365, not sure though.
We were just DISCUSSING about it. None of us ever said that we will FORCE Nicki to have kids at a certain age. We were just discussing what we think about it, end of story.
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I swear, you can never discuss something new & fresh here without someone trying to clock/drag you We can discuss whatever we want, whenever we want. If you don't want to join the discussion, DON'T. *drops mic*

[OnlyXtina]

Originally posted by JimmyMinaj

I LOVE that look in the SH video!

Really?

[Diar7]

I like the ponytail look in the SH video the most. When she sings the chorus.

[Kim Kardashian]

Originally posted by JimmyMinaj

I need a TPP pre-order soon

ugh same
I just want album deets, I couldn't care less about the release date seeing as we already knew it was Q4